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Why Are Basic Life Tasks So Hard? | AuDHD, Grey Hair & Avoiding the Hairdressers 😭😂

In today’s completely unplanned brain dump, I’m talking about one of life’s greatest neurodivergent mysteries… Why can I run a business, host a podcast, support clients and manage a community, but the thought of dyeing my hair or going to the hairdressers makes me want to lie down in a dark room? 😭😂 Join me as I discuss AuDHD life, executive dysfunction, sensory issues, avoiding the hairdressers, finding ADHD-friendly shortcuts and why my son has apparently taken the only comb in the house to Egypt. If you’ve ever found yourself avoiding a simple task for months and then wondering why you made it so difficult, this episode is for you. 🌈 AuDHD 🌈 ADHD in women 🌈 Executive dysfunction 🌈 Sensory issues 🌈 Neurodivergent life 🌈 ADHD humour 🌈 Late-diagnosed ADHD You’ll find all my podcasts, support groups, mentoring, body doubling, brain dumps and resources here: 🔗 https://linktr.ee/Ellieaudhd Lots of love, Ellie 💜

I’m Not Antisocial — I’m Tired of Explaining Myself | ADHD, Autism & Neurodivergent Burnout

💜 I’m Not Antisocial — I’m Tired of Explaining Myself 💜 As a late-diagnosed neurodivergent woman with ADHD and autism, I’ve spent years explaining myself to other people. Why am I overwhelmed? Why do I need alone time? Why do I cancel plans? Why do I struggle with social exhaustion? Why do I seem fine one day and burnt out the next? In this episode, I talk about ADHD, autism, masking, people pleasing, neurodivergent burnout, social fatigue, late diagnosis, overwhelm and the emotional exhaustion that comes from constantly having to justify your needs to others. This isn’t about being antisocial. It’s about being tired of translating your brain for a world that doesn’t always understand neurodivergence. If you’ve ever felt exhausted by social expectations, struggled with masking, experienced autistic burnout, ADHD burnout, or felt guilty for needing space, this episode might resonate with you. #ADHD #Autism #AuDHD #Neurodivergent #LateDiagnosis #ADHDWomen #AutisticWomen #Masking #PeoplePleasing #Burnout #NeurodivergentBurnout #SocialExhaustion #MentalHealth #ADHDPodcast #AutismPodcast

Sunday Roundup: Cannabis Conversations, Masking & Understanding Neurodivergent Support

This week’s AuDHD And Then Some roundup is all about something so many neurodivergent people experience without even realising… Masking. The years spent adapting. The pretending you’re okay. The hiding parts of yourself. The exhaustion of constantly trying to fit into a world that wasn’t designed for your brain. In this episode, I’m sharing what’s been happening inside our neurodivergent community this week — from conversations around ADHD, autism, support, medical cannabis discussions, and our biggest topic this month… ✨ Unmasking and reconnecting with yourself ✨ We talk about: 💜 ADHD & autistic masking 💜 late diagnosis and identity 💜 why traditional support doesn’t always fit neurodivergent brains 💜 feeling “too much” 💜 burnout from years of pretending 💜 learning who you are underneath the mask This month inside our community, Tasha has released our 56-page Masking Toolbox & Guide — a printable resource created to gently explore masking, identity, self-understanding, and what it means to slowly reconnect with yourself. Members also get access to: 🌈 printable workbooks & guides 🌈 neurodivergent resources 🌈 relaxation audios 🌈 exclusive conversations 🌈 deeper discussions 🌈 our growing resource library Because so many of us spent years asking: “What’s wrong with me?” When maybe the question should have been: “How long have I been hiding who I really am?” You can join our Facebook Subscriber Hub (which includes complimentary Patreon access for the month ✨) Or join Patreon directly: https://www.patreon.com/AuDHDandThenSome?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator A little corner of the internet where you don’t have to mask 💜 Topics: ADHD, autism, AuDHD, neurodivergent, masking, autistic masking, ADHD women, late diagnosed autism, late diagnosed ADHD, burnout, identity, self discovery, executive dysfunction, emotional regulation.

The Mask I Didn’t Know I Was Wearing | ADHD, Autism & Late Diagnosis

🌸 The Mask I Didn’t Know I Was Wearing | ADHD, Autism & Late Diagnosis 🌸 This week inside AuDHD And Then Some, we’re talking all about something so many neurodivergent people experience without even realising… Masking. The smiling when you’re exhausted. The rehearsing conversations before they happen. The hiding your excitement because someone once told you that you were “too much.” The pretending you’re okay when your nervous system is screaming. For so many ADHD, autistic and AuDHD people — especially those of us who were diagnosed later in life — masking wasn’t a choice. It was survival. But what happens when you’ve been adapting yourself for so long that you’re not even sure who you are underneath anymore? In this episode I talk about: 💜 why neurodivergent people mask 💜 the exhaustion of constantly trying to fit in 💜 late diagnosis and identity 💜 unlearning shame 💜 finding yourself underneath the mask ✨ This month’s community topic is MASKING ✨ Inside our paid community, Tasha has created a beautiful 56-page Masking Toolbox & Guide. A printable workbook designed to help you gently explore your own masking, understand where it came from, reconnect with yourself, and start recognising the parts of you that have been hidden for too long. You can: 🌈 download it 🌈 print it 🌈 write in it 🌈 keep it forever 🌈 share it with somebody who may need it Our members also get access to: ☁️ our growing resource library ☁️ workbooks & guides ☁️ relaxation audios ☁️ exclusive conversations ☁️ deeper reflections ☁️ our supportive neurodivergent community You can join our Facebook Subscriber Hub (and receive complimentary Patreon access for the month ✨) @ellieaudhd OR come straight over and join us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/AuDHDandThenSome?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator A little corner of the internet where you don’t have to mask 💜 Love, Ellie & Tasha

My brother, prison and undiagnosed Neurodivergence

In this deeply personal Unmasked Diary Room episode, I open up about my brother, our complicated relationship, and the painful reality of watching someone struggle through life feeling misunderstood. We talk about undiagnosed neurodivergence, high intelligence, emotional dysregulation, shame, isolation, and how ADHD/autistic traits can sometimes go unnoticed for years — especially in people who don’t fit the stereotypes. This episode isn’t about excusing harmful choices or romanticising prison. It’s about grief, loyalty, family, and wondering how different life might have been if somebody had recognised the signs sooner. A raw and emotional AuDHD reflection on love, misunderstanding, and the people society often gives up on too quickly. #AuDHD #ADHDPodcast #AutismPodcast #Neurodivergent #LateDiagnosis #MentalHealthPodcast #ADHDWomen #UnmaskedDiaryRoom