Why Motivation Comes Last: The Secret to Lasting Success

Why Following Your Passion Is Terrible Advice

Should you really follow your passion? Or is that advice keeping you stuck? In this episode of Brave Moves, Julie DeLucca-Collins challenges one of the most popular career and personal development myths: "Follow your passion." Drawing on research from psychologists Paul O'Keefe and Carol Dweck, Julie explains why passion is often developed through effort, skill-building, and persistence rather than discovered fully formed. If you've been struggling to find your purpose, career direction, or next chapter, this episode offers a refreshing perspective on growth, success, confidence, and meaningful work. In This Episode: *  Why passion alone is not enough  *  The research behind passion and persistence  *  Why people quit when work gets hard  *  The connection between competence and confidence  *  Carol Dweck's growth mindset research  *  Why effort may be a better guide than passion  *  How to discover meaningful work through action  Key Takeaway Passion is often not the starting point. Passion grows when skills, confidence, and effort come together over time. If you loved this episode, text me and let me know what you though. [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2542996/fan_mail/new] Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2542996/support] Join the Community [https://www.skool.com/confident-you-rawconversations-4533/about] Brave Moves is a daily confidence and personal growth podcast for ambitious women, women entrepreneurs, and leaders who are ready to overcome self-doubt, build resilience, and take bold action in business and life. Each short, practical episode blends mindset science, decision-making psychology, and real-life stories to help you strengthen your confidence, rewire negative thought patterns, and create meaningful forward momentum. If you are navigating career pivots, burnout, reinvention, or leadership growth, Brave Moves gives you the tools to think differently, act bravely, and design a future aligned with your values and vision. Because confidence isn’t something you’re born with. It’s something you build, one brave move at a time. Liked this episode? Share it with your midlife woman, entrepreneur friends! Love this show? Let us know how we helped you increase your confidence by leaving a review. For more about me and what I do, check out my website [https://goconfidentlycoaching.com/]. If you’re looking for support to grow your business faster, be positioned as an authority in your industry, and impact the masses, schedule a call [https://calendly.com/goconfidentlycoaching/coaching-call] to explore if you’d be a good fit for one of my coaching programs. Fo...

Why Motivation Comes Last: The Secret to Lasting Success

Why do some people achieve success consistently while others keep waiting for motivation? In this episode of Brave Moves, Julie DeLucca-Collins explores the powerful connection between identity, habits, mentorship, confidence, and motivation. Building on the previous episode about stories and systems, Julie explains why action creates confidence, why confidence creates motivation, and how mentors can dramatically shorten the path to success. Through personal stories from her corporate career, entrepreneurship journey, and the mentors who shaped her growth, Julie shares practical insights on how to stop waiting for motivation and start becoming the person you want to be. In This Episode: *  Why motivation is not the starting point  *  How action creates confidence  *  The science of habit formation and embodiment  *  Why the brain craves predictability and repetition  *  The power of mentors and believing mirrors  *  How mentorship shrinks the learning curve  *  Creating your own invisible board of directors  Key Takeaway Motivation doesn't create action. 👉 Action creates confidence, confidence creates momentum, and momentum creates motivation. If you loved this episode, text me and let me know what you though. [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2542996/fan_mail/new] Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2542996/support] Join the Community [https://www.skool.com/confident-you-rawconversations-4533/about] Brave Moves is a daily confidence and personal growth podcast for ambitious women, women entrepreneurs, and leaders who are ready to overcome self-doubt, build resilience, and take bold action in business and life. Each short, practical episode blends mindset science, decision-making psychology, and real-life stories to help you strengthen your confidence, rewire negative thought patterns, and create meaningful forward momentum. If you are navigating career pivots, burnout, reinvention, or leadership growth, Brave Moves gives you the tools to think differently, act bravely, and design a future aligned with your values and vision. Because confidence isn’t something you’re born with. It’s something you build, one brave move at a time. Liked this episode? Share it with your midlife woman, entrepreneur friends! Love this show? Let us know how we helped you increase your confidence by leaving a review. For more about me and what I do, check out my website [https://goconfidentlycoaching.com/]. If you’re looking for support to grow your business faster, be positioned as an authority in your industry, and impact the masses, schedule a call [https://calendly.com/goconfidentlycoaching/coaching-call] to explore if you’d be a good fit for one of my coaching programs. Fo...

The Stories You Tell Yourself Become the Life You Live

Are the stories you tell yourself keeping you stuck? In this episode of Brave Moves, Julie DeLucca-Collins explores how limiting beliefs become identities and why many of us live inside stories we never consciously chose. Through a personal story about gardening, inherited beliefs, and the psychology of behavior change, Julie explains why willpower often fails and how systems help us create lasting growth. Drawing on the philosophy of Zhuangzi and research from Roy Baumeister, this episode explores how our minds interpret reality, how beliefs shape behavior, and how small systems can help us rewrite old narratives. In This Episode: *  How limiting beliefs shape your identity  *  Why inherited stories influence your choices  *  The difference between reality and interpretation  *  Why willpower is unreliable  *  How systems create lasting change  *  The power of "if-then" planning  *  Why tiny improvements compound over time  Key Takeaway You don't become successful because you have more willpower. You become successful by building systems that support the person you're becoming. If you loved this episode, text me and let me know what you though. [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2542996/fan_mail/new] Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2542996/support] Join the Community [https://www.skool.com/confident-you-rawconversations-4533/about] Brave Moves is a daily confidence and personal growth podcast for ambitious women, women entrepreneurs, and leaders who are ready to overcome self-doubt, build resilience, and take bold action in business and life. Each short, practical episode blends mindset science, decision-making psychology, and real-life stories to help you strengthen your confidence, rewire negative thought patterns, and create meaningful forward momentum. If you are navigating career pivots, burnout, reinvention, or leadership growth, Brave Moves gives you the tools to think differently, act bravely, and design a future aligned with your values and vision. Because confidence isn’t something you’re born with. It’s something you build, one brave move at a time. Liked this episode? Share it with your midlife woman, entrepreneur friends! Love this show? Let us know how we helped you increase your confidence by leaving a review. For more about me and what I do, check out my website [https://goconfidentlycoaching.com/]. If you’re looking for support to grow your business faster, be positioned as an authority in your industry, and impact the masses, schedule a call [https://calendly.com/goconfidentlycoaching/coaching-call] to explore if you’d be a good fit for one of my coaching programs. Fo...

You Don't See Reality—You See Your Story About Reality

Do we actually experience reality—or do we experience our interpretation of reality? In this episode of Brave Moves, Julie DeLucca-Collins explores the teachings of Taoist philosopher Zhuangzi and how our minds constantly interpret, label, and create meaning from the world around us. Julie discusses the power of perspective, limiting beliefs, mindset, cognitive filters, and how the stories we tell ourselves shape our emotional experiences. Drawing from ancient wisdom and modern psychology, she explores how awareness can help us challenge assumptions and create more empowering interpretations of life's challenges. In This Episode: *  The philosophy of Zhuangzi and the Butterfly Dream  *  Why your brain is not a camera  *  How thoughts shape emotional experience  *  The difference between reality and interpretation  *  Why we defend limiting beliefs  *  How curiosity can transform your perspective  Key Takeaway You don't experience life exactly as it is. 👉 You experience the meaning your mind creates about it. And when you change the story... you change the experience. If you loved this episode, text me and let me know what you though. [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2542996/fan_mail/new] Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2542996/support] Join the Community [https://www.skool.com/confident-you-rawconversations-4533/about] Brave Moves is a daily confidence and personal growth podcast for ambitious women, women entrepreneurs, and leaders who are ready to overcome self-doubt, build resilience, and take bold action in business and life. Each short, practical episode blends mindset science, decision-making psychology, and real-life stories to help you strengthen your confidence, rewire negative thought patterns, and create meaningful forward momentum. If you are navigating career pivots, burnout, reinvention, or leadership growth, Brave Moves gives you the tools to think differently, act bravely, and design a future aligned with your values and vision. Because confidence isn’t something you’re born with. It’s something you build, one brave move at a time. Liked this episode? Share it with your midlife woman, entrepreneur friends! Love this show? Let us know how we helped you increase your confidence by leaving a review. For more about me and what I do, check out my website [https://goconfidentlycoaching.com/]. If you’re looking for support to grow your business faster, be positioned as an authority in your industry, and impact the masses, schedule a call [https://calendly.com/goconfidentlycoaching/coaching-call] to explore if you’d be a good fit for one of my coaching programs. Fo...

The Golden Buddha Lesson: You Are More Than the Story You Tell Yourself

What can the Golden Buddha of Bangkok teach us about confidence, self-worth, and personal transformation? In this episode of Brave Moves, Julie DeLucca-Collins shares the inspiring story of the Golden Buddha and explores how life experiences, fear, self-doubt, and societal expectations can cause us to forget our true value. Through this powerful metaphor, Julie discusses confidence, resilience, personal growth, and why many women spend years identifying with their struggles rather than their strengths. If you've ever felt stuck, broken, overlooked, or disconnected from your potential, this episode will remind you that your worth has never disappeared—it may simply be hidden beneath layers that no longer serve you. In This Episode: *  The story of the Golden Buddha of Bangkok  *  Confidence and self-worth lessons from history  *  Why we confuse our experiences with our identity  *  How adversity reveals strength  *  Letting go of limiting beliefs  *  Rediscovering your authentic self  Key Takeaway You do not need to become worthy. You already are. Sometimes the work is simply uncovering the gold that's been there all along. If you loved this episode, text me and let me know what you though. [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2542996/fan_mail/new] Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2542996/support] Join the Community [https://www.skool.com/confident-you-rawconversations-4533/about] Brave Moves is a daily confidence and personal growth podcast for ambitious women, women entrepreneurs, and leaders who are ready to overcome self-doubt, build resilience, and take bold action in business and life. Each short, practical episode blends mindset science, decision-making psychology, and real-life stories to help you strengthen your confidence, rewire negative thought patterns, and create meaningful forward momentum. If you are navigating career pivots, burnout, reinvention, or leadership growth, Brave Moves gives you the tools to think differently, act bravely, and design a future aligned with your values and vision. Because confidence isn’t something you’re born with. It’s something you build, one brave move at a time. Liked this episode? Share it with your midlife woman, entrepreneur friends! Love this show? Let us know how we helped you increase your confidence by leaving a review. For more about me and what I do, check out my website [https://goconfidentlycoaching.com/]. If you’re looking for support to grow your business faster, be positioned as an authority in your industry, and impact the masses, schedule a call [https://calendly.com/goconfidentlycoaching/coaching-call] to explore if you’d be a good fit for one of my coaching programs. Fo...