Episode 25: The road of Self Work

Episode 25: The road of Self Work

In this episode we discus our reflection on our year in 2022.   We spent a significant amount of time on self work.  In itself self work is great.  It is good to really discover who you are and deal with your traumas.  Where the danger comes in is that it can cause separation in your marriage.   We have found that there is a dance of self work and learning to come together with that work and implement it into your marriage.   If you are a growth mindset couple this episode is for you.  We hope you enjoy this episode! Feel free to connect with us on Social Media. Find Nick on Facebook here [https://www.facebook.com/nick.wingo] Find Desiree here  [https://www.facebook.com/people/Desiree-Wingo/10227920/]

Episode 24: Coming Together Decisions

In this episode we discuss coming together in the decision making process.   We have been through an incredible amount of differences in the way we make decisions.  This has come from our upbringing and the way we learned to do things.  As we work through our differences we are learning how to come together in the process of making decisions.   We share our most recent counseling session and the things we learned about some of our strength and growth areas in our life.  This helped us see how we can better come together in the decision making process.   We hope you enjoy the episode and please leave us a rating and share the show if it offered you some value.     Feel free to connect with us on Social Media. Find Nick on Facebook here [https://www.facebook.com/nick.wingo] Find Desiree here  [https://www.facebook.com/people/Desiree-Wingo/10227920/]

Episode 23: Split the load

In this episode we discuss how important it is to split the load.  In your marriage it is easy to get caught up in just doing things without ever really talking about who does what or takes care of certain things.  It is important that you discuss this in your marriage and share the load.   Marriage is a partnership and so treat it like that and partner to gather to share the tasks at hand.  We appreciate you tuning in and we hope you enjoy the episode.   Feel free to connect with us on Social Media. Find Nick on Facebook here [https://www.facebook.com/nick.wingo] Find Desiree here  [https://www.facebook.com/people/Desiree-Wingo/10227920/]

Episode 22: Shiny object syndrome

In this episode we share our tendency to have shiny object syndrome.   So many times in our lives use get distracted by things that appear like they will give us what we want.  Often we find that those things do not give us what we want and actually take us further away from what we are truly seeking.   Stand firm in what you want and don’t be distracted by the things that are not going to serve you. Thanks for tuning in! Feel free to connect with us on Social Media. Find Nick on Facebook here [https://www.facebook.com/nick.wingo] Find Desiree here  [https://www.facebook.com/people/Desiree-Wingo/10227920/]

Episode 21: Don't Quit!

In this episode we discuss some really vulnerable stuff.  We share the first time that we had the discussion of divorce.   Before that we never et divorce be an option.  We had a boundary around it, until we let that boundary slide.  Once we let that boundary slide we went through some extra obstacles in our marriage.  Once you let a discussion like that occur it becomes something that can be a constant thing to work through.   If you’ve ever had this conversation you know what can arise from it.  As we continue to work through our stuff we want you to know that you are not alone and that you can get through anything!  Bring those boundaries back and don’t quit on you r marriage!  Its worth it! Feel free to connect with us on Social Media. Find Nick on Facebook here [https://www.facebook.com/nick.wingo] Find Desiree here  [https://www.facebook.com/people/Desiree-Wingo/10227920/]