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The Realities of Intimate Partner Violence - Part 1 | Guest - Sarah Ludwig, LPC

1 h 5 min · 26. april 2026
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Intimate partner violence is is far more prolific than we probably realize, and that's because of the shame, stigma and shadows it involves.   I sat down with Sarah Ludwig, LPC, a certified EMDR therapist and trauma-focused counselor with over a decade ofexperience working with survivors of sexual violence and intimate partner violence to educate myself and to bring the discussion to listeners of this podcast.   We get into: --- What intimate partner violence actually looks like beyond the physical — financial control, isolation, sexual coercion, threats to pets, and more --- Why strong, empowered people end up in these relationships and how the cycle works --- The difference between helping a loved one in a DV situation vs. enabling an addiction --- Strangulation as a massive predictor of lethality — and why it's an urgent red flag every time --- Safety planning across the full spectrum --- Victim resources, free therapy, and VCAP funding available in every U.S. state   This is Part 1 of a two-part conversation. Part 2 drops next Sunday. Check the show notes for every resource mentioned in this episode.   📌 RESOURCES 🆘 National Domestic Violence Hotline: https://www.thehotline.org/ [https://www.thehotline.org/] | 1-800-799-7233 🆘 Text START to 88788 | Chat 24/7 at thehotline.org [thehotline.org] 📋 Personal Safety Plan:https://www.thehotline.org/plan-for-safety/create-your-personal-safety-plan/ [https://www.thehotline.org/plan-for-safety/create-your-personal-safety-plan/] 📖 Strangulation & Domestic Violence Research:https://www.nationwidechildrens.org/family-resources-education/700childrens/2025/10/strangulation-and-domestic-violence [https://www.nationwidechildrens.org/family-resources-education/700childrens/2025/10/strangulation-and-domestic-violence] 📖 The Violent Reality of Strangulation: https://www.safeaustin.org/the-violent-reality-of-strangulation/ [https://www.safeaustin.org/the-violent-reality-of-strangulation/] 🌐 National Resource Center on Domestic Violence: https://nrcdv.org/ [https://nrcdv.org/] 🌐 National Network to End Domestic Violence: https://nnedv.org/ [https://nnedv.org/] 🏠 Blackburn Center (SW Pennsylvania): https://www.blackburncenter.org/ [https://www.blackburncenter.org/] 🏠 Women's Center & Shelter of Greater Pittsburgh: https://wcspittsburgh.org/ [https://wcspittsburgh.org/] 🏠 PA Coalition Against Domestic Violence: https://www.pcadv.org/find-help/ [https://www.pcadv.org/find-help/]  ___________________________________ MOTIVATION N'AT — Hot Mess to High Potential® The podcast where real life gets talked about, hosted by Natalie Bulger. New episodes every Sunday. ___________________________________   About Sarah Ludwig, LPC Sarah Ludwig is a Licensed Professional Counselor specializing in trauma, PTSD, sexual abuse, and intimate partner violence. She is a certified EMDR therapist based in Irwin, PA, and has extensive experience working with survivors of sexual violence and domestic violence, including time at Blackburn Center.  ___________________________________ 📲 Follow Natalie: Instagram & Threads: @Sincerely__Natalie

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