Stop Wearing Your Trauma Like Armour: A Transmission on Bravery, Trauma and Love

Build a Business That Matches Who You’ve Become with Marissa Liesenfelt

What if the business you built is successful, but no longer feels like you? In this conversation, Kait sits down with Marissa Liesenfelt, an 8-figure operator turned intuitive business mentor, to explore what happens when women outgrow the identities, strategies, and structures that once created their success. Marissa brings a rare blend of operational depth and energetic precision. She has built, owned, operated, and led multiple companies, and now helps female founders move into their next era by shedding outdated identities, discovering their natural genius, and shaping businesses around their unique design and gifts. Together, Kait and Marissa explore what it means to build wealth, joy, fulfilment, and legacy entirely on your own terms. About Marissa Liesenfelt Marissa Liesenfelt is an 8-figure operator turned intuitive business mentor. She has helped build and lead recognised brands, owned and operated multiple companies, and served in executive leadership. Today, she works with female founders at the intersection of strategy and energetics, helping them evolve their identity, unlock their natural genius, and build businesses that feel powerful, profitable, and deeply aligned. Key Takeaways * Success can become a cage when it is built around an identity you have outgrown * Female founders do not need more force. They need business models shaped around their real gifts * Strategy becomes more powerful when it is paired with energetic alignment * Your next era often requires shedding the version of you that created your current success * Wealth, joy, and legacy can exist in the same business when it is built on your terms Memorable Line The business that creates big revenue should also create a life and legacy you are proud of. Connect with Marissa Liesenfelt: * Website: https://www.marissaliesen.com/ [https://www.marissaliesen.com/] * Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marissaliesen/ [https://www.instagram.com/marissaliesen/] * LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/marissaliesenfelt/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/marissaliesenfelt/] Connect with Kait + PhenXX * Kait on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kaitlyntregenza/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/kaitlyntregenza/] * PhenXX: https://www.phenxx.com [https://www.phenxx.com] * PhenXX on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lovephenxx [https://www.instagram.com/lovephenxx] * Becoming Flame Podcast on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/becomingflame.pod [https://www.instagram.com/becomingflame.pod] * YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@lovephenxx [https://www.youtube.com/@lovephenxx] Sponsored by PhenXX.com [http://PhenXX.com] — use promo code "podcast" for 10% off your first purchase.

Finding Your Spine: Sexual Energy as Spiritual Technology with Katerina Foltova

Katerina Foltova joins Becoming Flame to talk about tantra as a spiritual technology, the cobra breath practice, heartbreak as initiation, and why your physical spine is the truest barometer of self-loyalty. Katerina's entry into tantra came through the Cobra Breath — a practice transmitted through the School of Ipsalut and the lineage of Babaji Nagaraj, one of the most ancient living traditions in the world. It is not a breathing exercise. It is a direct initiation into the body as a vehicle for consciousness. For Katerina, tantra is a life-force technology. Sexual energy — Eros — is not separate from spiritual development. It IS the fuel of it. Love making becomes your spiritual practice. You can find Katerina at kacenka.org [http://kacenka.org] and on Instagram at @tantra.serpent.rising. The Spine program with Katerina and Maya Magdalena lives at divinityinmatter.com/the-spine [http://divinityinmatter.com/the-spine]. website: kacenka.org [http://kacenka.org] | Program: divinityinmatter.com/the-spine [http://divinityinmatter.com/the-spine] @becomingflame.pod | Host: Kait Tregenza @lovephenxx

Erotic Embodiment Begins with Intimate Connection to Self

EROTIC EMBODIMENT, SENSUALITY AND THE POWER TO CREATE In this episode, Kait Tregenza explores femininity, sensuality and sexuality as living forces of creation. This is not a conversation about performance or surface-level confidence. It is about reclaiming sensuality as a deep intimacy with self, a return to life force, and a way of relating to the body as a source of intelligence, power and creative authority. Kait unpacks erotic embodiment as a path of transformation, one that asks us to meet loneliness as an initiation rather than a wound to escape. She speaks to the alchemy of heat, the fire that rises from within, and the certainty that emerges when we are fully connected to our own erotic intelligence. At its core, this episode is an invitation to create a different world by becoming more deeply rooted in your own embodied truth. ABOUT KAIT Kait Tregenza is the host of Becoming Flame and the founder of PhenXX. Her work explores embodiment, feminine power, emotional depth and the creative force that emerges when women return to the wisdom of the body. KEY TAKEAWAYS * Sensuality and sexuality are foundational creative forces, not energies to suppress or dilute. * Erotic embodiment begins with intimate connection to self. * Loneliness can become an initiation point that brings you back to your own centre. * Certainty in action grows when you are rooted in your body and your truth. * Real alchemy requires heat, and that fire comes from within. MEMORABLE QUOTE Erotic embodiment is the intimate connection with self that makes a new world possible. CONNECT WITH KAIT + PHENXX * Kait on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kaitlyntregenza/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/kaitlyntregenza/] * PhenXX: https://www.phenxx.com [https://www.phenxx.com] * PhenXX on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lovephenxx [https://www.instagram.com/lovephenxx] * Becoming Flame Podcast on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/becomingflame.pod [https://www.instagram.com/becomingflame.pod] * YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@lovephenxx [https://www.youtube.com/@lovephenxx] Sponsored by PhenXX.com [http://PhenXX.com] — use promo code "podcast" for 10% off your first purchase.

BioGeometry, Coherence and Leaving the Burning Building with Kassandra Scardino

Kait speaks with Kassandra Scardino about BioGeometry, resonance, energetic coherence and what it means to stop adapting to an incoherent world. Together, they explore how homes, land, food, water, technology and community spaces can either drain or support the body, and why harmony may need to become the first point of call, not the last resort. ABOUT KASSANDRA SCARDINO Kassandra Scardino is a healer, teacher and way-shower whose work explores energetic healing, sacred space, land connection, community living and BioGeometry-informed environments. Through Resonance Aust, she supports projects that bring coherence into the way people live, build, grow food and relate to land. KEY TAKEAWAYS * How BioGeometry can harmonise homes, land, food, water and subtle energetic fields. * Why many people become “coherent with incoherence”, and how the body normalises what drains it. * The link between coherence, nervous system capacity, vitality and the ability to hold more. * Why abundance is not only financial, but energetic, relational, ecological and biological. * How Resonance is creating community spaces rooted in land, shelter, food, water and harmony. MEMORABLE QUOTE “We all know what’s not working because we can feel that in ourselves that there’s something that doesn’t feel good, but what’s stopping us from achieving what is good is the fact that we haven’t found the way from point A to point B.” RESOURCES MENTIONED * Dr Ibrahim Karim’s official BioGeometry site: https://www.biogeometry.ca [https://www.biogeometry.ca] * BioGeometry Europe: https://biogeometryeurope.com [https://biogeometryeurope.com] CONNECT WITH KASSANDRA SCARDINO * Kassandra’s Linktree: https://linktr.ee/KassandraScardino [https://linktr.ee/KassandraScardino] * Resonance Aust: https://www.resonanceaust.com [https://www.resonanceaust.com] * Instagram: @kassandra_scardino CONNECT WITH KAIT + PHENXX * Kait on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kaitlyntregenza/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/kaitlyntregenza/] * PhenXX: https://www.phenxx.com [https://www.phenxx.com] * PhenXX on Instagram: @lovephenxx * Becoming Flame Podcast on Instagram: @becomingflame.pod ⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@lovephenxx [https://www.youtube.com/@lovephenxx]. ⇢ Sign up for the Monthly Herstory Told Magazine at www.phenxx.com [http://www.phenxx.com] Sponsored by PhenXX.com [http://PhenXX.com] — use promo code "podcast" for 10% off your first purchase. Remember to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts, and to Rate us on Spotify! Screenshot it before you submit it, and email it to us at hello@phenxx.com [hello@phenxx.com] to receive an exclusive purification meditation track. This podcast and its content is copyright of Phenxx Pty Ltd © and Becoming Flame ©. All rights reserved.

The Truth of You Is Contained Within Your Cells

In this potent solo episode, Kait Tregenza explores what it means to stop creating from fear, scarcity, validation, and inherited programming, and to begin creating from the truth already alive within you. This is a conversation about attention, life force, and the ways we unknowingly feed the very systems that keep us disconnected from our power. Kait challenges the logic of competition, accumulation, and proving, and offers a different orientation to creation: one rooted in stillness, embodiment, intuition, and coherence. Rather than asking how to make a better life inside a distorted system, she asks a deeper question: what becomes possible when you stop abandoning your own signal and start living from the truth of who you are? ABOUT KAIT Kait Tregenza is the host of the Becoming Flame Podcast and the founder of PhenXX. Her work explores embodiment, truth, feminine power, creation, and the deeper energetic patterns that shape how we live, relate, and create. KEY TAKEAWAYS * Your attention is life force, and what you repeatedly feed begins to shape your reality * The truth of who you are is not something to earn or achieve, but something to remember * Competition, validation, and accumulation pull you out of your natural creative state * Real creation unfolds through coherence, intuition, and embodied listening * You are not here to fit into a distorted world, but to bring through the note only you can hold MEMORABLE QUOTE “The truth of you is contained within your cells.” CONNECT WITH KAIT + PHENXX * Kait on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kaitlyntregenza/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/kaitlyntregenza/] * PhenXX: https://www.phenxx.com [https://www.phenxx.com] * PhenXX on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lovephenxx [https://www.instagram.com/lovephenxx] * Becoming Flame Podcast on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/becomingflame.pod [https://www.instagram.com/becomingflame.pod] * YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@lovephenxx [https://www.youtube.com/@lovephenxx] Sponsored by PhenXX.com [http://PhenXX.com] — use promo code "podcast" for 10% off your first purchase.