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Before You Say “I Do”: Things to Consider when Choosing your Spouse

13 min · 23 feb 2026
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In this episode of the Pearls and Perils, Peta-Kay shares her personal journey of marriage from getting married at 23, the lessons learned and advice for those considering marriage. She explores key aspects and areas of compatibility to consider when choosing a spouse. If you have a dilemma (peril) that you'd like to share anonymously email: ⁠info@pearlsandperils.com⁠ or send a direct message to @⁠yourfinancept⁠ on Instagram.Book a Finance coaching session with me: https://www.pearlsandperils.com [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqa3dSTzFWU3Q4eWtNaExHanRja2hfeDYtZlFQd3xBQ3Jtc0ttb1RsaWRUcEtaOVZyYkVfSTJrZ0JZRE5mVmIxM0I0QTZZbGxTYU4zQWdIV0M1UTE0VlhxREdDN25KeGFvWTd5U2lrTEVSdWdNT1ZhRFRpczhtOFBtU2tLaHhLT01LWW8tSmhySkJFbE16SGFqZmJxcw&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.pearlsandperils.com%2F&v=3yBCPh4L8LE]You can stay connected with me on social media at:Instagram: @yourfinanceptTiktok: @yourfinanceptGrab a copy of my Finance & Budgeting tracker:https://www.pearlsandperils.com/shop [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbjNWbGNIemp4Z3ZwcFpnV1ZiZlpnRXhNZnhXd3xBQ3Jtc0tsQzh5RVpqSjZmaEJwdVUzNEY4RHhfRDNTTVR3aEhTdVdhZkRGcTYyMVN3cjVMRWlrbU1DNEg2OGhTYXhqcEtET1JfWFU0eGd1Z0Q5MWJBYV9sQURheWZicUk4QktaMzQtTVB6QjlHbXVwTGloakFrWQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.pearlsandperils.com%2Fshop&v=3yBCPh4L8LE]

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