What's the CO2?
What does it take to leave everything you know behind, and then figure out who you actually are when the thing that defined you is gone? In this episode of What's the CO2?, Matt sits down with Ross Moffat, therapist, soccer coach, and Glasgow native, for a raw, wide-ranging conversation about identity, mental health, and what it really means to grow up. Ross shares his journey from the streets of Clydebank, Scotland to the Scottish Premier League at 16, then a leap of faith to Des Moines, Iowa with a couple hundred bucks and a soccer dream. But the more compelling story is what happened after the soccer stopped, and how long it took him to realize he'd never truly left it behind. This Episodes dives into: * The adaptation triangle: safety, belonging, and significance, and the behavioral drivers we develop as kids that quietly run our adult lives * Why athletes are especially vulnerable to identity collapse when their sport ends * The overscheduling and early specialization crisis in youth sports * Why men wait until crisis hits to seek help, and what therapy actually looks like * The "software update" model of self-awareness (not a reset, just an update) * Jason Wilson's work on masculinity and what it means to be "the man the moment demands" Ross brings both the lived experience and the clinical lens. This one goes deep.
5 episodios
Comentarios
0Sé la primera persona en comentar
¡Regístrate ahora y únete a la comunidad de What's the CO2?!