Identity: Loss

Identity: Loss

In this heartfelt and deeply personal episode, Jarkeshia opens up about one of the most profound questions we face in seasons of loss: Who am I when everything I identified with is gone? She introduces the concept of identity loss: what happens to our sense of self when the titles, roles, relationships, and circumstances that defined us are suddenly stripped away. Through it all, she reflects on how loss can disorient us, making us question our purpose and worth, but also how it can rebirth the gifts and calling God placed within us. Key Takeaways * Your identity is in Christ, not in your title, status, or circumstances * It's okay to grieve multiple kinds of loss: jobs, loved ones, relationships, vehicles, roles * You can feel surrounded by community and still feel alone, and that's valid * God is always present, even in our loneliest seasons * Obedience in your season looks like showing up with what you have right now Scriptures Referenced * 1 Peter 2:9 ~"You are a royal priesthood, a holy nation, God's special possession" * Ephesians 2:10 ~"We are God's handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works" * Philippians 1:6 ~"He who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion" Website: www.chopwithjam.com [www.chopwithjam.com] Email: jarkeshia@chopwithjam.com IG: @chopwithjam [https://www.instagram.com/chopwithjam]

Starting Over and Showing Up Unpolished: An Authentic Journey of Resilience

In this heartfelt episode, Jarkeshia shares her deeplypersonal experience of starting over after significant life changes, including grief, career shifts, and personal growth. Her raw honesty and spiritual perspective offer inspiration to anyone navigating life's unexpected setbackswith faith and authenticity. Let's Stay Connected: IG: ⁠@chopwithjam⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/chopwithjam] Community:⁠ ChOP Community⁠ [https://www.skool.com/chop-check-on-your-people-8436/about] YouTube: ⁠Encouragement Talks TV⁠ [https://www.youtube.com/@EncouragementTalksTV] Website: ⁠www.chopwithjam.com⁠ [https://chopwithjam.com/] Merchandise: ⁠www.chopwithjam.com/shop⁠ [https://chopwithjam.com/shop/] "Remember that you matter. Your voice matters. You are not alone. You are seen, and you are heard. Remember to check on your people." - Jarkeshia

Update Episode Part 2: You Are Qualified-Showing Up Authentically In The Midst of It All

Have you ever felt disqualified? Like you know, there's something God has placed inside of you, but you keep talking yourself out of stepping into it? In this raw and transparent episode, Jarkeshia gets real about the moments she's questioned her calling: battling feelings of being a hypocrite, grieving the loss of her husband, and wondering if she's even the right person to show up. The message is clear: you don't have to be perfect, polished, or fully healed to be used. Key Takeaway: You don't need all the degrees, certifications, or a polished brand to do what God called you to do. Your lived experiences, your stories, and your transparency are exactly what someone else needs. Just show up, and God will do the rest. Let's Stay Connected : IG: ⁠⁠@chopwithjam⁠⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/chopwithjam] Community: ⁠⁠ChOP Community⁠⁠ [https://tinyurl.com/uv728kh5] YouTube: ⁠⁠Encouragement Talks TV⁠⁠ [https://www.youtube.com/@EncouragementTalksTV] Website: ⁠www.chopwithjam.com⁠ [www.chopwithjam.com] Merchandise: ⁠⁠⁠ [www.chopwithjam.com/shop/]⁠www.chopwithjam.com/shop⁠ [www.chopwithjam.com/shop] "Remember that you matter. Your voice matters. You are seen, and you are heard. Remember to check up on your people." — Jarkeshia

Update Episode Part 1: Let's Reverse ChOP

In this episode, Jarkeshia returns with a heartfelt and transparent update on where she's been. After nearly two years of navigating grief, uncertainty, and major life changes following the unexpected loss of her husband, she opens up about the mental and emotional battles she's faced — and why she's stepping back out. Key Takeaways: * Your gift + your testimony = somebody's miracle * You were not created to look like everybody else — show up the way you can, in the capacity you have * Much of the world's greatest potential dies unused — don't let yours be one of them * Grief is heavy, but it can also be a catalyst that propels you to your next level * Silence the outside noise and ask God what He truly wants for your season * Asking for help is not a weakness — it's wisdom Let's Stay Connected : IG: ⁠@chopwithjam⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/chopwithjam] Community: ⁠ChOP Community⁠ [https://tinyurl.com/uv728kh5] YouTube: ⁠Encouragement Talks TV⁠ [https://www.youtube.com/@EncouragementTalksTV] Website: www.chopwithjam.com [www.chopwithjam.com] Merchandise: ⁠ [www.chopwithjam.com/shop/]www.chopwithjam.com/shop [www.chopwithjam.com/shop] "Remember that you matter. Your voice matters. You are seen, and you are heard. Remember to check up on your people." — Jarkeshia

The First Encounter: Make a Difference

In this episode of ChOP (Check On Your People), we discuss the important steps of what to do when someone opens up to you about their mental well-being. In this vital ChOP episode, the host gives valuable tips to apply when this moment comes in your life. Key Takeaways: Be there fully with others and not distracted. Everyone is fighting an internal silent, but sometimes loud battle. Check on your people Do not overreact ChOP Reflection Question: How will you respond when someone opens up to you? Grab Your ChOP Toolkit: https://chop-with-jam.kit.com/50bb85083d [https://chop-with-jam.kit.com/50bb85083d] Join the ChOP with JAM Community: https://bit.ly/chopcommunity [https://bit.ly/chopcommunity] ChOP One on One Call https://calendly.com/checkonyourpeople/chop-one-on-one-call [https://calendly.com/checkonyourpeople/chop-one-on-one-call]