Life After Plus One

147: When Your Ex Keeps Letting You Down

37 min · 9 feb 2026
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It’s one thing to go through a breakup, but it’s another when your ex keeps letting you down, missing agreements, failing to show up, or making life more complicated than it needs to be. In this episode, we talk about how to handle the frustration, protect your emotional energy, and stop letting their behavior control your mood. You’ll hear why it’s not your fault, how to set boundaries without guilt, and why staying in your lane is the best way to focus on your own life and healing. Whether you’re co-parenting, adjusting to single parenting, or just trying to move forward after a messy breakup, this episode gives you practical guidance and emotional support. Grab you free Intro chat here: Free 30 Min Intro Chat [https://www.lifeafterplusone.com/service-page/free-intro-chat-online?referral=service_list_widget] 👉🏻EXPLORE WAYS TO CREATE YOUR BEST SINGLE PARENT LIFE 1. NEW COPARENTING PLAYBOOK [https://www.lifeafterplusone.com/product-page/the-coparenting-playbook] (The Ultimate Guide to Texting Your Ex) 2. Free 30 Min Intro Chat [https://www.lifeafterplusone.com/service-page/free-intro-chat-online?referral=service_list_widget] 3. Ongoing 1:1 Coaching [https://www.lifeafterplusone.com/service-page/one-on-one-coaching-6-sessions?referral=service_list_widget] 4. Clarity Support Session [https://www.lifeafterplusone.com/service-page/single-parent-q-a?currency=] 5. Join The Facebook Community [https://www.facebook.com/groups/2306876689699898] .................................................................................................................................................. 👉🏻Resources: 1. The Complete Single Parent Reset Session [https://www.lifeafterplusone.com/service-page/the-single-parent-overhaul?referral=service_list_widget] 2. SHOP: The Single Parents Guide to Dating [https://www.lifeafterplusone.com/product-page/the-single-parents-dating-guide-ebook] 3. SHOP: The Single Parents Guide to Single Parenting [https://www.lifeafterplusone.com/product-page/your-single-parents-guide-to-your-single-parent-journey-ebook] 4. SHOP: The Single Parents Guide to Self Care [https://www.lifeafterplusone.com/product-page/your-single-parents-guide-to-prioritizing-self-care] GRAB YOUR COMPLETE EBOOK BUNDLE [https://www.lifeafterplusone.com/product-page/the-ultimate-single-parent-e-book-bundle] HERE, 5 EBOOKS IN 1 BUNDLE ..................................................................................................................................................................................... I’m Leanne Hutchinson, single parent coach and founder of Life After +1. I help single parents rebuild their confidence, set healthy boundaries, and create a life they love after separation. My work helps you transform life after a breakup from overwhelming and uncertain to one filled with confidence, goals, and passion, so you can turn the life you want into your reality. 1. INSTAGRAM [https://www.instagram.com/lifeafterplusone] | WEBSITE [https://www.lifeafterplusone.com/coaching] | YOUTUBE [https://youtube/] | TIKTOK [https://www.tiktok.com/@lifeafterplus1] | FACEBOOK [https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61571321409954]

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153. The Legal Side of Coparenting: Preparing Yourself Emotionally

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152. Is The Story You're Telling Yourself Is Keeping You Stuck

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151. When Your Co-parent Won’t Show Up the Way You Need

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149. The Uncomfortable Truth About Healing

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