Feel, Deal, Heal

Feel, Deal, Heal

In this week's episode of 'Trash is Full', we discuss how we have been coping as a family after our son, Chris, left for the military last week (SPOILER ALERT: it has not been going well!). We also talk through an argument we had that morning and share our reality of what happened. What did we argue about and how did we resolve it? Tune in to find out why Wes said I was being an a**hole. I do cry a little in this episode. You have been warned! Enjoy!

In the Army Now!

In this emotionally charged (and often hilarious) episode of Trash is Full, we delve into our sons decision to join the United States Army (Hooah!) immediately after graduating high school. Embarking on a path less traveled, our son, Chris, opens up about the challenges, sacrifices, and transformative experiences that shaped his journey from an ordinary teenager to a dedicated soldier. Throughout the episode, we explore the various motivations that led Chris to make such a pivotal life choice. Was it a sense of duty and patriotism, a desire for adventure and self-discovery, or perhaps a personal connection to the military? Tune in as we unravel the layers of his decision and gain insight into the profound impact it will have on him and our family. In addition to the personal aspect of our son's journey, Wes will also share his experience with joining the armed forces to provide a broader understanding of what it means for young individuals to take this brave step into military service. We explore the challenges they face during basic training, the camaraderie formed with fellow recruits, and how the military experience can shape character and instill valuable life skills. Join us as we sit down with our second oldest who will be leaving behind the comforts of home and the familiarity of his teenage years to serve his country and embark on a new chapter of his life!

Overcoming Alcohol Abuse in Our Marriage

In this weeks episode of 'Trash is Full' we discuss how alcohol and alcohol abuse nearly destroyed our marriage. Alcohol abuse can have a devastating impact on relationships, and marriage is no exception. In this episode, Wes shares his story about how he has struggled with alcohol throughout his his life and when he knew he had a problem. The story includes the challenges we faced in our marriage as a result of his alcohol abuse and how we were ultimately able to get our marriage back on track. Wes also touches on how he navigates consuming alcohol today and how he often feels the need to occasionally abstain. If you or someone you know is struggling with alcohol abuse, please reach out for help. There are many resources available, and you don't have to go through this alone. * The National Institute on Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism: https://www.niaaa.nih.gov/ * The National Council on Alcoholism and Drug Dependence: https://www.ncadd.org/ * The Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration: https://www.samhsa.gov/

Nineteen Years and Still Hitched!

In this episode of 'Trash is Full', join us as we dive into the rollercoaster ride of being married for a whopping 19 years! From the early days of blissful ignorance to the seasoned veterans of matrimony, we share our tales of triumphs, trials, and everything in between. With plenty of humor and a healthy dose of sarcasm, we recount the comical mishaps, epic arguments, and ridiculous moments that have shaped our enduring partnership. Prepare to laugh out loud as we reveal the secrets behind making it through the ups and downs of marriage, from the absurd to the endearing. Join us as we share anecdotes, offer tongue-in-cheek advice, and reflect on the joys and challenges of reaching the 19-year milestone together. Whether you're a newlywed or a seasoned couple, this episode will have you nodding your head, chuckling in recognition, and appreciating the sheer comedy that comes with nearly two decades of wedded bliss (or occasional wedded blunders). Tune in and join the laughter as we celebrate the wild ride of being married for 19 years!

Late Parenthood and Lessons of Love

Welcome back to another episode of 'Trash is Full'! In this episode. we delve into the joys and challenges of having children later in life and some valuable lessons we have learned in our marriage about change and growth. In today's society, more and more couples are choosing to embark on the journey of parenthood at a later stage in life. With the experience of having children in our early twenties and AGAIN in our mid-thirties (crazy, right?), we share our unique perspective and why it may be better to hold off having kids. We delve into the reasons why couples may choose to have children later in life as well as the advantages and challenges that come with this decision, including the emotional and financial considerations. Next, we explore the complexity of relationships when partners evolve and grow in different directions and at different times. We delve into the challenges, emotions, and possibilities that arise when two individuals embark on separate journeys of personal growth. Discover how love, self-reflection, and open communication can help navigate the shifting landscape of a relationship and foster a deeper connection amidst change. Join us as we discuss parenthood later in life and how you can grow as an individual in your marriage without growing apart. ENJOY!