Dr. Dan Connors, Drilling into Discomfort - Episode 9

Don't Just Ask God to Remove It. You Have to Kill It.

Bobby Turner has a binder. Inside it are decades of prayers, notes, and Scripture -- rewritten with her own name in it. Not platitudes. Weapons.In this episode, Bobbie shares what it looked like when God stopped being a concept and started speaking directly to her, and how she learned to write it down, declare it out loud, and hold on to it when everything else was falling apart. Most of us beg God to remove the hard thing. But the Bible doesn't promise removal. It promises transformation -- if you're willing to go to war with what's inside you instead of waiting for it to leave on its own. You have to kill it.

Vulnerability without alcohol?

Dan has an admission: for years on date nights, he'd knock back a whiskey or two before he could open up to his wife. Not because he had a drinking problem. Because he had a vulnerability problem. That one confession opens up everything in this episode. Jake, Dan, and returning guest Dan Connors work through 1 Peter 4 and land on a question every man eventually has to answer -- what sits on the throne of your heart? Because it's not always alcohol. Sometimes it's competition. Performance. Food. Work. Winning. Anything you reach for when you need to feel something, or stop feeling something. So ask yourself, what would it look like to stop numbing yourself and actually hear from God?

Becoming a Protector with Guest Mike McFadden - Episode 13

Mikes' story starts in a Texas church at age 7 -- walking a church aisle alone because his mom was wise enough to make him own his faith. It runs through a home with an alcoholic father, a teenager who eventually told his own dad this ends now, and a young man who joined the military not out of patriotism, but because his family needed him to. Hard things don't have to break you. Sometimes they build you into exactly who someone else needs.

The Most Mysterious Verse in the Bible? - Episode 12

Martin Luther called it the most obscure passage in the entire New Testament. He didn't know what it meant. Neither do we. And that might be exactly the point. In this episode, the guys wade into 1 Peter 3:18 -- 22. Spirits in prison. The days of Noah. The Nephilim. What happened between the cross and the resurrection that nobody talks about? But underneath all the mystery is something that hits a lot closer to home: the guy who thinks he's too far gone. Too much damage done. Too much to be forgiven. This episode is for him.

Responding to being Wronged - Episode 11

You poured into them. You gave them a shot. You paid their way. And they walked out the door -- sometimes with your money, sometimes to compete against you, sometimes without so much as a thank you. So what do you do with that? Jake and Dan have been there. And so has every man who's ever built something and handed the shovel to someone else. This week, they sit down with Pastor Todd to wrestle through one of the hardest passages in Scripture: 1 Peter 3, and ask the question most men are too proud to admit they're asking: When I've been wronged, when I'm jaded, when everything in me wants to even the score -- what's the right move?