Fertile Ground: A mind-body approach to getting pregnant - without it taking over your life.

I’ve noticed more and more people online saying “there’s no such thing as unexplained infertility.” That if you just test enough, fix enough, try enough… you’ll find the root cause.    And although that may sound comforting to some — I respectfully and fully — disagree.   All those years I was TTC, I do not believe my body was missing something that I could have found in a test.   I believe I was being asked to trust something deeper.   To stop playing the martyr.  To stop micromanaging every second of my life in the name of “doing everything right.”  And to start seeing fertility not as a puzzle to solve…but as a relationship to build.   This episode isn’t for everyone. But it is for the woman who’s: * Tired of being told to focus and search for what’s wrong with her body, her cycle, or her timeline—only to feel more anxious and less hopeful. * Noticing that the constant testing and tweaking is affecting her mental health. (Like it was for me) * Starting to wonder if there’s another way—because fixing and forcing hasn’t worked, and maybe… just maybe… it’s time to try trusting in the mystery of fertility instead. If that’s you, come listen here.   And if you listen and think, “Okay, this is what I want — but how do I actually do that?”  Then come join us inside Fertility Mind-Body Mastery.   That’s where we take this truth and make it tangible. Where you learn how to regulate your nervous system, trust your body, and create the conditions for life to feel safe to land.   No more perfection. No more proving.  Just deep trust, steady support, and powerful transformation   Listen now!

I have to tell you about one of the most powerful full-circle moments I’ve ever witnessed in my coaching career — and now you get to witness it too. In the latest coaching call of the Fertility Mind-Body Mastery, something magical happened. One of my longtime clients — who just completed her third (!!) round of FMBM — shows up to her very last call… with her newborn baby in her arms Baby Daniel. (Yes — partly named after a good man. My husband Dan, actually ) But that’s not even the most touching part. She opens up about a powerful force she felt all throughout trying to conceive. One she thought was pressure… or obsession… or maybe even her “crazy” for wanting another baby.  But the moment she gave birth? That force left her body. And she realized… It was never fear. It was never lack. It was never selfishness. It was love. It was purpose. It was something far bigger than her, moving through her.  A divine current saying: I choose you for this And now that Daniel is here, she can feel the peace again. Not because she finally got what she wanted… but because she followed the call. So my love, that’s what this episode is all about: What if your desire isn’t coming from you… but for you? What if that ache isn’t a problem to fix… but a guide to follow? What if you're not crazy for wanting more… but chosen for it? This is one of those episodes that will soften every harsh voice in your head and help you feel safe to trust your desires again — especially if the world tells you you’re asking for too much.

Let’s cut the fertility fluff. You say you want the baby. And I 100% believe you. But the real question is: Does your nervous system—the bodyguard of what gets let in—believe it’s actually safe to receive this? This week’s episode is not for the surface-level manifesting girlies. This is for the woman who’s done so damn much and still feels like she’s stuck in fertility purgatory. Because here’s what no one tells you:  Sometimes, it’s not the heartbreak you’re scared of anymore. It’s the vulnerability of letting yourself have it. This episode will hit if: You see your baby in a meditation—soft cheeks, tiny toes, you even feel their energy in the room with you—and without even thinking, you snap your eyes open and shake it off like it was too much. Too real. Too soon. You tell your friend, “Honestly, I’m okay either way.” But you feel your throat tighten—because you’re not. Not really. You just don’t want to sound desperate. You told yourself you’d rest today… but suddenly you’ve “accidentally” created a 12-point plan for optimizing your fertility routine again. Spoiler: That’s not self-sabotage. That’s nervous system survival mode just doin’ its thang. This week on the pod, we’re diving into: * 4 reasons why receiving can feel like a threat, not a reward. * How perfectionism kills your ability to hold paradox which is what regulates your nervous system. * And how to stop managing the fertility journey like a job ...and start actually becoming the woman who can let it in that baby!  LISTEN NOW! And if this episode lands like truth in your bones? Omg you have to join my new program HELD at www.spenserbrassard.com [http://www.spenserbrassard.com/]  It’s where we stop gripping, overthinking, and efforting... and start building real capacity to receive. Because yes, you want the baby.  But deep down? You want so much more than that. You want your softness back. Your peace. Your permission to have a full, juicy, supported life And that’s exactly what we’re practicing together inside HELD. We start May 7. It’s $149 Let this be the season you stop pretending you’re fine with “maybe someday.”  Let this be the season you become the woman whose God damn ready to receive.

If you’re not in the space to hear about pregnancy loss, please take care of yourself and skip this one. But if you’ve been through it—or are in it right now—this is for you. My intention is to honor you. To walk beside you. To name the sacredness of this experience in a world that often doesn’t know how. In this episode, I share my own story: a pregnancy loss I had this past December. I’ve had two healthy boys, and three miscarriages—each one a portal that cracked me open. This most recent one, especially. Not from fear, but from surrender. Pregnancy loss brings you into direct contact with life and death at once. And yet, we don’t freaking talk about it. We don’t honor it. We very often resist it. In this episode, we’ll explore: Why we don’t honor pregnancy loss in our culture (and how that creates suffering)  ️How to gently, soulfully honor a loss in your own life Spirit baby communication & what it means to be in equal relationship with that soul ️What to do with the fear of it happening again And 5 beautiful, creative ways to mark your loss with love This isn’t about fixing anything. It’s about witnessing the deeper truth of an experience that is too often shamed and dismissed  in our culture.  This episode is an offering from my heart to yours. Not to rush you. Not to force meaning. But to remind you that meaning will come. And that you’re not in this alone.  Listen to the episode now

This week’s episode is for the woman who has been through a lot lately. Has life asked you to carry more than most in the past season of your life? You’ve been the strong one. The responsible one. The one with deep resilience. You still show up — even when your heart feels shattered. Even when no one notices how much you’re really holding. And maybe you’re starting to wonder… What happens if I stop holding it all? What happens if I don’t keep over-giving, over-doing, over-functioning? That’s exactly what we’re talking about on the podcast this week: Entering Your Season of Restoration and Receiving  Not because you’re weak. Not because you’ve given up. But because you’re finally wise enough to know… You don’t have to suffer to be worthy of the life you want. We’re unpacking: Why women resist receiving (even when they crave it) The identity shift it takes to feel safe in this new season of your life. What receiving actually means and looks like IRL— on a soul and body level And the truth that might crack your heart wide open: Your desire for your dream life must become bigger than your fear of judgment. This is an invitation to step into a new season. A season where you feel nourished. Supported. Loved. And absolutely fucking worthy of a fabulous dinner out… even if you did nothing all day. This episode is a portal  (I’m not kidding. Listen to it and see…)  And if you’re ready to be deeply held, to soften your grip, and to trust your body and your path again — come join us inside Fertility Mind-Body Mastery. This is the work. This is the place. This is YOUR season.