The Leadership Skills We Were Never Taught

When Did You Stop Feeling Alive? Reconnecting with Joy, Presence & Yourself

What if the reason you feel disconnected isn't that you've lost your purpose, but because you've lost touch with what makes you feel alive? In this episode of Your Odyssey Podcast, Tara and Karen explore the quiet ways we drift away from ourselves through responsibility, achievement, survival mode, and the endless pressure to keep doing more. Together, they unpack why joy doesn't live at the end of a completed to-do list, how aliveness often shows up in ordinary moments, and what it looks like to reconnect with the parts of yourself that have been waiting for your attention. In This Episode * Why many women feel disconnected despite doing "everything right" * The difference between functioning and feeling alive * How achievement can quietly pull us away from ourselves * Why joy isn't waiting at the finish line * Small ways to reconnect with aliveness in everyday life If you've been functioning but not fully feeling, this conversation is an invitation to slow down, pay attention, and begin finding your way back. Follow us on Instagram! [https://www.instagram.com/yourodyssey.life/] Music:   Opening/Interlude/Outro: Love Is Waiting [https://open.spotify.com/track/6a4UbgIgQkCwcDGbrhNGvt?si=63543081d4244e3e]Featured Song: Alive - Sia [https://music.youtube.com/watch?v=Ae51BA_W1Fc&si=0BJ8Jd-SKEVoLQ01] Playlists: Spotify - Volume 2 [https://open.spotify.com/playlist/00JFCmxn0Y0wCRN4Di2x5A?si=vW1LQhhPTHaiPj9KmYDR0g]YouTube Music - Volume 2 [https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLnW38w_wffWHMSwmAlBd7dTvy-PPMUIaw&si=EKJsWWmRsKWkXY3y]

The Future of Leadership: Why We're Hopeful About Human Beings

What if the future of leadership isn’t hopeless after all? In the final episode of this 3-part series, Tara and Karen continue their conversation with Merry about culture change, emotional intelligence, and the future of leadership, and why, despite the instability we see around us, she remains deeply hopeful about people. Together, they explore: * Why most people are already doing the best they can with the tools they’ve been given * The connection between education, emotional intelligence, and healthier cultures * What leaders actually need to create sustainable transformation * How small acts of courage ripple outward into organizations and communities * Why culture change begins with human beings, not systems alone * The future of leadership in a rapidly changing world This conversation is a hopeful reminder that transformation becomes possible when people are given the right support, resources, and environments to grow. If you’ve been longing for a different way forward, for leadership, relationships, or culture, this episode invites you to imagine what becomes possible when we stop leading through survival and start leading through awareness, courage, and care. Follow us on Instagram! [https://www.instagram.com/yourodyssey.life/] Music:   Opening/Interlude/Outro: Love Is Waiting [https://open.spotify.com/track/6a4UbgIgQkCwcDGbrhNGvt?si=63543081d4244e3e]Featured Song: Glory - Common featuring John Legend [https://music.youtube.com/watch?v=HUZOKvYcx_o&si=7rvD5pM2wB678M9M] Playlists: Spotify - Volume 2 [https://open.spotify.com/playlist/00JFCmxn0Y0wCRN4Di2x5A?si=vW1LQhhPTHaiPj9KmYDR0g]YouTube Music - Volume 2 [https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLnW38w_wffWHMSwmAlBd7dTvy-PPMUIaw&si=EKJsWWmRsKWkXY3y]

Visionary Leadership Today: How We All Get Stuck

Why does transformation feel so difficult, even when we know change is necessary? In Part 2 of this 3-part leadership series, Tara and Karen continue their conversation with Merry Graham, exploring why to explore why so many visionary leaders find themselves caught between outdated definitions of success and the need for deeper transformation. Together, they explore: * Why transformation often feels uncomfortable and uncertain * Emotional intelligence and self-regulation in times of instability * How fear and reactivity keep leaders stuck * The emotional climate leaders create around them * What visionary leadership requires in today’s world * The tension between who we were and who we’re becoming If you’ve been feeling caught between exhaustion and expansion, certainty and change, this conversation offers language for the in-between—and a reminder that transformation is rarely linear. Follow us on Instagram! [https://www.instagram.com/yourodyssey.life/] Music:   Opening/Interlude/Outro: Love Is Waiting [https://open.spotify.com/track/6a4UbgIgQkCwcDGbrhNGvt?si=63543081d4244e3e]Featured Song: Hold On - Alabama Shakes [https://music.youtube.com/watch?v=4NDV4t1wCSg&si=1Te1bBooi2JjNqM3] Playlists: Spotify - Volume 2 [https://open.spotify.com/playlist/00JFCmxn0Y0wCRN4Di2x5A?si=vW1LQhhPTHaiPj9KmYDR0g]YouTube Music - Volume 2 [https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLnW38w_wffWHMSwmAlBd7dTvy-PPMUIaw&si=EKJsWWmRsKWkXY3y]

The Leadership Skills We Were Never Taught

What if the biggest gap in leadership today isn’t strategy, but self-awareness? In Part 1 of this 3-part series, Tara and Karen sit down with Merry Graham, who has spent over 30 years working with leaders around the world to explore a powerful idea: that emotional and spiritual intelligence are missing from how we develop leaders. Together, they unpack what it means to lead as a whole human being and why individual dysregulation can ripple outward into teams, organizations, and even society. This conversation explores: * What “whole-person leadership” actually means * Why emotional intelligence (EQ) and self-regulation matter more than ever * The hidden ways leaders become dysregulated * How self-trust, not control, is the foundation of real leadership * What visionary leaders understand that most systems overlook If you’ve ever felt like leadership requires more than what you were taught, this episode will help you begin to see what’s been missing and what becomes possible when you develop the skills to lead from within. Follow us on Instagram! [https://www.instagram.com/yourodyssey.life/] Music:   Opening/Interlude/Outro: Love Is Waiting [https://open.spotify.com/track/6a4UbgIgQkCwcDGbrhNGvt?si=63543081d4244e3e]Featured Song: Saturn - Sleeping at Last [https://music.youtube.com/watch?v=89CurjyigWA&si=ZWFfbTy-NpuxSRqQ] Playlists: Spotify - Volume 2 [https://open.spotify.com/playlist/00JFCmxn0Y0wCRN4Di2x5A?si=vW1LQhhPTHaiPj9KmYDR0g]YouTube Music - Volume 2 [https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLnW38w_wffWHMSwmAlBd7dTvy-PPMUIaw&si=EKJsWWmRsKWkXY3y]

You're Allowed to Take Up Space

You’re allowed to take up space. But what happens after that? In this episode, we move beyond the idea of visibility into something deeper… capacity. Because taking up space isn’t just about being seen or heard. It’s about what you carry into the rooms, conversations, and relationships you’re part of. Your presence is not neutral. Whether you realize it or not, it shapes the emotional climate around you. We explore: * The difference between visibility and capacity * How your presence influences every space you enter * The subtle ways we show up with hesitation, avoidance, or clarity * What it actually looks like to be more present in real time This isn’t about becoming louder. It’s about becoming more available to yourself and to the moment you’re in. Follow us on Instagram! [https://www.instagram.com/yourodyssey.life/] Music:   Opening/Interlude/Outro: Love Is Waiting [https://open.spotify.com/track/6a4UbgIgQkCwcDGbrhNGvt?si=63543081d4244e3e]Featured Song: Show Yourself - Idina Menzel [https://music.youtube.com/watch?v=md7dK5-qvHc&si=1M0ECxgNHllVb14W] Playlists: Spotify - Volume 2 [https://open.spotify.com/playlist/00JFCmxn0Y0wCRN4Di2x5A?si=vW1LQhhPTHaiPj9KmYDR0g]YouTube Music - Volume 2 [https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLnW38w_wffWHMSwmAlBd7dTvy-PPMUIaw&si=EKJsWWmRsKWkXY3y]