Episode 16: The Birthday That Took a Village

Episode 17: We chose the magic — and it chose us right back.

For Sophia’s first birthday, we took her on a Disney cruise aboard the Disney Magic. What started as a “she won’t remember it” trip turned into one of the smoothest, most joyful experiences we’ve had as parents. In this episode, we talk about: •Seeing Sophia meet her favorite princess, Belle 🥹 •Letting kids warm up in their own time •Teething struggles at night & joyful days •Choosing presence after a year of survival mode We didn’t cry — not because it wasn’t emotional, but because we were finally having fun. 🎧 Tired. Pero present. Always.

Episode 16: The Birthday That Took a Village

Sophia turned ONE 🥺🤍 In this episode, we’re sharing what Sophia’s first birthday weekend really looked like, from the calm, quiet moments of her actual birthday on December 4th to the beautiful chaos of her party a few days later. We talk about celebrating her birthday in a simple way, finishing decorations with family, making candy cane reindeer, and taking her very last monthly milestone photo (cue all the emotions). We also share what it was like preparing for the party, the stress of last-minute details, and how grateful we were for the people who showed up and jumped in when we needed help most. From cakes made with love to a full house of support, that weekend reminded us that it truly takes a village and that while Sophia may not remember the decorations or the schedule, she will always be surrounded by people who show up for her. This episode is a love letter to our baby girl, our village, and surviving year one as parents — tired, grateful, and present.

Episode 15: Family, Food & Our Cute Shy Girl

Our first Thanksgiving with a baby who is… let’s just say, selectively social. This episode is all about navigating big family gatherings with a tiny human who needs time to warm up, learning to respect her boundaries, and watching her connect on her own terms. We talk about what it was like doing the Thanksgiving three-house marathon, how shockingly smooth it went, and what it actually takes to pack for one day when you have a baby (spoiler: everything but the crib made the trip). But the heart of this episode? I share why I recently added Alanis to my legal name—how it honors the man who adopted me, raised me, and loved me into the person I am. Family isn’t always blood—it’s love, legacy, and the stories we carry forward. We end with gratitude—not the Instagram version—but the kind that feels like home, even in chaos. Tune in, and maybe bring a tissue (and leftover pie).

Episode 14: Identity Crisis: Who Are We Now (Besides Mom & Dad)?

Becoming parents can make you feel like your old self packed up and left with the hospital discharge papers — but the truth is, that version of you is still there (probably covered in baby snacks). In this episode, we talk about how we’ve become Sophia’s entourage, how our personalities haven’t disappeared but evolved, and how we’re learning to keep being us — just with a stroller in tow. From Batman collectibles to bedtime chaos, we’re finding the fun in this new version of identity: Tired, pero still us.

Episode 13: Boo’s First Halloween: Spooky Pero Safe

It’s officially spooky season 👻 and we’re celebrating our first Halloween as parents! This week, we’re talking about costumes, candy, and cultura — from dressing up as Monsters Inc. to reflecting on Día de los Muertos and the memories we want to pass down. Whether you’re a Halloween lover or keeping it lowkey this year, grab your cafecito and join us for a fun, spooky-but-sweet episode of Tired Pero Present. 💀🎃 ✨ Listen now: Tired Pero Present on Spotify & Apple Podcasts #TiredPeroPresent #SpookySeason #FirstHalloween #MillennialParents #DiaDeLosMuertos