a new era in 4,3,2,1...

men are from mars, women are from venus

In this episode, Devyn covers a little bit of everything—because life isn’t just one thing, and neither are we. She starts with a trip down memory lane (RIP summer jobs—where did they go?), then dives into spring cleaning and closet organization because a clear space really does equal a clear mind.  But the heart of this episode? The freedom gap between men and women. After a recent viral video sparked a heated conversation, Devyn shares real comments from both men and women that highlight just how different our experiences truly are. Plus, she talks about finding your niche and staying true to yourself in a world that constantly tries to put you in a box. It’s a mix of nostalgia, self-discovery, and hard truths—let’s get into it. LINKS:  Amazon Storefront [https://www.amazon.com/shop/devynpenney/list/1UVHRZY26OQD6?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_aipsflist_R9ERYR8D8TF50ZZRSH40] Thred Up  [https://www.thredup.com/] Give Back Box [https://www.givebackbox.com/index] FreeCycle [https://www.freecycle.org/] Done & Done Home [https://doneanddonehome.com/] My Substack [https://substack.com/@devynpenney] My Viral Video [https://www.tiktok.com/@devonthedaily] check out the website for more : www.tldher.com [https://www.tldher.com/home]

star power & vibe shifts

zWhat makes someone undeniably magnetic? This week, Devyn dives into the essence of star power.  She's also talking what's trending in...teeth. From ultra-white veneers to the “natural” look making a comeback. What do our smiles say about us, and why are people so obsessed with perfecting them? Most importantly, do we all need grillz? Lastly, Devyn breaks down the art of being a good hostess and why the details of how you welcome people into your space matter. And, of course, we have to address the collective energy shift—why does everything feel so off lately, and what can we do about it? Links:  Aunt Lisa's Playlist [https://open.spotify.com/playlist/5AaRTiZTuK3VTuKuSxFCZM?si=49c78409e4db4819] CB2 Glassware [https://www.cb2.com/dining/drinking-glasses/1?srsltid=AfmBOor9mzY9OLYbhaAqsk_kVgYsnWBXrePoz6FbRxIak-NBzx_xeAF4] IKEA Glassware [https://www.ikea.com/us/en/cat/drinkware-18868/] Amazon Storefront [https://www.amazon.com/shop/devynpenney/list/1UVHRZY26OQD6?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_aipsflist_1R3P1WJGSBB9ZDHP9PTK] check out the website for more : www.tldher.com [https://www.tldher.com/home]

words that shape us

In this episode, Devyn explores the rise of the Independent political party and what it reveals about white women in America. From political shifts to personal choices, she unpacks how women navigate leadership, privilege, and autonomy—and what that means for the rest of us. She also shares her latest self-care obsessions, including her favorite new manicure hack and the zodiac app she can’t get enough of. Plus, she breaks down her oral hygiene routine and go-to products—because the small, everyday habits matter more than we think. Lastly, Devyn dives into the power of language, why the way we speak to young women is so important, and how words shape their confidence, choices, and sense of self. Links:  Amazon Storefront [https://www.amazon.com/shop/devynpenney] 20 Questions [https://substack.com/@devynpenney] check out the website for more : www.tldher.com [https://www.tldher.com/home]

a new era in 4,3,2,1...

In this episode, Devyn debuts her new podcast flow—designed to spark curiosity, share what’s worth paying attention to, and leave you with something to think about.  She’s bringing you 4 observations from the week, 3 genuine recommendations (nothing sponsored, just things she truly loves), answers to 2 anonymous questions, and 1 final reflection to close it all out.  Grab a cup of something good, settle in, and let’s dive in.  Links:  The Artist's Way [https://www.amazon.com/Artists-Way-25th-Anniversary/dp/0143129252/ref=asc_df_0143129252?mcid=140605f80f5731d98f8bbf57da8a82bb&hvocijid=11182516749478609774-0143129252-&hvexpln=73&tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=730434177080&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=11182516749478609774&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9060351&hvtargid=pla-2281435178058&psc=1] Lemon Balm  [https://www.amazon.com/Lemon-Balm-Extract-Immune-Support/dp/B0BG62R57X/ref=sxin_16_pa_sp_search_thematic_sspa?content-id=amzn1.sym.95e4d6bd-d93f-4ee1-9766-ff64f54d2f71%3Aamzn1.sym.95e4d6bd-d93f-4ee1-9766-ff64f54d2f71&crid=2ZLYO2PZZE1D4&cv_ct_cx=lemon+balm&keywords=lemon+balm&pd_rd_i=B0BG62R57X&pd_rd_r=f99d6491-46bd-424d-9d09-b7317a7d5653&pd_rd_w=JCSKD&pd_rd_wg=VEfx7&pf_rd_p=95e4d6bd-d93f-4ee1-9766-ff64f54d2f71&pf_rd_r=S7BG19SN9P5N9HGKVJMW&qid=1741283960&s=books&sbo=RZvfv%2F%2FHxDF%2BO5021pAnSA%3D%3D&sprefix=lemon+bal%2Cstripbooks%2C306&sr=1-3-6024b2a3-78e4-4fed-8fed-e1613be3bcce-spons&sp_csd=d2lkZ2V0TmFtZT1zcF9zZWFyY2hfdGhlbWF0aWM&psc=1] "I'll Have What She's Having" [https://www.amazon.com/Ill-Have-What-Shes-Having/dp/0593596579/ref=sr_1_2?crid=1YDVRDG39FJVM&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.Xs_oEESaExnJotJRsrvRqoF6CU2kmdi32OadffCEFYe6JB_Hw_EK1L4TY6m8cgdrWdLLMvQFYZc8ItNwFHpM3vlRuBMUhD-TIukiP9JcEg-83--kAyZSV4bipHZCyuRYgIpovH9IR2A2pigNJl7MqNqgvKf42Uqw2q7_m49rfFBykpjqg-665CU4c1Cj2khxxHjuI0fAMszRp2CJjm9y8ZYU7EtYqvaPvKUB07f8HH4LUURlxy_KE30vSXdxzX071AvWkMgGj_ptAOQhWG-J9fvbW1ztQpL6PdvuZePBehUK1NugzeJbK6McYGlx_Do_pQxXULLRIbBnoerxYZotaYrctGu7S2PVUstysWJfBRY.CthJ9iQnhpn5Ay3RKIoqIiu9Sorstd6OZT83ghIy2OM&dib_tag=se&keywords=chelsea+handler&qid=1741284003&s=books&sprefix=chelsea+h%2Cstripbooks%2C1558&sr=1-2]  Candle Warmer Lamp [https://www.amazon.com/Adjustable-Warming-Dimmable-Scented-Candles/dp/B0D56D5987/ref=sr_1_3?crid=3LNI71ZDCAF04&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.C_nt3MpENiH3ZZFGTkBaNTlEHTCkBiPUXnxjHMqMmgED1DPQHLwJa9L90LCquFGaWu-Hh0svU7ksOenDMQObDqpuI0RtW9u8xGHrqUKwFDdDeYuSVHY1tKtARdCG5JqxVi80HZRiAHb8NvijHT_B8ZPUzEDu8or1w-V1b5-EQHtwjHAqB1NXzOxkpg9UVg3mLs8MT_NzRieudipWjMdriM1JUCT8uAZuwixOeVDh9cQ.mwaN2ssoXxMZhuTR1T3gxWRtSoPotpAkxxE0PlFx4UI&dib_tag=se&keywords=candle+warmer+lamp+black&qid=1741284073&s=books&sprefix=candle+armer+lamp+black%2Cstripbooks%2C343&sr=1-3] Santal 26 [https://www.lelabofragrances.com/santal-26-33.html?source=shoppingads®ion=US&locale=EN&size=245g&gad_source=1&gclid=CjwKCAiArKW-BhAzEiwAZhWsINybEvu3-HNuRRKlcNWqbxDbwI3GbIcffEC6lbPWjOfUUWEK_mx5nBoC3HQQAvD_BwE] "Radical Self Acceptance" [https://www.amazon.com/Radical-Acceptance-Embracing-Heart-Buddha/dp/0553380990/ref=sr_1_1?crid=28MK5DV3XBYBG&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.g_W8F5UiW86QI61eQ2S4hs0S6_gZ1euLzDPz_ihqpNpko4gW4NZb2-Wu1YGZVAgNcemhYOARIrG4xKRJShWDx3ZBMNU3Wge_OBMTDB-4XqR67Jlfgc-HdvjJ606nPunFkhy6QpI6wkPeXlXWxxfbxxJqlxMiZtsejuK-nKTHO0T42sASDojQPkkPcwhfV_l_h8mk0pdo1LwdCNvgdyWgSYVKOaXzaEp0ZrvdplfFkwY.bMUmRlZMVXO6ukVDRyD-sPd_FwaV8N1Stogajnt-aF4&dib_tag=se&keywords=radical+self+acceptance&qid=1741284111&s=books&sprefix=radical+self+a%2Cstripbooks%2C527&sr=1-1] check out the website for more : www.tldher.com [https://www.tldher.com/home]

Q & A (part one)

Every week, I ask women the same 20 Questions (anonymously)...and at the very end, they have the opportunity to ask me a question of their own.  Today, I'm answering four questions from the incredible women I've interviewed over the last six months. I hope you enjoy this q&a as much as I did!  check out the website for more : www.tldher.com [https://www.tldher.com/home]