How to secure the validation you ACTUALLY want (Best Of)

Not a goodbye, but a see you soon 🥲

E32: In this final episode of You Found Her (for now), I’m sharing something tender and true: why I’m pressing pause on the podcast—and why it’s actually an evolution, not an ending. Over the last year, this show has been the heartbeat of my brand and the first brave step I ever took toward building You Found Her. But as I reconnect with my own soul, my writing, and the deeper 1:1 work that lights me up, I’m being pulled toward a new season of creation. I’ll also be sharing: • Why I’m returning home to my identity as a writer and letting that lead everything I build next.  • How The Artist’s Way, Big Magic, and recovering from burnout clarified my next right steps and re-oriented me toward my North Star.  • Why the podcast no longer aligns with the work calling me forward—and how that decision supports deeper connection with you.  • What’s coming next: my book, my 1:1 guidance offer, and future YFH retreats in Italy for ambitious women seeking reconnection and clarity.  • How you can stay closely connected through my newsletter, Instagram, and future intimate containers. If you want to stay in the loop (and you know I want that too), here’s where to find me: ✨ My newsletter, The Ambitious Soul — weekly letters, essays, and early chapters from my book: http://subscribepage.io/wBTEvO [http://subscribepage.io/wBTEvO] ✨ Instagram — DM me that you’re a podcast listener so I can keep you in my inner YFH circle: https://www.instagram.com/lindsaykami ✨ 1:1 guidance — limited founding spots opening soon. ✨ Future retreats — I’m attending my first women’s retreat soon to learn & shape the YFH retreat experience for you. Thank you for listening, trusting, and walking with me. This is not goodbye. The episodes will stay up—as a free course, a companion, a hand to hold whenever you need it 💛

The way out of comparison and into peace (Best Of)

This week, I discuss one of my greatest, most shameful struggles across my 20s -- comparison. This Best Of episode is one of my most downloaded for a reason: for us ambitious minds, it's almost impossible to not be aware of how and what everyone else is doing in our field.  Today, we’re going to unpack the REAL reason why you may be comparing yourself, and how we can learn to compare from a place of peace instead of anxiety. I will also talk about… * The biggest comparison crisis of my 20s * The ways comparison might actually be “serving” you (for better or worse) * What my most anxious comparative thoughts have taught me * Social comparison theory  * The 4 steps that have helped me heal most around comparison Follow on Instagram: @lindsaykami Follow on TikTok: @lindsaykami For business: youfoundherpod@gmail.com

How to secure the validation you ACTUALLY want (Best Of)

In this Best Of episode (a revisit of the very first episode of You Found Her — one of my most popular episodes, and the one I personally needed to revisit this week), I discuss the career crisis that inspired me to create both my pod and my personal brand. Spoiler alert… it was a validation crisis. We’ll get real about the fear behind validation-seeking and how to find comfort when anxiety pushes us to look outside ourselves for worth. I also share... * How to find peace during a validation-seeking panic * My journey as a writer in Hollywood * How to move from scarcity mindset to abundance * 5 strategies on how to self-generate the validation we need  * Why the pod is called You Found Her * Why you deserve to heal (even more than you deserve to be successful) Follow on Instagram: @lindsaykami Follow on TikTok: @lindsaykami For business: youfoundherpod@gmail.com

When nothing is working, ask the universe for these 3 things for clarity [mini episode]

E31: If you’ve ever been so lost, so uncertain, so out of control that you didn’t even know what to pray for — this one’s for you. Inspired by my own deeply uncomfortable week (hi, IG suspension), I’m sharing the 3 most potent, clarifying things to ask the universe when you’re at the end of your rope. We will also discuss:  ✨ Why asking for your process to be removed will actually block your miracle ✨ How to engage in “two-way prayer” and let Love itself do the heavy lifting ✨ The difference between your job and God’s job (and why mixing them up creates chaos) Follow on Instagram: @lindsaykami  Follow on TikTok: @lindsaykami  For business: youfoundherpod@gmail.com

I had a relapse — addicted to hustling for my worth

E30: Have you ever chased success or validation like a drug — only to feel the high vanish within days, leaving you in search of the next hit? This the cycle I found myself in (again) recently, and today I’m naming it for what it is: addiction to hustling for worth. In this raw and deeply personal episode, I’ll unpack: * The six clearest signs you may be caught in this addiction too * Why the real question isn’t “why the hustle?” but “why the pain?” * The core wound that drives so many ambitious minds to seek worth outside themselves * My recent relapse story (and what it revealed about my own patterns) * The 3 spiritual reframes that snapped me out of the spiral and re-anchored me in peace, trust, and abundance Plus, in this week’s Found in the DMs, we’ll wrestle with a huge question: how do you define success on your own terms — not your parents’, not society’s, not anyone else’s? Follow on Instagram: @lindsaykami Follow on TikTok: @lindsaykami For business: youfoundherpod@gmail.com