Decentering men without hating men

Friendships in your 30s: the ones that lasted and the ones that didn't

Hi y'all! Welcome back to the podcast. In today’s episode, we chat about friendships in one's late 20s and 30s--the ones that lasted and the ones that didn't and what we can learn about letting relationships be what they need to be instead of what they were--or what you think they should be. I hope you enjoy listening. Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and share. Thank you. Where You're Planted Youtube Channel: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.youtube.com/@WhereYourePlanted⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [http://www.youtube.com/@WhereYourePlanted] Instagram: @debbsedit Personal Instagram: @__debbajayi Youtube Channel: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.youtube.com/@__debbajayi⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [http://www.youtube.com/@__debbajayi] Substack: https://deborahajayi.substack.com/

The Morning Brew ☕️ #18: The People who drain you are showing you something

Welcome to The Morning Brew--your slow Saturday companion.In these short episodes, I share thoughtful reflections, mindset shifts, and small practices to help you reconnect with yourself—without urgency or overwhelm. Press play while you make your coffee, sit by a window, or take a quiet moment for yourself. In this Morning Brew episode, we talk about the people who drain you and what that exhaustion is saying about how you're showing up. Best enjoyed with a warm drink and an unhurried morning.

Decentering men without hating men

Hi y'all! Welcome back to the podcast. In today’s episode, we chat about what it actually means to decenter men. How to recognize the ways you might be centering them without realizing it. And how to do the work of reorienting your life around yourself—your own desires, your own values, your own sense of self—without turning it into a war against men. I hope you enjoy listening. Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and share. Thank you. Where You're Planted Youtube Channel: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.youtube.com/@WhereYourePlanted⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [http://www.youtube.com/@WhereYourePlanted] Instagram: @debbsedit Personal Instagram: @__debbajayi Youtube Channel: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.youtube.com/@__debbajayi⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [http://www.youtube.com/@__debbajayi] Substack: https://deborahajayi.substack.com/

The Morning Brew ☕️ #17: Stop waiting for the right time

Welcome to The Morning Brew--your slow Saturday companion.In these short episodes, I share thoughtful reflections, mindset shifts, and small practices to help you reconnect with yourself—without urgency or overwhelm. Press play while you make your coffee, sit by a window, or take a quiet moment for yourself. In this Morning Brew episode, we talk about what why the "right time" is never going to come and you need to just seize the moment to do what it is you've been wanting to do. Best enjoyed with a warm drink and an unhurried morning.

The Morning Brew ☕️ #16: What if nothing needs to be fixed right now?

Welcome to The Morning Brew--your slow Saturday companion.In these short episodes, I share thoughtful reflections, mindset shifts, and small practices to help you reconnect with yourself—without urgency or overwhelm. Press play while you make your coffee, sit by a window, or take a quiet moment for yourself. In this Morning Brew episode, we talk about what if may feel like if we did not treat ourselves and our lives like a project and just ... existed. Best enjoyed with a warm drink and an unhurried morning.