09: Mine vs Not Mine: One question that will improve your efficacy instantly

09: Mine vs Not Mine: One question that will improve your efficacy instantly

If you want to start the journey of becoming even more locked in to your unique energy, schedule a free consult call with Erica by emailing erica@theawakeningtide.com [erica@theawakeningtide.com]. Most of the weight you're carrying right now isn't actually yours, and you've been burning life force energy trying to hold it. The worry, the heaviness, the low-grade anxiety… a lot of it belongs to other people, and you picked it up without noticing. This episode unpacks one question that changes how you move through your day: Is this mine? Ask it once, and you'll start to feel the difference in your chest, your shoulders, and your thinking. Empaths and high achievers tend to be the worst offenders here. You got good at sensing other people's energy, then started carrying it for them, and now you can't tell where they end and you begin. There's a cost that you haven't counted yet. This conversation is about what it actually takes to put the backpack down. You’ll Learn: [00:00] Introduction [01:24] That heavy feeling might not be yours at all [02:06] One question that instantly shifts how everything feels [04:18] The moment you realize what you’ve been carrying isn’t yours [07:10] The hidden pattern high achievers and empaths fall into [08:36] When helping others turns into carrying them [12:08] Where your energy is actually going every single day [16:52] Why you still feel off even when life looks fine [21:04] The shift that finally lets your body slow down [26:32] The instant release most people miss in real time [29:58] The deeper place this question starts to take you Resources Mentioned: Trubee Health | Website [https://trubeehealth.com/] Find more from Erica: The Awakening Tide | Website [https://www.theawakeningtide.com/] Erica Roesch | Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/ericaroeschmd/] Erica Roesch | LinkedIn [https://www.linkedin.com/in/erica-roesch-m-d-80b341183]

08: Need vs Want vs Desire: Simple distinctions that yield incredible results

To explore how to expand your Whole-Human Capacity, schedule a free consult call with Erica by emailing erica@theawakeningtide.com [erica@theawakeningtide.com]. What if the words you repeat all day are the reason your energy disappears? I spend a lot of time studying how high performers think, what they say, and what they do, and I noticed a pattern. It comes down to language. The words you use throughout your day create a kind of roadmap, shaping how you experience everything from your responsibilities to your performance. When most of your thoughts sound like “I need to” or “I have to,” your body shifts into a tight, narrow state that feels a lot like survival mode. I examine the difference between need, want, and desire, and how each one carries a different energy. That energy affects how you show up in your life, from getting through daily tasks to how you move through something as simple as a workout. I also point out how much of this language runs on default, coming from past patterns rather than conscious choice. Once you start noticing it, you begin to see how much control you actually have over the experience you’re creating moment to moment. You’ll Learn: [00:00] Introduction [02:03] Why language is the one skill that separates elite performers from everyone else [06:15] The hidden cost of using words like "need," "have to," and "should" [09:10] "Need" energy creates the illusion of productivity while capping how far you can go [11:48] What shifts in your body the moment you replace "need" with "want" [17:05] What living from desire actually feels like neurologically, and why it's the doorway to real presence and flow [19:20] The people who say "there's no such thing as failure" aren't just being positive, they're living from a completely different energy state [22:30] A guided in-body exercise to feel the difference between need, want, and desire in real time [29:45] How to know you've made the shift, and the subtle signal your body sends when you've slipped back into “need” energy [30:10] Three practical ways to start rewriting your language patterns, including a simple daily study you can start today Find more from Erica: The Awakening Tide | Website [https://www.theawakeningtide.com/] Erica Roesch | Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/ericaroeschmd/] Erica Roesch | LinkedIn [https://www.linkedin.com/in/erica-roesch-m-d-80b341183]

07: Spiritual Body Fitness: Sustaining success in every aspect of your life

To schedule a free consult with Erica, email erica@theawakeningtide.com [erica@theawakeningtide.com]. What if the calm, grounded presence you admire in others is something you can actually train? There’s a version of you that feels steady, clear, and deeply connected… and it’s not as far away as it seems. This idea of spiritual body fitness points to how you relate to your intuition, your inner knowing, and that small voice that tends to get drowned out in a busy life. For many high achievers, life becomes a series of boxes to check. Somewhere along the way, it gets harder to hear what you actually want. Creating space for stillness, even in small, intentional ways, changes that. It gives you a chance to notice what’s underneath the noise and start recognizing your true yes and no. This kind of connection isn’t abstract. It shows up in how you move through your day, the environments you choose, and the people you surround yourself with. Over time, that relationship with yourself grows stronger, and decisions start to feel clearer instead of forced. This is where intuition, nervous system regulation, and your deeper sense of purpose begin to work together in a way that actually feels like yours. You’ll Learn: [00:00] Introduction [02:33] Defining the spiritual body: the most overlooked layer of high performance [05:15] Strengthening your intuition rewires the decisions you make and how you move through the world [08:22] Slowing down isn't the opposite of productivity, and what high achievers miss in "conquer" mode [10:42] Stillness doesn't mean stopping, and what it actually looks like in motion [14:52] Anchoring your day this way shifts you from reacting to designing from the inside out [19:45] Trail markers and spiritual fitness: learning to spot signs you're on the right path [21:58] The moment you realize you are your own medicine and what that changes [26:30] Spiritual fitness matters most when you're expanding into territory you've never been in before [30:45] The one decision that determines whether you live the same life or a new one Watch the other videos from the 4-Body Fitness Series: I Used This Framework to Find Energetic Balance | YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ewgT_J1RxWg] What TRUE Physical Fitness Actually Is | YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OY_nDvJL4Bk] How to Change Your Reality By Tweaking Your Thought Patterns | YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vEJXVASX40g] Follow This Emotion Approach & You'll Live The Fullest Life | YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LEReM9xSBM0&t=15s] Find more from Erica: The Awakening Tide | Website [https://www.theawakeningtide.com/] Erica Roesch | Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/ericaroeschmd/] Erica Roesch | LinkedIn [https://www.linkedin.com/in/erica-roesch-m-d-80b341183]

06: Emotional Body Fitness: The key to unleashing your dreams

To schedule a free consult with Erica, email erica@theawakeningtide.com [erica@theawakeningtide.com]. You might not be stuck… You might just be emotionally undertrained. Most high achievers have trained themselves to push through, but very few have trained themselves to actually feel. This episode dives into what emotional body fitness is, and why it’s the hidden driver behind whether you stay stuck or actually live your full capacity. Your emotional capacity shapes your ability to take action, pursue what you want, and stay present in both the highs and the lows. You’ll hear how patterns like emotional numbing, functional freeze, and avoiding specific feelings can limit your life without you realizing it. Emotions are not problems to fix, but signals to build a relationship with. Increasing your ability to feel your feelings can expand everything from your relationships to your performance. If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing everything “right” but still not experiencing the depth of life you want, this will help you understand why. You’ll Learn: [00:00] Introduction [02:18] Why your emotional body is the real differentiator between drifting through life and living with intention [03:47] How avoiding emotions keeps you stuck in safe but unfulfilling patterns [08:32] What it actually means to build emotional fitness and feel intense emotions without losing your sense of safety [10:41] Why high achievers often choose physical pain over emotional discomfort and how that limits growth [13:52] The hidden tradeoff of numbing your emotions and why it blocks both your lowest lows and your highest highs [16:27] How your ability to feel deeply directly determines whether your dreams ever become reality [18:44] Why most people avoid this work even though it’s the key to everything they want [25:58] How sitting fully in an emotion creates real momentum while avoiding it keeps you spinning your wheels [34:12] The simple question that instantly separates what you’re feeling from what you’ve been carrying that isn’t yours Resources Mentioned: Jessie Mahoney, MD | Website [https://www.jessiemahoneymd.com/] What Would Love Do? The Question We’re Not Asking with Dr. Jessie Mahoney | Ted Talk [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rRQwr8-ITBQ] Find more from Erica Roesch: The Awakening Tide | Website [https://www.theawakeningtide.com/] Erica Roesch | Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/ericaroeschmd/] Erica Roesch | LinkedIn [https://www.linkedin.com/in/erica-roesch-m-d-80b341183]

05: Mental Body Fitness: Tools and tactics to help you see how everything is truly happening for you

To dive deeper into understanding your mental body, schedule a free consult call with Erica by emailing erica@theawakeningtide.com [erica@theawakeningtide.com]. Your brain is designed for survival… but that might be the problem. The mental body shapes more of your experience than most people realize, especially when it comes to your nervous system, your patterns, and how you move through your day. Many of us are operating from survival mode without even noticing, and that directly impacts what’s available to us. There’s a simple way to look at the brain through the primitive brain and the prefrontal cortex, and understanding that distinction starts to explain why certain patterns feel so automatic (and why they’re not always easy to change). At the same time, another layer of your brain opens the door to creativity, imagination, and new ways of responding that aren’t driven by default patterns. One of the most impactful ideas here is your internal interpretation software. The way you interpret what’s happening can shift your entire experience, sometimes in real time. This is where mental fitness becomes practical, especially if you’re ready to stop feeling like your thoughts are running the show and start engaging with them differently. You’ll Learn: [00:00] Introduction [02:18] You’re not at the mercy of your thoughts [05:47] How your thoughts shape your results and lived experience [08:22] Why your brain defaults to familiar patterns even when they don’t serve you [10:41] What survival mode does to your ability to think, create, and problem solve [13:06] How safety in the body changes what your brain can access [15:34] The role of imagination and creativity when you’re out of survival mode [18:12] Your interpretation software and how it filters everything you experience [21:46] How changing a single thought can shift your experience in real time [25:58] Why your brain’s efficiency can work against intentional change [29:37] What it looks like to work with your brain instead of reacting automatically [33:18] How awareness of your patterns creates the possibility for something different Resources Mentioned: The Life Coach School Podcast | Website [https://www.thelifecoachschool.com/podcast/] Find more from Erica Roesch: The Awakening Tide | Website [https://www.theawakeningtide.com/] Erica Roesch | Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/ericaroeschmd/] Erica Roesch | LinkedIn [https://www.linkedin.com/in/erica-roesch-m-d-80b341183]