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Why You Need a God Who Stepped Into Human History

[https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56b23a868a65e24fb5da70bb/ced83f5d-54aa-4402-8c9b-5bd73ceb3935/OON+20260204.png?format=1000w] There’s nothing harder than being in a difficult situation when it feels like there’s no one who really understands. I felt that on my first trip to Japan. I was living on my own, halfway around the world, struggling with the language, the culture, and the sense of isolation. When a family member made a short visit, it wasn’t just the companionship I enjoyed. Finally, I knew that there was someone who shared what I was going through. It made my conversations with them richer and my difficulties easier to handle. The same is true with God. The most challenged truth about Jesus is that He is both God and man. Muslims claim this results in multiple gods. Jews believe that it’s blasphemy. Others just think that it’s a myth. But a God who stepped into human history is just what we need. We need to know there’s a God who gets us, and because He’s God, He not only understands our pain but has the power to overcome it. WHAT WE MEAN WHEN WE SAY JESUS IS FULLY HUMAN While many modern people struggle to believe that Jesus is God, in the first few centuries of the church, the bigger struggle for people was believing that Jesus was truly human. That’s why the Bible records that Jesus got hungry (Matthew 4:2), thirsty (John 19:28), and tired (John 4:6). Hebrews 4:15 puts it like this: “For we do not have a high priest who is unable to sympathize with our weaknesses, but one who in every respect has been tempted as we are, yet without sin.” Jesus had to deal with loneliness, rejection, misunderstanding, and abuse. He faced pressure, opposition, expectations, and betrayal. Whatever we’re going through, Jesus has been there. And He’s faced it without falling into sin, so He can give us a path through whatever we’re facing. WHAT WE MEAN WHEN WE SAY JESUS IS FULLY GOD It means a lot to know that someone understands us, but if they’re stuck in the same mess we are, then there’s consolation but little hope. Because Jesus is also God, He can overcome our biggest problems, not just relate to them. The Bible declares Jesus’ divinity in many ways. In John 20:28, Thomas overcame his doubts and said, “My Lord and my God!” Peter called Jesus “our God and Savior” (2 Peter 1:1). Paul referred to Christ as “God over all, blessed forever” (Romans 9:5), and John called Jesus the Word and said, “In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God” (John 1:1). WHY WE NEED A GOD WHO ENTERED OUR WORLD Only an infinite God could bear the sins of the whole world. That’s why Romans 5:8 can say, “God shows his love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.” God stepped into our world, took on our nature, and carried our guilt in a real body on the cross. Jesus is the God who is near enough to truly understand what we’re going through, but great enough to solve our deepest problems. A God who only understands our pain but is unable to rescue us leaves us comforted but unchanged. A God who has only power, but no experience of suffering, feels distant and unapproachable. Rightly clarifying what the Bible says about Jesus is important to avoid confusion. The Fellowship [https://www.fellowship.ca/] Affirmation of Faith summarizes the Bible’s teaching on the Son like this: > We believe in the Lord Jesus Christ, the promised Saviour of the world, eternally begotten of the Father, fully God and fully human; we believe in his virgin birth, sinless life, substitutionary death, bodily resurrection, triumphant ascension, mediatorial ministry, and personal return. This is the God who stepped into history to save us. In awe of Him, Paul

Relating to God as Father When Your Relationship With Your Own Dad Is Complicated

[https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56b23a868a65e24fb5da70bb/8cdeb7dd-57f8-4c8d-aeaa-c46a9c159b42/2026+01+28+Out+of+Neutral+Thumbnail.png?format=1000w] Out of the blue, a church member said to me, “I feel the attraction of Catholicism. The idea of praying to Mary would be a lot easier for me than praying to a God called ‘Father.’” She went on to share how severe her own father had been and how he died when she was still in her early teens. He had left her with scars, and they got in the way of her relationship with God. While her situation was unique, many people experience a similar struggle. Overcoming this involves several deliberate steps. Consider these four. 1. REFLECT ON THE FACT THAT YOU HAVE BEEN ADOPTED INTO A NEW FAMILY When Jesus taught His disciples to pray, He started with “Our Father in heaven, hallowed be your name” (Matthew 6:9). When we call God “Father,” we’re not just using a name that’s convenient; it’s one that we’re to reverence. There’s something important about the names of God because they reveal who He is and what He’s like. “Father” not only expresses something important about God’s relationship with Jesus, but it also reminds us of our adoption into a new family. Galatians 4:4-5 teaches that “God sent forth his Son, born of woman, born under the law, to redeem those who were under the law, so that we might receive adoption as sons.” God’s mission in sending Jesus can be seen as a Father going to great lengths to adopt children. When your own father’s influence in your life has been painful, your adoption is an important truth that requires reflection. God chose you to be a part of His family. In love, He became the Father you may not have experienced. You now have an eternal family that will be perfected in glory. 2. GIVE THANKS FOR THE MANY GIFTS HE’S GIVEN YOU People often try to think about God as their newly adopted Father, but make the mistake of trying to interpret Him primarily through their circumstances. God is most clearly revealed through His Word. Passages like Ephesians 1:3-14 give rich descriptions of all that God has done for us. Meditating and maybe even memorizing these passages can help to reshape an understanding of a Father who is loving, generous, and good. Someone who grieves all that their earthly father failed to provide can come to see their heavenly Father as the one “who has blessed us in Christ with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly places” (Ephesians 1:3). Someone whose earthly father related to them with only selfishness and expectations can come to see their heavenly Father as one who paid the ultimate price to redeem us (Ephesians 1:7). Someone whose earthly father was characterized by judgment can begin to rejoice in “the riches of his grace, which [the Father] lavished upon us, in all wisdom and insight” (Ephesians 1:8). That means that God not only treats us with grace, but He does so in a way that is discerning and helpful to our growth. And finally, the person whose earthly Father always left them questioning where they stood can find assurance in a heavenly Father who gives us in the Holy Spirit a down-payment or “guarantee of our inheritance until we acquire possession of it” (Ephesians 1:13-14). 3. LOOK AROUND AT THE FATHER’S CARE FOR HIS CREATION AND KNOW THAT HE CARES FOR YOU MORE Thinking deeply about Scripture helps change how we think about our heavenly Father, but Jesus also encouraged us to look at the birds and the flowers around us. As you look at your garden or as you stroll through a park, you have an opportunity to reflect on God’s tender care of even the least of all He has made. Jesus knew that we have a tendency to exclude ourselves from statements of God’s blessings. We think to ourselves, “That promise is probably for people who are more faithful than me.” So Jesus pointed to creatures that neither strive nor perform to show us it isn’t about measuring up. In Matthew 6:26, He said, “Look at the birds of the air: they neither sow nor reap nor gather into barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not of more value than they?” We’re to read passages like this and say, “Yes, I really am valuable to God.” When words fail us, it can be helpful to borrow language that has been shaped by Scripture and tested by the church. The Fellowship [https://www.fellowship.ca/] Affirmation of Faith describes God the Father as follows: > We believe in God the Father, neither begotten nor proceeding, who, in his perfect love, reigns with providential care over all creation, accomplishes his will, and protects and preserves his children whom he redeems and adopts into his family as co-heirs with Christ. That is the Father Jesus wants us to know and trust, even when our earthly experience of fatherhood makes that difficult. Let the Scriptures reshape your understanding of the word “father” and fuel your love for your Father in heaven, even if you grieve the impact that your earthly father has had upon you. In awe of Him, Paul

The Scriptures That Convinced Me That God Is a Trinity

[https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56b23a868a65e24fb5da70bb/cc595bfa-5afe-445c-89f1-c4cde8353ba1/OON+m1w2+Thumbnail.png?format=1000w] The belief that God is both three and one is Christianity’s most disputed doctrine. Jews argue that the Trinity is at odds with the Hebrew Scriptures, which declare God as one. Muslims accuse Christians of polytheism. Jehovah’s Witnesses believe that the concept of the Trinity is pagan and unbiblical. Mormons are convinced that the doctrine was influenced by Greek philosophy. Many are suspicious of the Trinity because the word never appears in the Bible. Is it time for Christians to abandon their belief in the Trinity? THE TRINITY EXPLAINS WHAT THE BIBLE PROCLAIMS It shouldn’t trouble people that the Bible doesn’t contain the word “Trinity.” It doesn’t have the word monotheism either, or most of the theological words that we use to describe what the Bible teaches. These words are just shorthand to help us refer to biblical concepts. The bigger question is whether the Bible teaches that the Father is God, the Son is God, and the Spirit is God, and that God is at the same time one God, not three. The following are some of the Scriptures that convinced me of that. GENESIS 1:1-2 In the opening verses of the Bible, we’re introduced to a concept of God that is more complex than other beings. We hear that “God created the heavens and the earth” (Genesis 1:1), but then we learn that “the Spirit of God was hovering over the face of the waters” (Genesis 1:2). Who is this Spirit of God who appears to act separately but in harmony with God? This happens all through the Old Testament as the Spirit leads people (Psalm 143:10), carries people (1 Kings 18:12), enters people (Ezekiel 2:2), and comes upon them (2 Chronicles 20:14). GENESIS 1:26-27 Then, before we’ve even gotten out of the first chapter of the Bible, we hear God say, “Let us make man in our image, after our likeness” (Genesis 1:26). You can’t help but wonder who God is talking to. Some say that God is just addressing the angels in his royal court, but nobody believes that humans are created in the image of angels—we’re created in the image of God. God uses similar language in Genesis 3:22, 11:7, and Isaiah 6:8. The one God must be a plurality of some sort. ISAIAH 9:6 The hints of the Trinity earlier in the Old Testament reach a climax in Isaiah 9:6 and the prophecy of a Messiah who will be born as a child but called “Mighty God.” The idea that this is just a regular name that declares “God is mighty” will not do. If God is one and the Messiah is divine, then our understanding of God needs to expand. The Old Testament sets the stage for an understanding of the Trinity. JOHN 1:1 What is hinted at in the Old Testament becomes explicit in the New Testament. John 1:1 refers to Jesus as “the Word” when it says, “In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God.” But John is merely reflecting Jesus’ own teaching. He made statements like “I and the Father are one” (John 10:30) and “before Abraham was, I am” (John 8:58). The people who heard Him either accused Him of blasphemy (John 10:33) or worshipped Him as Thomas did in John 20:28 when he proclaimed, “My Lord and my God!” MATTHEW 28:19 The Trinity, far from being a later development of the Christian church, has been a part of Christian baptismal practices ever since Jesus commissioned the apostles. In Matthew 28:19, Jesus sends out the apostles, saying, “Go therefore and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit.” If Jesus believed that the Father, Son, and Spirit were three gods, grammatically, He should have said “names,” not “name.” The “name” of the Father, Son, and Spirit points to a shared unity of the three members of the godhead. The language of the Trinity is unavoidable. The Fellowship [https://www.fellowship.ca] Affirmation of Faith describes the Bible’s teaching on the Trinity as follows: > We believe in one God, creator of all, holy, sovereign, immutable, and existing eternally in three equal persons: the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit, each being truly and essentially God. The church didn’t invent the Trinity. Christians believe it because the Scriptures teach it. That doesn’t mean that it’s easy to grasp. It describes a God who is more complex than any being we’ve ever known. But to simplify the nature of God to make Him easier to understand would be to distort who He really is. Accept the mystery and bow before the wonder that God is both three persons and one God. In awe of Him, Paul

Four Lies That Empty the Bible of Its Power

[https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56b23a868a65e24fb5da70bb/1055b037-b6a3-4b55-96ea-5548804ab85a/OON+m1w1+Thumbnail.png?format=1000w] Most people don’t discount the Bible altogether. It’s been around long enough for people to treat it with a measure of respect. Christians, in particular, would say that they “believe the Bible.” But that doesn’t mean that it speaks with power in their lives. I was listening to a podcast yesterday hosted by several preachers sharing insights about wedding sermons. One of the trends they noted was that many couples will ask that they not preach on Ephesians 5:22-33. This is the passage that gives the most direct teaching on Christian marriage in the entire Bible, and many Christians are asking their pastors not to preach on it! That feels like a symptom of a deeper problem. I think it’s the result of wrong thinking about what the Bible is and what it can do. Ask yourself whether you believe one of these four lies. LIE 1: THE BIBLE ISN’T ENOUGH The Bible doesn’t teach us about algebra or astrophysics, but it does tell us all we need to know about God and the life He desires us to live. 2 Timothy 3:16-17 says that “All Scripture is breathed out by God and profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, and for training in righteousness, that the man of God may be complete, equipped for every good work.” If you know God’s Word, you know all you need to know to grow in godliness and good works. That’s why the Bible contains warnings against adding to the Scriptures (Deuteronomy 4:2; Revelation 22:18-19). Many people think the Bible is good but inadequate. You see this in churches that emphasize traditions that can’t be explained from Scripture. You see this in sermons that talk more about the pastor’s ideas and experience than they do about God’s Word. And you see this in people whose convictions are rooted in thoughts that have nothing to do with the Bible. If the Bible is sufficient, it should be your foundation and your focus. LIE 2: GOD INSPIRED THE IDEAS, NOT THE WORDS As people begin to read the Bible, they realize that it’s written by regular people. In fact, it was written by over 40 people on three continents (Africa, Asia, and Europe) in three languages (Hebrew, Aramaic, and Greek) over 1,500 years. From that, they assume that God must have just inspired the ideas and people made up the words. They figure that God just gave the gist of what He wanted to get across, but the Bible doesn’t say that. When Jesus talked about the Scriptures, He said, “Until heaven and earth pass away, not an iota, not a dot, will pass from the Law until all is accomplished” (Matthew 5:18). An iota is the smallest letter in the Greek alphabet, and the word for “dot” referred to a tiny stroke used in Hebrew letters. This was Jesus’ way of saying even the dots on the i’s and the crossing of the t’s in the Bible are just how God wanted them. That’s why it says, “All Scripture is breathed out by God” (2 Timothy 3:16). The actual words matter because God carefully chose every one of them. LIE 3: SOMETHING GOT LOST IN TRANSLATION Another way people get confused about the Bible’s divine/human authorship is that they assume that the human authors were interpreting what they thought God was saying, and the message got mixed up in the process. The Bible says the opposite. 2 Peter 1:20-21 says, “No prophecy of Scripture comes from someone's own interpretation. For no prophecy was ever produced by the will of man, but men spoke from God as they were carried along by the Holy Spirit.” Not only did God say what He wanted to say, but He ensured that it was written down just as He wanted it. So we can’t ever say, “That’s just what Paul says,” or “That was only Peter’s opinion.” God’s Word was given to us through human authors, but the Holy Spirit ensured they got the message right. LIE 4: THE BIBLE CAN’T KEEP UP WITH THE TIMES Every culture and every generation has its defining beliefs. When those are in conflict with the Bible, people often look for a way to explain away what God has said. We’re seeing that today, where the Scriptures differ from our culture’s attitudes toward gender and sexuality. Trends in morality and thought come and go, so we need a timeless perspective to ground us. The Bible is just that. Isaiah 40:8 says, “The grass withers, the flower fades, but the word of our God will stand forever.” With the internet and evolving technologies, we’re constantly confronted with the speed of change. But even in Isaiah’s day, the changing of the seasons was set in contrast to the constancy of God’s Word. The Bible doesn’t need to keep up with the times because it is timeless. And we need its timeless message in every generation. Where it differs from the culture’s prevailing thought, we need its message all the more! The Fellowship [https://www.fellowship.ca] statement on the Bible summarizes these truths as follows: > We believe the Bible to be the complete word of God, that the sixty-six books comprising the Old and New Testaments were verbally inspired by the Spirit of God and were entirely free from error as originally written, that God has superintended the transmission of Scripture throughout the ages, and that the Bible is the final authority in all matters of faith and practice and is the true basis of Christian union. Are there areas where your understanding of the Bible differs from what the Bible says about itself? Choose to believe what God has said. It’s in His Word that you meet Him, hear Him, and can be transformed by Him. In awe of Him, Paul

The Top 10 of 2025

[https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/56b23a868a65e24fb5da70bb/fd38a414-e026-41c7-b1bd-13bd86148f04/OON+Top+10+of+2025+Thumbnail.png?format=1000w] As I look back on Out of Neutral in December, every year tells a story, not only about what I shared but about where people’s interests lie. This year’s most-read articles and most-watched videos ranged from practical topics like food, fitness, and small groups to more existential ones like death, judgment, and eternity. Here are the 10 posts that drew the most attention. See if there’s something you missed the first time or want to give a second look. 10. WHAT HAPPENS AFTER I DIE? [https://www.gracebc.ca/blog/2016/10/12/straight-talk-about-the-afterlife-] LifeWay Research uncovered some surprising contradictions in people’s views about the afterlife and salvation. Why are so many confused, and what does the Bible really teach? 9. WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT PURGATORY [https://www.gracebc.ca/blog/2025/4/23/what-you-need-to-know-about-purgatory] Is heaven the next stop for those who trust in Jesus? Or do we go through a cleansing fire first? Understanding the history and biblical basis for purgatory helps us prepare for the afterlife and appreciate the great hope of the gospel. 8. SIX MISTAKES PEOPLE MAKE LEADING SMALL GROUP BIBLE STUDIES [https://www.gracebc.ca/blog/2025/6/18/6-mistakes-people-make-leading-small-group-bible-studies] Have you ever been in a small group discussion that was more awkward than awesome? You look around and see silence, rambling, confusion, and irritation. Maybe you’ve been the one leading and wondered what went wrong. Consider these pitfalls that can make even the best of Bible studies less than they were intended to be. 7. HOW FAKE NEWS HAS CHANGED YOU AND WHAT YOU CAN DO ABOUT IT [https://www.gracebc.ca/blog/2025/3/5/how-fake-news-has-changed-you-and-what-you-can-do-about-it] Fake news isn’t just a problem—it’s changed how we think. We believe what feels right, trust people less, and spread misinformation without realizing it. Here’s how fake news affects you, why it matters, and what you can do to resist it. 6. WHAT DOES THE BIBLE TEACH ABOUT FOOD? [https://www.gracebc.ca/blog/2025/1/15/what-does-the-bible-teach-about-food] The ancient church thought so much about food that they made gluttony one of the seven deadly sins. Today, many Christians are unsure whether the Bible has anything meaningful to say about food at all. As a result, our views of food are often shaped more by appetite, diet culture, guilt, or body image than by Scripture. This post offers a biblical framework for thinking rightly about food and the bodies God has given us. 5. BLASPHEMY AGAINST THE HOLY SPIRIT: HOW DO I KNOW IF I’VE COMMITTED THE UNFORGIVABLE SIN? [https://www.gracebc.ca/blog/2025/9/24/blasphemy-against-the-holy-spirit-how-do-i-know-if-ive-committed-the-unforgivable-sin] Many Christians fear they’ve committed the unforgivable sin. What did Jesus mean by blasphemy against the Holy Spirit? This post looks at the context to give clarity to Jesus’ warning and shows how fear itself points to hope in Christ. 4. WHAT “K-POP DEMON HUNTERS” GETS RIGHT ABOUT DEMONS AND SHAME [https://www.gracebc.ca/blog/2025/9/10/what-k-pop-demon-hunters-gets-right-about-demons-and-shame] A record-breaking Netflix hit mixes K-pop spectacle with spiritual themes of demons, shame, and deliverance. What does it get right, and where does it miss? This post explores the biblical themes raised by K-pop Demon Hunters. 3. WHAT HAPPENS IN A SMALL GROUP AND WHY YOU NEED ONE [https://www.gracebc.ca/blog/2025/5/21/what-happens-in-a-small-group-and-why-you-need-one] Church can be a lonely place if you never get past the crowd. God didn’t design us to be able to grow in isolation. This post explains what small groups are meant to be and why they play such a vital role in experiencing the family of God. 2. A CHRISTIAN’S GUIDE TO DIETING AND FITNESS [https://www.gracebc.ca/blog/2025/2/12/a-christians-guide-to-dieting-and-fitness] We receive powerful messages every day about losing weight and getting fit. But what if the modern messages about health are at odds with the Bible? Consider these three ways the Bible calls Christians to think about dieting and fitness. 1. IS IT WRONG FOR CHRISTIANS TO CHOOSE CREMATION? [https://www.gracebc.ca/blog/2025/4/16/is-it-wrong-for-christians-to-choose-cremation] In 1980 in Canada, only 6% of people opted for cremation, and most of them would have been non-Christians. Today, that figure is over 75%, and it’s a popular option among people of all faiths. How are Christians to think of this trend? Is this a question of faith? Is it wrong to cremate a body? It’s encouraging to see our reach growing with visits to our website double (142,000) and views of our YouTube channel (40,000) up by 60% compared to last year. While most visits to our website are from Canada and the U.S., significant numbers also come from China, the Philippines, Nigeria, India, and Ghana. It’s a privilege to be able to share God’s Word with people from all over the globe. Thank you for tuning in and sharing links to content you found helpful in 2025. If there are questions you’d like me to explore in the new year, please share them. I’d love to hear from you! In awe of Him, Paul