Leadership Becomes Her: Simple, Strategic Solutions for Christian Women Who Lead

Episode 122: Having the Courage to Disappoint Others

23 min · 10 jun 2026
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Hey, Friend! Many leaders get caught up in people pleasing because they don’t have the courage to risk disappointing anyone. In this episode, we explore: * why people pleasing develops * how ministry culture can reinforce unhealthy patterns * the emotional cost of over-functioning * boundaries, honesty, and emotional health * how leaders can serve people without losing themselves If you constantly feel responsible for everyone’s emotions, struggle to say no, replay conversations, or fear disappointing people, this conversation is for you. I pray this blesses you, Becky

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