28. Thomas R. Wilson on Storytelling, Neurodiverse Voices, Enjoyment, D&D, & more

30. James-Olivia Chu-Hillman: Supporting A Scared Parent Around A Child’s “Dangerous” Behavior

My guest is James-Olivia Chu Hillman, one of my mentors and someone who has taught me SO MUCH about relating! // In this episode, I bare my heart to James-Olivia and they share their skills around holding non-judgmental space. // TW: We discuss an incident at my son's school where he threatened to bring a 6un to school and how well (sarcasm) that went over with the school authorities. // I struggle with knowing what type of accountability is "fair" and "right" to hold a young, neurodivergent child to, without "pissing off" everyone for letting something so serious "slide." // I share this conversation in the hopes that it resonates with other parents who have had similar struggles, of themselves or their child getting vilified by the over-culture, and of struggles around how to do compassionate and appropriate accountability in an over-culture that over-couples accountability with punishment. // JAMES-OLIVIA SHOW NOTES: // Website: https://inquisitivehuman.com/ [https://inquisitivehuman.com/] Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/inquisitive_human/ [https://www.instagram.com/inquisitive_human/] Upcoming offerings: SKILLED & SOVEREIGN A relationship skills intensive for humans who want to connect deeply, interrupt their own relational fuckery, communicate cleanly, be more themselves, and relate competently when difference is present and the stakes are high… https://inquisitivehuman.com/ [https://inquisitivehuman.com/] REGARD An exploration & practice of right relationship. https://inquisitivehuman.com/regard [https://inquisitivehuman.com/regard] // CELESTYNA WILD ANNOUNCEMENTS: // Holidays 2024 FREE gift for parents: https://celestynawild.com/worksheets-workshops/p/holiday-2024-gift [/worksheets-workshops/p/holiday-2024-gift] SIGN UP FOR EMAILS! https://wildchild.myflodesk.com/celestyna-wild-coaching [https://wildchild.myflodesk.com/celestyna-wild-coaching] For inquiries about accessible pricing: celestynawild (@) gmail (.) com Website: https://celestynawild.com/ [https://celestynawild.com/] Book a free virtual discovery chat:  https://celestynawild.as.me/vibe-check [https://celestynawild.as.me/vibe-check] *New* misbehavior course: https://celestynawild.com/worksheets-workshops/p/decode [https://celestynawild.com/worksheets-workshops/p/decode] Free + low-cost resources: https://celestynawild.com/worksheets-workshops [https://celestynawild.com/worksheets-workshops] Latest Substack Article: Why we "argue for our limitations": https://celestynawild.substack.com/p/why-we-argue-for-our-limitations [https://celestynawild.substack.com/p/why-we-argue-for-our-limitations] NOW ENROLLING for 1:1 coaching on parenting, neurodiversity, and/or relationships! Inquire about accessible/flexible pricing!

29. Melanie Piazza: Creating Family Village Coop - A “3rd space” of community, co-working & childcare

My guest today: Melanie Piazza, Founder of Family Village Coop About Melanie and Family Village Coop: Founder Melanie Hekkelman-Piazza came up with the idea for Family Village in response to raising an infant and 3 year-old while also caretaking her terminally ill mother (in a town she'd just moved to). Fueled by desperation, isolation and rage, she gathered like-minded mothers and set to work building the space of her dreams. Within six months, the doors were open and lives were being changed. Six years and more than 250 families later, Family Village continues to buck the status quo of childcare and parenting norms to bring families the work-life balance they crave.  We talk about:  * ~ A win-win-win + what Melanie brings to the spaces she leases * ~ Why Melanie started Village Coop * ~ Sacred rage * ~ Mothering + entrepreneurship * ~ The million dollar question about how mothers chose to invest in themselves vs investing in others/things outside them * ~ Melanie’s own entrepreneurship journey ~ Doing entrepreneurship intuitively/”unprofessionally” Melanie Piazza shownotes links: Family Village Coop: https://www.familyvillagecoop.com/ [https://www.familyvillagecoop.com/] Celestyna Wild shownotes links: SIGN UP FOR EMAILS! https://wildchild.myflodesk.com/celestyna-wild-coaching [https://wildchild.myflodesk.com/celestyna-wild-coaching] email (for inquiries about accessible pricing) celestynawild (@) gmail (.) com website: https://celestynawild.com/ [https://celestynawild.com/] book a free virtual discovery chat: https://celestynawild.as.me/vibe-check [https://celestynawild.as.me/vibe-check] *new* misbehavior course: https://celestynawild.com/worksheets-workshops/p/decode [https://celestynawild.com/worksheets-workshops/p/decode] free + low-cost resources: https://celestynawild.com/worksheets-workshops [https://celestynawild.com/worksheets-workshops] Holidays 2024 gift: Shop Surprise Balls: https://celestynawild.com/surprise-balls [https://celestynawild.com/surprise-balls] Latest Substack Article: How I Stopped Yelling At My Kids: https://celestynawild.substack.com/p/how-i-stopped-yelling-at-my-kids [https://celestynawild.substack.com/p/how-i-stopped-yelling-at-my-kids] NOW ENROLLING for 6 months of coaching on parenting, neurodiversity, and/or relationships! Accessible pricing available - inquire, no justification needed! Please like, share, review, rate, comment - all the things - it helps me out so much and generosity is a spell that gives back and creates magic in such rich ways.

28. Thomas R. Wilson on Storytelling, Neurodiverse Voices, Enjoyment, D&D, & more

This was such a sweet, wise and rich conversation! My guest is:  Thomas R Wilson is a professional Advocate, Writer, Consultant, Business Owner, and Sensory Friendly Event Specialist. His work is centered around an empathic and person-first mindset that works to empower and uplift community voices. His work is inspired by his own personal experiences within his life as a member of the Neuro-diverse and Mental Health community. We talked about:  * nuances of neurodiversity * how I met Thomas, what I asked him, and why his answer impressed me * the importance of allowing others to share their voice and feel appreciated * what to do if you think you’re bad at storytelling * how the West vs how indigenous cultures view storytelling * deficit vs strengths based approaches * what Thomas does when there’s conflict or activation in one of his games * the importance of enjoyment * so much more Thomas R Wilson shownotes links:  website: https://rhcreativeadvocacyandstorytelling.net/ [https://rhcreativeadvocacyandstorytelling.net/] email: ndttrpg@gmail.com linked in: https://www.linkedin.com/in/thomas-wilson-42762927b/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/thomas-wilson-42762927b/] linktree: https://linktr.ee/ndttrpg [https://linktr.ee/ndttrpg] Celestyna Wild shownotes links:   email (for inquiries about accessible pricing) celestynawild (@) gmail (.) com website: https://celestynawild.com/ [https://celestynawild.com/] book a free full session (use code FIRSTFREE): https://celestynawild.as.me/1 [https://celestynawild.as.me/1] book a free virtual coffee chat: https://celestynawild.as.me/vibe-check [https://celestynawild.as.me/vibe-check] *new* communication course: https://celestynawild.com/worksheets-workshops/p/cc-mini [https://celestynawild.com/worksheets-workshops/p/cc-mini] free + low-cost resources: https://celestynawild.com/worksheets-workshops [https://celestynawild.com/worksheets-workshops] Cancer shell Substack article: https://open.substack.com/pub/celestynawild/p/heres-what-i-think-cancers-shell?r=2e1zfl&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web&showWelcomeOnShare=true [https://open.substack.com/pub/celestynawild/p/heres-what-i-think-cancers-shell?r=2e1zfl&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web&showWelcomeOnShare=true] NOW ENROLLING for 6 months of coaching on parenting or relationships! Accessible pricing available - inquire, no justification needed! Please like, share, review, rate, comment - all the things - it helps me out so much and generosity is a spell that gives back and creates magic in such rich ways.

27. Nyasha Williams + Kenda Bell on Saturday Magic, Hoodoo, Ancestral Veneration, Elemental Magic + More!

Today, I am speaking with the co-authors of an inspiring, visionary, culturally rich, and life-force activating picture book called Saturday Magic! Kenda Bell: Kenda Bell-Spruill, known as "Joy Factor Mama," is a living reminder of resilience, tenacity, and transformation. Her life tapestry, woven with threads of overcoming breast cancer, triumphing over stuttering, navigating single motherhood, and discovering marital bliss after 40, is a vibrant testament to the indomitable spirit within every woman.  As a spiritual nutritionist, Kenda transforms her life lessons into an enlightening roadmap for others on their self-discovery journeys. She's mastered various disciplines from Feminine Power to Bagua™ Astrology and the GROW™ & SMART™ methods - skills she weaves into her unique Joy Factor Method™.  Kenda shares her wisdom in her engaging journal, "The Ethical Selfishness Journal: 12 Pathways Back To Joy". She urges women to afford themselves the grace and understanding to be empowered to tap into their sacred magic through joy without apology.  Connect with her at http://www.kendabell.com or thejoyfactormama@gmail.com Nyasha Williams: Nyasha Williams is a creator dedicated to healing, indigenizing, and liberation through creativity. With a profound commitment to storytelling, Nyasha advocates for diverse works of art, media, and literature that amplify unheard voices. With fifteen pieces of work published or in the publishing process, Nyasha's impact on literature is profound. Her tarot and oracle deck, "Black Tarot: An Ancestral Awakening" and "Elemental Alchemist," are testaments to her transformative artistry. Based in Colorado, Nyasha invites collaborators to join her in creating a more just and liberated society.  With a deep-rooted passion for writing and a commitment to sharing her process with community, Nyasha is on a mission to usher in an era of unapologetic, diverse works of art, media, and literature. Nyasha is the founder and creative director of Fire + Honey Press, a digital publishing honeycomb created toward collective liberation. You can find her on Instagram at @writingtochangethenarrative and on The Creative Playground with Nyasha Williams on Substack. This inspiring + energizing conversation, we touched on: * Hoodoo, * ancestral veneration, * elemental magic, * practical magic tips + advice, * Saturday Magic (Kenda + Nyasha's book), * different days for different magics, * ancestral money, * burning money - why do it, * ancestral money readings, madame CJ Walker and being self-made, * sigils,  * and more! Shownotes:  Kenda Bell website: ⁠https://pensight.com/x/kendabell⁠ [https://pensight.com/x/kendabell] Nyasha picture books (for ages little to adult!): https://www.nyashawilliams.online/nyashawilliamspicturebooks [https://www.nyashawilliams.online/nyashawilliamspicturebooks] About Ancestor money: https://nyashawilliams.substack.com/p/ancestor-money-411-part-1 [https://nyashawilliams.substack.com/p/ancestor-money-411-part-1] Events: https://www.nyashawilliams.online/eventswithnyashawilliams [https://www.nyashawilliams.online/eventswithnyashawilliams] https://www.ayacondenver.art/home [https://www.ayacondenver.art/home] Aquatic Sound Baths: https://www.nyashawilliams.online/nyashawilliamsaquaticsoundbaths [https://www.ayacondenver.art/home] Publishing Company: https://www.nyashawilliams.online/fireandhoneypress [https://www.nyashawilliams.online/fireandhoneypress] Substack: https://nyashawilliams.substack.com/ [https://nyashawilliams.substack.com/] Newest books: Saturday Magic: https://www.nyashawilliams.online/saturdaymagic [https://www.nyashawilliams.online/saturdaymagic] Where is Koketso?: https://www.nyashawilliams.online/whereiskoketso [https://www.nyashawilliams.online/whereiskoketso] Ancestral Money Reading: https://www.nyashawilliams.online/booking-calendar/ancestor-money-readings?referral=service_list_widget [https://www.nyashawilliams.online/booking-calendar/ancestor-money-readings?referral=service_list_widget] Celestyna Wild: website: https://celestynawild.com [https://celestynawild.com] book (use code FIRSTFREE for a sample single session): https://celestynawild.com/book [https://celestynawild.com/book] resources (inc. free resources!): https://celestynawild.com/worksheets-workshops [https://celestynawild.com/worksheets-workshops] Compassionate Communication Course: https://celestynawild.com/nvc-parenting [https://celestynawild.com/nvc-parenting] substack: ⁠https://celestynawild.substack.com/⁠ [https://celestynawild.substack.com/⁠] free resources: ⁠https://celestynawild.com/free-resources⁠ [⁠https://celestynawild.com/free-resources⁠] NOW ENROLLING for 6 months of coaching on parenting or relationships! Email celestynawild @ gmail.com to get started! Accessible pricing available - inquire! https://celestynawild.com/ https://celestynawild.substack.com/ https://celestynawild.com/free-resources https://celestynawild.com/book https://celestynawild.com/book

26. Lena McCain of Interfaith Bridge Counseling: Financial Hygiene for Teens + Making Money Fun

I was so excited for this convo and I listened again while I produced this podcast - it’s sooo good, and a life-changing listen for teens, parents, and all people! Can’t wait to hear what you think! Lena McCain is the Founder of Interfaith Bridge Counseling, where she continues her support as the Clinical Director. She also holds a Master of Arts degree in Clinical Mental Health: Mindfulness-Based Transpersonal Counseling Psychology from Naropa University. Lena’s drive and passions lie in person-centered, liberation-based mental health, which she has spent the last 12 years studying with an emphasis on one’s exploration of personal growth, community healing, and multicultural values. Lena’s expertise in these areas and the therapeutic field acts as a reminder to our community, teens, and young adults that they are not alone in their experience of life. Lena spends most of her time working alongside other individuals and organizations, helping to foster brave spaces for more transformative, connected experiences. Lena lives in Denver, Colorado with her partner, Brandon. They have two Shar Peis named Yia Yia and Bao, and one Terrier Mix named Mimosa. In this episode we discuss:  * why Lena includes financial literacy support in all her counseling * “talking about money in a casual & honoring way” * identity mapping + financial identity + parts mapping + financial values * “we need money, we need values around money, we need conversation around money” * Lena shares young Lena’s financial identity + values + goals * “money is tied to EVERYTHING” * the importance of brave spaces for self growth + implementing/integrating therapy * difference between safe spaces and brave spaces * why group therapy is so important * “we’re only taught how to build relationships out of circumstance or convenience” * experiences/examples of corrective experiences with money, doing money work in brave spaces * “self harm is synonymous with survival behavior” * the magic of relationship in making + accomplishing goals * pragmatic advice for financial hygiene * advice for parents around how to teach kids about money * “it’s ok to get dysregulated around money - and then model how you’re going to manage that.” * A 3 step framework around money healing * “do we feel good in the life that we have? a huge part of that is our relationship with money” * “finances can be fun, if we can tap into where money can be fun, we have a greater chance of modeling healthy money relationships” * ideas for fun family money activities * the radical idea of family money time Resources Lena mentions:  https://herfirst100k.com/start-here [https://herfirst100k.com/start-here] https://www.whitesupremacyculture.info/ [https://www.whitesupremacyculture.info/] Where to find Lena:  https://www.interfaithbridge.com/ [https://www.interfaithbridge.com/] https://www.instagram.com/interfaithbridge/ [https://www.instagram.com/interfaithbridge/] https://www.tiktok.com/@lenahilder [https://www.tiktok.com/@lenahilder] Celestyna Wild info:  Worksheets + workshops: https://celestynawild.com/worksheets-workshops [https://celestynawild.com/worksheets-workshops] W0mb waitlist - mythic parenting: https://celestynawild.com/womb [https://celestynawild.com/womb] Substack: https://celestynawild.substack.com/ [https://celestynawild.substack.com/] Website: https://celestynawild.com/ [https://celestynawild.com/]