Trauma-Informed Parenting Plans: Building Schedules That Help Children Feel Safe

Interstate Custody Disputes: Texas, California, and Which Court Has Authority?

Episode Summary: In this episode of Bridging the Gap: Law, Therapy, and Justice, host Caitlin Burgess, an attorney and licensed marriage family therapist, is joined by Jason Wright, founder of the Law Office of Jason Wright, PLLC, in Austin, Texas. They delve into the intricacies of interstate custody and family law disputes, focusing on how jurisdiction is determined when parents live in different states. Jason explains the application of the Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction and Enforcement Act (UCCJEA) and the challenges that arise when families move between states like Texas and California. The discussion highlights common legal mistakes, the emotional complexities of relocation cases, and the importance of adhering to court orders. Listeners will gain valuable insights into navigating these complex legal landscapes while prioritizing the well-being of their families. Key Timestamps: 00:01 – Introduction 00:10 – Meet Caitlin Burgess and Jason Wright 00:51 – Understanding Interstate Custody Disputes 01:17 – Common Triggers for Multi-State Custody Cases 02:10 – Pre-Filing vs. Post-Filing Jurisdictional Issues 03:14 – Priority and Jurisdiction in Custody Cases 03:22 – The Role of UCCJEA in Custody Disputes 04:39 – Emergency Pleadings and Jurisdiction 05:44 – Legal Mistakes in Moving with Children 07:01 – Geographic Restrictions in Custody Orders 09:00 – Texas Terminology: Possession vs. Custody 11:26 – Emotional Complexity of Relocation Cases 13:48 – Court Coordination in Multi-State Disputes 15:45 – Filing in Different States: Legal Implications 17:40 – Emergency Custody Across State Lines 19:12 – Temporary Emergency Jurisdiction Explained 20:48 – Avoiding Legal Pitfalls in Custody Disputes About the Show: Bridging the Gap: Law, Therapy, and Justice is a podcast dedicated to exploring the intersection of family law, mental health, and forensic practice. Hosted by Caitlin Burgess, an attorney and licensed marriage family therapist, the show provides listeners with expert insights into navigating complex legal and emotional landscapes. Each episode features discussions with legal professionals, therapists, and experts who share practical advice and strategies for managing family disputes, custody issues, and more. Whether you're a legal professional, a mental health practitioner, or someone facing family law challenges, this podcast offers valuable guidance and clarity.

How Parents Can Reduce Screen Dependence During Divorce and Family Transitions

Episode Summary: In this episode of Bridging the Gap: Law, Therapy and Justice, host Caitlin Burgess, an attorney and licensed marriage and family therapist, is joined by Virginie Goldstein, a licensed marriage and family therapist and founder of Tech Connect Reset. They delve into strategies for reducing screen dependence among children during high-conflict divorces. Virginie shares insights from her research on screen addiction and ADHD, emphasizing the importance of parental involvement and consistent communication. The discussion highlights practical steps parents can take to maintain a connection with their children, set effective screen boundaries, and model healthy screen habits. This conversation is crucial for parents navigating the complexities of divorce, providing them with tools to foster stability and emotional well-being in their children. Key Timestamps: 00:01 – Introduction 0:23 – Meet Virginie Goldstein 0:53 – Reducing Screen Dependence in Divorce 1:54 – Importance of Parental Involvement 3:17 – First Steps for Parents 4:33 – Ensuring Child Attachment 5:17 – Consistency in Co-Parenting 6:28 – Handling Disagreements on Screen Rules 7:23 – Simple Consistent Rules 8:27 – Avoiding Power Struggles 9:58 – Collaborative Approach to Screen Limits 10:29 – Effective Screen-Free Zones 12:01 – Strengthening Parent-Child Connection 13:38 – Impact of Parents' Screen Use About the Show: Bridging the Gap: Law, Therapy and Justice is a podcast dedicated to exploring the intersection of law, therapy, and forensic practice, particularly in high-stress family situations like divorce. Hosted by Caitlin Burgess, an attorney and licensed marriage and family therapist, the show offers insights into how legal and therapeutic practices can work together to support families. Each episode features discussions with experts who provide practical advice and strategies for navigating complex family dynamics. The podcast aims to empower listeners with knowledge and tools to improve family relationships and outcomes.

Why Divorce and Family Conflict Can Worsen Screen Dependence in Children

Episode Summary: In this episode of Bridging the Gap, Law, Therapy, and Justice, host Caitlin Burgess, an attorney and licensed marriage and family therapist, is joined by Virginie Goldstein, a licensed marriage and family therapist and founder of Tech Connect Reset. They delve into the complex relationship between divorce, family conflict, and children's screen use. Virginie discusses her work with children and families to address problematic screen use, emphasizing the importance of understanding underlying issues like anxiety, depression, and ADHD. The conversation highlights how high-conflict divorces can exacerbate screen addiction in children, as they seek control and escape through digital means. Caitlin and Virginie explore the emotional turmoil that drives excessive screen use and the critical need for consistent parenting strategies across households. This episode provides valuable insights for parents navigating the challenges of screen addiction in the context of family stress, offering practical advice for fostering healthier screen habits and emotional regulation in children. Key Timestamps: 00:01 – Introduction 00:11 – Exploring Law, Therapy, and Forensic Practice 00:59 – Impact of Divorce on Child's Screen Use 03:04 – Addressing Problematic Screen Use 04:09 – Underlying Issues Behind Screen Use 05:31 – Family Conflict and Screen Time 06:27 – Emotional Escape through Screens 08:09 – Signs of Screen Addiction 10:12 – Dopamine and Screen Use 12:04 – Consistency in Parenting Across Homes 13:20 – Lack of Structure and Screen Use 14:42 – Signs of Emotional Stress in Screen Use 16:21 – Parental Awareness and Child Connection About the Show: Bridging the Gap, Law, Therapy, and Justice is a podcast dedicated to exploring the intersection of legal practice, therapeutic approaches, and forensic work, particularly in family law. Hosted by Caitlin Burgess, an attorney and licensed marriage and family therapist, the show provides a unique perspective on how legal and therapeutic disciplines can work together to address complex family dynamics. Each episode features expert guests who share insights and strategies for navigating high-stress situations, offering listeners practical advice and a deeper understanding of the emotional and legal challenges families face.

The 4 Skills That Help Families Manage High-Conflict Divorce

Episode Summary: In this episode of Bridging the Gap: Law, Therapy and Justice, host Caitlin Burgess, a licensed marriage and family therapist and attorney, is joined by Bill Eddy, a clinical social worker, attorney, and co-founder of the High Conflict Institute. They delve into practical skills for managing high conflict family law situations, focusing on reducing the impact on children. Bill introduces the New Ways for Families approach, which addresses unmanaged emotions, all-or-nothing thinking, extreme behaviors, and blame preoccupation. The discussion highlights techniques like taking breaks, using affirmations, and employing the BIF (Brief, Informative, Friendly, Firm) method for communication. The episode provides valuable insights for parents and professionals in family law and mental health, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness and flexible thinking to create better outcomes for children. Key Timestamps: 00:01 – Introduction 00:29 – Guest Introduction: Bill Eddy 01:26 – Stopping the Conflict Cycle 01:55 – New Ways for Families Approach 02:38 – Managing Emotions 03:42 – Preoccupation with Blame 05:13 – Practical Skills for Parents 07:01 – Neutral Support Systems 08:00 – Flexible Thinking 10:00 – Moderate Behavior with BIF 11:39 – BIF Model in Practice 13:17 – Importance of Self-Checking 14:14 – Impact on Children 17:07 – Incorporating Skills in Professional Practice About the Show: Bridging the Gap: Law, Therapy and Justice explores the intersection of law, therapy, and forensic practice in high conflict family law cases. Hosted by Caitlin Burgess, a licensed marriage and family therapist and attorney, the podcast provides listeners with insights into managing complex family dynamics. Each episode features discussions with experts who share practical strategies and approaches to help families navigate legal and emotional challenges. The show aims to equip listeners with the knowledge to improve family interactions and outcomes, fostering a deeper understanding of the legal and therapeutic aspects of family law.

How Parents’ High-Conflict Emotions Spread to Children in Divorce

Episode Summary:  In this episode of Bridging the Gap, Law, Therapy and Justice, host Caitlin Burgess, a licensed marriage and family therapist and attorney, is joined by Bill Eddy, a clinical social worker, attorney, and co-founder of the High Conflict Institute. They delve into the complex dynamics of high conflict divorce, focusing on how intense emotions can permeate family systems and affect children. Bill explains the contagious nature of emotions within families and how children absorb these emotions, often leading to behavioral changes and strained relationships with parents. The discussion highlights the importance of self-management skills for parents and the role of empathy in supporting children through these challenging times. This episode provides valuable insights for parents, therapists, and legal professionals on managing emotional intensity and fostering healthier family interactions during divorce. Key Timestamps: 00:01 – Introduction 00:23 – Exploring High Conflict Divorce 00:59 – Emotional Contagion in Families 02:14 – The Role of Self-Management in Divorce 03:00 – Children's Emotional Absorption 04:06 – High Conflict Emotions and Children 05:02 – Unawareness of Parental Impact 05:47 – Emotional Dynamics Shaping Behavior 07:10 – Children's Stories and Emotional Influence 08:06 – Stress of Divorce on Children 09:02 – Signs of Emotional Weight in Children 10:23 – Empathy's Role in Support 11:01 – Repairing Emotional Damage About the Show:  Bridging the Gap, Law, Therapy and Justice is a podcast dedicated to exploring the intersection of law, therapy, and forensic practice. Hosted by Caitlin Burgess, a licensed marriage and family therapist and attorney, the show delves into complex family law cases where emotions run high and children are deeply impacted. Each episode features expert guests who provide insights into managing conflicts and fostering healthier family dynamics. With a focus on clarity and empathy, the series aims to equip listeners with practical strategies for navigating the legal and emotional challenges of family law.