Calvary Evangelical Free Church
BECAUSE GOD EMBODIED LOVE BY SENDING HIS SON, WE MUST LOVE OTHERS. Good morning, Calvary. Christ is risen. Amen. Some of you might be looking up here saying, you know, I thought it was hazy this morning, but that does not look like Pastor Kyle. And you would be correct. I’m Jason O’Grady. I’m one of the elders here at Calvary. I also have the privilege of being on the teaching team. You see, Pastor Kyle, in addition to his fantastic preaching and being able to divide the word of truth, he also loves to train up others to preach as well. And so I’m grateful to be able to do that. I have to be honest with you, though, that just because I’m up here preaching to you does not mean that I have arrived. Doesn’t mean that I’ve attained to all these truths of Scripture that we’re going to be looking at today, that I’m a local sojourner with you, a fellow servant. And so what the Lord is teaching me is what I’m sharing with you. I first preached from First John over 25 years ago, and the Lord continues to show fantastic and sometimes hard truths from these scriptures to me. So he’s teaching me before I’m teaching others. Last week, Pastor Kyle talked about testing the spirits and that how we might know the spirit of truth. And this week, in First John, we are going to return to a common theme of love. This, in fact, is the third passage in First John that explicitly tells us to love one another. And if you’ve been following along with this summer series, this is actually the fourth sermon you likely have heard on loving one another. In fact, the words love, loved, loves, loving is used 46 times in this small epistle and in this chapter alone, First John four, it is used 27 times. So it’s obviously a theme that John wants to impress upon us. Maybe you’re like my youngest and you just love love. But you know what? There’s going to be some hard truths here as well as we look into this together. If you take nothing else from the sermon today, I want you to take this away because God embodied love by sending His Son, we must love others. I’ll say that one more time because God embodied love by sending His Son, we must love others. Would you pray with me? Father, I praise you and I thank you that we could come here and worship you. I thank you for your word that we can dig into together. I thank you, Lord for how you continue to grow this local body. It’s really exciting to hear about that land purchase, Lord, but we pray for wisdom, direction, and guidance for where you would like us to go from here. Lord, we want to pray for those in the northern of the state that are dealing with the wildfires. I pray, Lord, that you would protect life and that you would also be with the firefighters that are there. Lord, I pray for peace in this world. I think of the brothers and sisters right now that are facing persecution or in war. Lord, I pray for peace in Ukraine, Israel and Gaza, in Iran and South Sudan. Lord, as we look into your word right now, I pray, Father, that it would not be my words, but that it would be yours, that you would use my weakness to show your truth. Father, thank you so much for your goodness and thank you for your love. It’s in Jesus name we pray. Amen. So we’re going to be in First John four today. That is in page 1023 in your pew Bibles. But I’ll also have it on the screen for you as well. And in typical Baptist fashion, I’m going to give you four points to remember today. So first let’s look at love commanded. Beloved, let us love one another. For love is from God. And whoever loves has been born of God and knows God. Anyone who does not love does not know God because God is love. So he starts this passage with beloved. This is actually the fifth time that he’s used this word. It basically is showing that he truly loves his hearers. It’s kind of like a pastoral concern. He’s actually showing his hearers, hey, I am loving you and you must love others. Beloved, let us love one another. It sounds so repetitive here in First John, let us love one another. Do you think it’s just something that John cooked up on its own? Maybe it’s his own pet doctrine of love. Why did he continue to harp on this? And I would say that it was because this is exactly what he received from our Lord Jesus. You already heard it read in John 15, but I think it’s so powerful. I want to hear those words from the Lord again. John 15 and verse 12, he says this, John 15, verse 12, this is my commandment, that you love one another as I have loved you. Greater love has no one than this, that someone lay down his life for his friends. You are my friends if you do what I command you. No longer do I call you servants. For the servant does not know what his master is doing. But I have called you friends. For all that I have heard from my father, I have made known to you. You did not choose me, but I chose you and appointed you that you should go and bear fruit, and that your fruit should abide, so that whatever you ask the Father in my name, he may give it to you. These things I command you so that you will love one another. So you see, John is again returning to this theme because it is what he heard throughout the ministry of Jesus as three years he walked with him on this earth. Even when Jesus was confronted by the Pharisees and they said, what is the number one commandment? The first commandment? Jesus responded in Matthew 22, to love the Lord your God with all your heart, your mind, and your strength. And he says, and secondly, you should love your neighbor as yourself. Love one another was something that Jesus preached again and again. And it’s something that John wants us to do. And here in this passage, when he commands love, we see three reasons why we should love one another. First, love is from God. Love is from God. It is a gift. Love is out of by means of God. To paraphrase John Piper, this from here, love is from God, isn’t like the letter I would get from a mailman, or even letter I would get from a loved one. Think of it more like light I get from the sun because of what the sun is. It gives light or heat that I get from the fire. The same type of love is here, that love is from God. But some of you might say, well, wait a minute. There’s this one person and it might be a co-worker, it might be a neighbor, it might be a family member that I just can’t love. They are just so annoying. Or more commonly, they’ve hurt me so bad in the past. How can I love? There’s no way. And God is saying exactly. You can’t love on your own. It is only through the new spirit that I put in you that you are truly able to love others. So when he commands us to love one another first, it’s because love is from God. Then next, see, whoever loves has been born of God and knows God. Did you have a question there as you read that? Whoever loves has been born of God and knows God. You see, I know many people that don’t profess Christ that seem to love. It could be an atheist, it could be a Sikh, it could be a Muslim, it could be a Hindu that seems like they love. Well, does that mean that they know God, that they show that love. Well, that’s where we have to actually return to context here because we see in First John 4:2, we heard about this last week. By this, you know, the Spirit of God, every spirit that confesses that Jesus Christ has come in the flesh is from God. So we see that we might have that right, that truth, that right belief to be able to actually be from God. And I also think that that love that I’ve seen exhibited in others that are non-believers is not truly that deep, abiding, self-sacrificial biblical love that is talked about here. So whoever loves has been born of God. Born of God, does that spark anything in your mind? I’m sure John was thinking back to that time with Nicodemus that he talks about in John three, where Nicodemus comes and said, how must I be saved? And Jesus said, you must be born again. Nicodemus says, well, how can I be born again if I’ve already been born? And that’s where Jesus then talks about being born in the spirit. He says, for that which was born of the flesh is flesh, and that which is born of the spirit is spirit. So if we have that new life, if we are born again in Christ, then we must love. But what does it mean then to know God? If whoever loves has been born of God and knows God. What does it mean to know God? Many of you know that I’m an Orioles fan. In fact, when I was growing up, my favorite player was probably Cal Ripken Jr. He was fantastic. In fact, I probably I, I do, I have his Wheaties box. I have a few signed balls. I have a picture of him in my bedroom. I mean, this guy I really enjoyed. Okay. And I could even go on some stats probably for you. I mean, he won the World Series in 1983. He had 2,632 consecutive games. He was a 19-time All-Star. In fact, his last All-Star Game, he hit a home run in the third inning that put the American League up one. Nothing and I could go on and on. Probably my son could give you more stats than me, but does that actually mean that I know Cal Ripken or that Cal Ripken knows me? No, because I haven’t really experienced him. I haven’t walked with him. I don’t know what he loves and what motivates him. Conversely, as I’ve walked with my wife and gotten to know her, I know her because we have experienced life together. I know what brings her joy. I’ve found out now that she absolutely loves trees. So that means that if it’s Mother’s Day or her birthday or some other holiday, I’m probably going to be getting her a tree because that brings her joy. If I’m planning a vacation, well, you better hope that there’s trees there because that brings her joy. Even my kids are picking up on the fact that their mother loves trees so much that they started to call her The Lorax. So we know that I experience love with my wife because I’ve walked with her. And in the same way, we need to know God, we need to experience him. And how do we experience him? We experience him through his written word as we spend time in it every day, not just on Sundays for a few minutes. We experience him in prayer, praying daily. We experience him in the fellowship of other believers, and we experience him as we serve and show forth his love to others. So we see whoever loves has been born of God and knows God. And then the apostle flips it on its head and says, anyone who does not love does not know God. Here we come to one of the hard truths that was actually probably best translated anyone who does not love has never known God. So very convicting. Because you see, love is a defining trait of a true Christian. It is essential to the new life. Any biologists or scientists in the room? So you know that mammals are defined by typically three things. They give milk to their young. They have hair. And I bet you didn’t know this one, but they have three ear bones. Okay. That’s what makes a mammal. And so that doesn’t matter if it’s a platypus or a giraffe or a lion, they’re all a mammal because they have those three characteristics. We as believers should have love as a defining characteristic. As an essential part of our nature. So it doesn’t matter for those that proclaim Jesus as Lord, whether that’s in India, Iran, Indonesia, Israel, or Ireland. Those that profess Jesus as Lord should show love and we must show love. That’s why the apostle Paul in Galatians five talks about the fruit of the spirit. For the fruit of the spirit are love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, gentleness, faithfulness, and self-control. He starts though with love. Whoever loves has been born of God and knows God. And lastly, the reason we need to love one another is because God is love. God’s character defines love. And I have to be honest with you that this is in direct opposition to the popular cultural zeitgeist of the day that you’ve probably heard. Love is love. Because we have so commonly in our culture, wanted to redefine what love is by our own likes, our own preferences, our own desires. But I’m telling you today that true love, deep, abiding, biblical love is defined by God. And so we need to look at him and what his character really is. And we see with the prophet Isaiah that he is holy, holy, holy. He is just righteous and faithful. The Westminster Catechism asks, What is God? Answer. God is a spirit infinite, eternal, and unchangeable in his being wisdom, power, holiness, justice, goodness and truth. That God is a God of love. God is love. So then, how did he show his love? Let’s look back at our text. Love manifested. In this the love of God was made manifest among us, that God sent his only son into the world so that we might live through him. Jesus is the manifestation of God’s love on earth. Other ways to translate that manifest is to illumine, to reveal, to make known, to show openly. That’s what God has done for us. God sent his only son, and that word only that might hearken back to what the Apostle John said in John 3:16. For God so loved the world that he gave his only son. Same exact Greek word there. Some of your translations might say only begotten. And the only reason that I like one and only over only begotten, is because Jesus is eternal. There was no beginning to Jesus. It wasn’t as if God the Father birthed him. But really this is getting at is one and only that he is unique, the only Son of God. And he sent him into the world so that we might live through him, so that we might live through him. You see, we are dead in our trespasses. It says about that back in Genesis two, where God put Adam and Eve in the garden and instructed Adam, you might eat of any tree in the garden except for the one in the center of the garden, that one you shall not eat. For when you eat of it, you shall surely die. Well, our forebearers, unfortunately, did eat of that tree. And we now all have that sin nature. And because of that sin nature we are dead. But the good news that we have here is that God sent His son into the world so that we might live through him. One of my favorite passages, John 10:10, Jesus says this, I have come that they might have life and have it abundantly. Have it abundantly. What a joy that is! That love was manifested in that way. On Monday I was mowing my lawn. I had one of those old pull push mowers that you’ve got to pull to start it. And so I get it ready. It was already hot out, so I wanted to get this done as soon as I could. And I went in, I pulled that mower and it started, but then the pull cord ended up in my hand, totally detached from the mower. And I said, oh man, I just have to continue. I have to finish this lawn because I don’t know how to restart this now. So I was trying to zip through things and I got the front lawn done. I was happy with that. And I went around to the back lawn. I didn’t want to let that bar go, that safety bar, because I knew it would shut off. And I get almost two thirds of the way through and I could start here in my lawn mower sputter and I was worried. And then it quit on me. And so I tried to fix it. I thought, you know, I went, I went to YouTube to try to figure out how I was going to redo this pull cord. I thought I could do it, my lovely bride came out and said, hey, you know, dinner’s on the table if you want to come in and, and partake. And I’m into this for about an hour and I still didn’t fix it. And I could not finish the rest of my lawn mowing. So there’s a third of my yard that is much higher than the rest. And how does that apply here? Well, let me tell you that lawn mower after that pull cord was done was just a hunk of metal. It was dead. There was no bringing it to life. It was essentially useless. It was not doing what it was designed to do. And in the same way, I am dead in my transgressions. I could not truly live apart from Jesus Christ. But it was Jesus, because of the love that he had for us, that came into this world that we might have life. So we see love commanded, love manifested. Now look, this is so wonderful. Let’s look at this love demonstrated. And this is love. Not that we have loved God, but that he loved us and sent His son to be the propitiation for our sins. Not that we loved God. He starts there just because to let us know this is not works-based. There is nothing that I can do to earn the love of God, to make him love me more. All the other religions of the world talk about things that you have to do to attain to heaven, or to have a relationship with their God. But you know what? There’s nothing that I can do to attain to heaven. It’s only because of what God can do. It is not works-based. So in this is love, not that we have loved, but that God has loved us and sent His son to be the propitiation. That word sent there is apostolo. The same sending as you would for apostles, and it’s to be a propitiation. Now, how many of you have used that word in your conversations in the past week? Raise your hands. I actually had two people that raised their hand in the first service, which I thought was fantastic. It’s not one we typically use. It’s actually only used one other time in Scripture. It was earlier in First John. In First John 2:2. Propitiation essentially means an atoning sacrifice. To do away, to take care of the wrath that was due for us. You see, because of our sin, because God is a holy and just God, we are deserving of God’s wrath. We don’t like to talk about God’s wrath in today’s age, but the Old Testament and these believers in the New Testament knew about that wrath because they understood how a holy God could not deal, could not cohabitate with sin, and because of his righteousness he demanded a blood payment, an atoning sacrifice, and Jesus was that atoning sacrifice for us. I’m going to read from Romans six, you may turn there with me if you’d like. Excuse me, Romans five. Or you can read about it later today if you wanted to go back and do this. But listen, the gospel story here about Jesus being our propitiation. Romans five, verse six: for while we were still weak at the right time, Christ died for the ungodly. That was me. For one will scarcely die for a righteous person, though perhaps for a good person one would dare even to die. But God shows his love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us. Since, therefore, we have been justified by his blood, much more shall we be saved by him from the wrath of God. For if we, while we were enemies, we were reconciled to God by the death of his son. Much more, now that we are reconciled, shall we be saved by his life. More than that, we also rejoice in God through our Lord Jesus Christ, through whom we have now received reconciliation. We deserve death. We deserve to have that wrath upon us. But Jesus was the propitiation for us. He went through that wrath of crucifixion. He was beaten, pulverized, mocked, spit upon, nailed to the cross, and then suffocated for me and for you. It allowed our God to still be holy, just, and righteous and be able to provide that grace and mercy to forgive me of my sins, because he placed it on his one and only son. One of my favorite singers growing up was Larnelle Harris, and he wrote this back in the 80s called He Loved Me With a Cross. Don’t worry, I’m not going to sing it. He left a throne in heaven to come to Bethlehem. And I will not forget the way he loved me even then. And everywhere he traveled, he spoke with words of love that said he’d go to any distance to show what I was worthy of. And when at last the dusty road had turned to Calvary, he picked up a rugged burden so that one day I would see. He loved me with a cross. He knew from the beginning the price he’d have to pay, for my heart had gone so far beyond what other loves forgave. I wasn’t on that hillside to see him on the tree, but as my guilt was placed upon him, I know that somehow he saw me. He loved me with a cross. How amazing is that gospel story? Undeserved love. The propitiation placed on Jesus that I might have eternal life. Wesley and his famous hymn said. Amazing love, how can it be that thou, my God, should die for me? That’s how love was demonstrated for us. So we’ve seen love commanded, love manifested, love demonstrated, and lastly, love perfected. Beloved, if God so loved us, we also ought to love one another. No one has ever seen God. If we love one another, God abides in us, and his love is perfected in us. Again, John returns to that euphemism, beloved, saying, hey, I’m loving you and I want you to love one another. If God so loved us, sending his only son to be a propitiation for us, we ought, we owe, we are indebted, we are obligated to love one another. I think back to the passage in Luke seven, where the woman was washing the feet of Jesus in the house of Simon. And honestly, people were getting on Jesus because they said, why would they let that sinner touch him? And Jesus rebuked them and said that since she has been forgiven much, she loves much. And I have been forgiven much. And so the natural inclination is I must then love much. The same we saw in Deuteronomy in the passage that was read today. Listen to this. Deuteronomy ten: for the Lord your God is God of gods and Lord of lords, the great, the mighty, and the awesome God who is not partial and takes no bribe. He executes justice for the fatherless and the widow, and loves the sojourner, giving him land and clothing. Love the sojourner therefore, for you are sojourners in the land of Egypt. Because God has loved us. We must then love others. He goes on, no one has ever seen God, which that seemed like an odd aside, although true, no one except the father has seen God. But then he tells us why he says this if we love one another, God abides in us. God abides in us, dwells in us. This talks about the Holy Spirit assurance that we can have, and it’s an evidence of that love. Next week, Pastor Jamie is going to be preaching on how to abide. And I won’t spend too much time on this, but it is such a wonderful assurance that we can have the God of the universe, his Holy Spirit dwell within us. It’s also really neat that we see from this passage the Trinity. We see God the Father who sent his son. And then we see that blessed assurance that we can have through the Holy Spirit. Since God abides in us, his love is perfected in us. His love is complete. His love is consecrated in us. One of my favorite contemporary preachers is Doctor Tony Evans, and he speaks of biblical love this way. Biblical love can be defined as the decision to compassionately, righteously, responsibly, and sacrificially seek the well-being of another. That’s how we truly love. That’s how his love can be perfected in us. Because even though no one has ever seen God, his love can outflow through us that they might actually see God in our actions and in our love. The second message in this sermon series Pastor Kyle talked about that song In the Light. Do you remember that one? And then Pastor Jamie came up and sang it with us. In the Light was written by a band called DC talk. They also wrote another one that I wanted to just touch on because I think it’s very true. They wrote, Love is a Verb. You see, love is not just a noun. It’s something that we do. It’s something that we demonstrate. It’s something that has been demonstrated to us. And when they accepted their Dove Awards, which is, you know, close to their, their musical awards for contemporary Christian music, they said, you know, they will know we are musicians by our Doves, but they will know that we are Christians by our love. And I hope that they will know you are Christians by what you love. Just a few weeks ago we were driving in the car and I have no idea how we stumbled upon this, but the kids said, I bet we can name all the things you hate, dad. I said, okay. And so my first daughter, Sydney, she just started spouting things off. She’s like, you hate mowing the lawn. You hate spending money. You hate incompetence. And then my son popped up and he’s like, you hate the Yankees. You hate the Red Sox. And then I think he was trying to make me feel better. He’s always trying to make people feel better about it. He’s like, well, and you hate the devil, dad. But as I thought about this, too many times, and I’m talking to me here, too, I’m known more by what I hate than what I love. And I hope as Christians, that we will be known by who we love and how we love others. May his love be perfected in us. That’s why our mission statement here at Calvary is to glorify God by making disciples who live with passion for God and compassion for others. That’s what we hope to have for you. So as we close, I just want to talk to two groups and all of you are included in this. One group may be those that don’t yet know Jesus as Savior. You have not yet experienced that blessed, holy, deep, abiding love of Jesus. And I hope that today is the day of salvation. He loved you so much that he sent His Son to die for you, and rose him up again on the third day that you might have life. If you don’t yet know Jesus, please speak with a pastor, an elder, a small group leader. Don’t let the day go by without knowing this precious Lord. For those of you like me that profess Jesus as Savior, my question for you then is, is his love being perfected in you? Is the outpouring of love to others evident in your life and in my life? And if not, why not? Confess that to the Lord and ask him to love others through you this week. May we pray.
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