The Dating Mirror

EP 4: "“I Get Excited Too Quickly & Give More Than I Receive”

41 min · 16 apr 2026
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If you’ve ever found yourself overgiving… overthinking… or chasing clarity in dating—this episode is for you. In this live coaching session of The Dating Mirror, I sit down with Jennifer, who’s entering dating from a more grounded and self-aware place—but still noticing old patterns come up. Inside this episode, we dive into: * Why anxious attachment leads to overgiving and overthinking * How abandonment wounds show up in dating * The shift from chasing love → letting it be presented to you * What to do when your head & heart are in conflict * A powerful reframe around ghosting and rejection This episode is for you if you: * Feel like you give more than you receive * Attract emotionally unavailable men * Are ready for a relationship that feels calm, secure, and aligned Because you don’t need to chase love— you need to trust yourself enough to choose what’s right for you. 🎧 Tune in and start dating from a place of clarity and confidence. Want the chance to be coached live on the show, experience real breakthroughs, and walk away with a clear shift in your dating life? Connect with Mary on instagram {click here} [www.instagram.com/marymc4/] Apply here: ⁠⁠⁠https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSd10BMm0gB8kePn9TevXCcqEB-sqzJFldXAR-13n2BEWjP8sg/viewform?usp=header⁠⁠⁠ [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSd10BMm0gB8kePn9TevXCcqEB-sqzJFldXAR-13n2BEWjP8sg/viewform?usp=header] If you’d rather not come on the podcast but still want your dating questions answered, you can submit them anonymously here: 👉⁠⁠⁠https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe5X5SeQcThAL_WBedIM-ivroXeROScGio44O2yqIuCdmf58A/viewform?usp=header⁠⁠⁠ [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe5X5SeQcThAL_WBedIM-ivroXeROScGio44O2yqIuCdmf58A/viewform?usp=header] As a thank you for supporting the podcast (and leaving a 5-star rating & review 💕), I created something special for you: “Where to Meet High-Value Men” 👉⁠⁠⁠https://courses.truevibewellness.com/offers/jn3FPAYx/checkout [https://courses.truevibewellness.com/offers/jn3FPAYx/checkout]

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