Chiropractic Care is Self Care: Myths, Truths, and Wellness Tips

The Neuroscience of Normal: Breaking the Us vs Them Myth

In this special Pride Month episode of Chris and Jen in the morning, the hosts challenge the concept of normalcy and explore the psychological and sociological frameworks that separate communities into "us and them" groups. By looking at how the human brain processes repetition, the hosts unpack why we mistake familiarity for absolute truth and how rigid societal norms can negatively impact mental health and inclusion. Shifting the conversation from judgment to curiosity, the episode provides actionable insights and journaling prompts to help listeners reclaim their agency, audit their daily inputs, and foster genuine empathy. Three Pivotal Points * The Neuroscience of Predictability: The human brain acts as an anticipatory machine prioritized for survival rather than the best outcome. It builds models out of repeated behaviors because certainty requires less energy than processing unknown possibilities, meaning "normal" is structurally hardwired as a subconscious safety mechanism. * The Evolution of "Othering" and Judgment: While social norms historically aided group survival and cooperation, they devolve when they morph into rigid rules used to judge human worth. Fearing differences is a learned behavior; scanning for differences triggers threat detection pathways, whereas looking for commonalities actively stimulates the brain's empathy pathways. * Overcoming Autopilot Through Curiosity: Autopilot is a practical feature for preserving cognitive energy, but breaking out of harmful biases requires conscious awareness. By identifying linguistic triggers like "of course," "always," or "never," individuals can pause their fast-brain labeling, ask deeper questions, and consciously broaden their inputs to accept multiple versions of normal. Website - www.chrisandjenitm.com Email - connect@chrisandjenitm.com    Voicemail and Text available at 940-278-8129 Merch - https://chris-and-jen-itm.printify.me/ Store - https://www.fabulousfavoritefinds.com/ Chapters 00:00 Gratitude and Personal Reflections 15:43 Understanding Normal Through Neuroscience 25:59 The Role of Community Norms 34:03 Overcoming Othering and Judgment 40:40 Navigating Autopilot and Judgment 45:45 Understanding Perspectives and Normalcy 51:35 The Role of Community and Inputs 59:48 Challenging Assumptions and Beliefs 01:05:49 The Nature of Facts and Perspectives 01:13:42 Pride Month and Human Dignity 01:20:49 Journaling for Self-Discovery and Growth 01:27:20 Outro  resources The Neuroscience of Human Relationships by Louis Cozolino - https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07VJX4V7X The Art of Thinking Clearly by Rolf Dobelli - https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01N6F7Q7K Chris and Jen's Community Platform - https://chrisandjenitm.com Follow Chris on Twitter - https://twitter.com/ChrisAndJen Follow Jen on LinkedIn - https://linkedin.com/in/jen Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2449647/support]

How Representation Helps Us See What is Possible

In this special Pride Month episode of Chris and Jen in the Morning, the discussion focuses on the intersection of representation, identity, and self-care through the lens of Taylor Jenkins Reed's book, Atmosphere. The episode explores how individuals absorb limits from the world around them, how the human brain processes familiarity, and how intentionally curating your environment can unlock entirely new personal possibilities. Three Pivotal Points * The Mirror vs. Window Concept of Representation: Representation functions both as a "window" through which people view lives different from their own to build empathy, and as a "mirror" that allows individuals to see themselves clearly, building self-acceptance and recognition. * The Neuroscience of Familiarity and the RAS: The brain's Reticular Activating System (RAS) filters massive amounts of data to prioritize predictable, familiar patterns for survival over active happiness. To see new possibilities, individuals must intentionally change their inputs and content consumption. * Shifting from "Fixing" to Understanding: True self-care involves recognizing and understanding your authentic identity rather than expending energy trying to "fix" yourself or force your life into rigid societal labels and definitions of success. Website - www.chrisandjenitm.com Email - connect@chrisandjenitm.com    Voicemail and Text available at 940-278-8129 Merch - https://chris-and-jen-itm.printify.me/ Store - https://www.fabulousfavoritefinds.com/ Chapters 00:00 Holiday Pie Preferences 00:01 Representation and Its Impact 07:26 Diving into 'Atmosphere' by Taylor Jenkins Reid 21:01 Broadening Perspectives Amidst Chaos 26:09 Understanding Fear and Human Behavior 30:59 The Bigger Picture of Existence 38:09 Legacy and Collective Impact 47:05 Representation and Its Importance 56:00 The Role of Representation as a Mirror and Window 01:15:10 The Power of Self-Recognition 01:22:41 Curating Your Environment for Growth 01:28:47 Understanding Your Inner Voice 01:37:07 The Importance of Visibility and Community 01:44:16 Navigating the Journey of Self-Discovery 01:49:30 Outro Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2449647/support]

Choose Who You Become: The Science of Identity

In this kickoff episode for Pride Month on Chris and Jen in the morning, hosts Chris and Jen dive deep into the concept of identity, exploring how we shape, lose, and consciously create who we are. Rather than viewing identity as a static label or over-rotating into a career, the hosts discuss how identity operates as a continuous evolution. They look at the societal pressures of defining oneself by work, the emotional toll of hiding your true self for self-preservation, and how to navigate life's shifting stages by aligning with internal truth. Three Pivotal Points * The Neuroscience of the Default Mode Network: The brain does not store identity in a single spot; instead, a region called the default mode network activates during wakeful rest to process experiences, memories, and relationships, continuously updating our self-narrative. * Grounding Values vs. Fluid Beliefs: While beliefs are meant to change and adapt as perspectives broaden, core values act as static, centering landmarks (like constellations) that keep your identity secure without being rocked by shifting external environments. * Embracing Internal Contradictions: True human identity allows for seemingly opposing traits—such as being simultaneously strong and sensitive, or ambitious and content—rather than forcing oneself into strict, binary categories. Music licensed through Soundstripe. Code: VBDASUFSV83DNY2H  Chapters 00:00 Celebrating Pride Month 02:05 Exploring Identity 08:27 The Evolution of Identity 16:51 The Journey of Continuous Learning 19:16 Understanding Identity Through Neuroscience 22:17 The Impact of Life Changes on Identity 26:17 Values vs. Beliefs: The Foundation of Identity 30:17 The Fluidity of Identity and Beliefs 34:16 Engaging with the Default Mode Network 37:16 The Search for Purpose and Meaning 44:19 Outgrowing Assigned Identities 51:17 The Cost of Hiding Our True Selves 53:22 The Struggles of Identity and Acceptance 57:01 Navigating Privacy and Performance 01:00:05 Embracing Contradictions in Identity 01:03:32 The Evolution of Self and Identity 01:07:16 Reflection and Personal Growth 01:08:45 Pride and the Courage to Be Yourself 01:13:12 Outro  resources Chris and Jen's Website - https://chrisandjenitm.com Fabfave Finds Pride Shirts - https://fabfavefinds.etsy.com Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2449647/support]

How to Define Your Personal Values for a Happier Life

In this episode of Chris and Jen in the Morning, the hosts shift the conversation from surface-level interests to the deep framework of personal values. Moving away from corporate speak, Chris and Jen explore how defining your core values is essential for transitioning out of life's 'hamster wheel' and stepping into intentional, authentic living. They share personal reflection strategies, discuss how high-stress situations trigger emotional autopilot, and break down why personal values serve as the ultimate prioritization system when navigating difficult, real-world choices. Three Pivotal Points * Values vs. Beliefs (The House Blueprint Analogy): Jen illustrates that core values serve as the unchanging structural blueprint of a house, while beliefs are like the shifting paint colors on the walls. While beliefs can evolve with learning and new perspectives, core values remain relatively stable and serve as the foundational layer for our choices. * The Brain under Stress and Boundary Violations: The hosts examine why people sometimes act in direct conflict with their own values. When under intense stress, the autopilot functions of the amygdala and limbic system take over to prioritize immediate self-protection, overriding the higher-level intentional thinking required to uphold personal boundaries and long-term values. * Values as the Foundation for True Alignment: Chris and Jen emphasize that sharing core values matters far more to the health and longevity of friendships and romantic relationships than simply sharing common hobbies or surface interests. Recognizing alignment on these deeper guiding principles determines who belongs in your inner circle of trust and vulnerability. Website - www.chrisandjenitm.com Email - connect@chrisandjenitm.com    Voicemail and Text available at 940-278-8129 Merch - https://chris-and-jen-itm.printify.me/ Store - https://www.fabulousfavoritefinds.com/ Chapters 00:00 Exploring Personal Values 02:01 The Importance of Gratitude 04:18 Nature and Connection 05:48 Understanding Values and Beliefs 13:21 The Role of Ethics 25:47 Navigating Conflicts of Values 29:11 Navigating Relationships and Values 33:51 The Journey of Self-Discovery and Authenticity 38:53 Boundaries and Burnout: The Interplay of Values 44:08 Decision-Making in Conflict: Balancing Values 48:54 The Importance of Shared Values in Relationships 54:05 Understanding Values: A Personal Journey 57:26 Living Intentionally: Aligning Actions with Values 01:02:39 The Complexity of Values and Their Impact on Happiness 01:08:58 Outro  resources Dare to Lead by Brené Brown - https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07QK4Q4X4 The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen Covey - https://www.amazon.com/dp/B000FC0V4O The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle - https://www.amazon.com/dp/B002V0R4A0 Authentic Happiness by Martin Seligman - https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00A7U7Q4Q The Gifts of Imperfection by Brené Brown - https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00Q2V4U4Q Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2449647/support]

Chiropractic Care is Self Care: Myths, Truths, and Wellness Tips

In this episode of Chris and Jen in the Morning, hosts Chris and Jen dive deep into the vital role holistic healthcare plays in your personal self-care journey. Joining the show is professional chiropractor Dr. Wim Devos from Southlake Chiropractic. Together, they unpack how the body's musculoskeletal system is completely interconnected and bust the most common misconceptions surrounding chiropractic adjustments. From understanding the educational path of a licensed chiropractor to exploring the highly effective nature of trigger point therapy, this episode offers a refreshing look at how to stop tolerating daily discomfort and start actively healing. Three Pivotal Points: * The Reality of Chiropractic Education: Dr. Devos clarifies that becoming a chiropractor requires a rigorous, full-time four-year doctorate program preceded by two years of undergraduate studies. The foundational medical training mirrors that of an MD—covering anatomy, physiology, and embryology—before specializing heavily in musculoskeletal adjustments. * The Power of Trigger Point Therapy: The episode highlights how localized muscular buildup, such as lactic acid, starves muscles of blood flow and causes referred pain like tension headaches or eye twitching. Dr. Devos shares how his unique background practicing in Belgium forced him to master manual trigger point therapy, a highly effective technique he continues to use alongside traditional adjustments to keep muscles relaxed. * Individualized, No-Nonsense Care: True chiropractic care should focus on the patient's immediate relief rather than long-term financial commitments. Dr. Devos discusses his philosophy of providing individualized care that prioritizes immediate, same-day adjustments during the first exam, typically resulting in short treatment plans of just three to five total visits for standard care. Website - www.chrisandjenitm.com Email - connect@chrisandjenitm.com    Voicemail and Text available at 940-278-8129 Merch - https://chris-and-jen-itm.printify.me/ Store - https://www.fabulousfavoritefinds.com/ Chapters 00:00 Gratitude Moments and Community Connections 08:12 Introducing Dr. Wim DeVos and Chiropractic Care 09:39 Wim's Journey to Chiropractic and Education 21:34 Understanding the Chiropractic Experience 26:17 Busting Myths About Chiropractic Care 30:45 The Importance of Choosing Healthcare Providers Wisely 33:35 Understanding Chiropractic Care and Its Misconceptions 43:59 The Connection Between Stress, Mental Health, and Physical Well-being 51:06 Navigating Remote Work and Its Impact on Physical Health 57:18 Setting Boundaries for Better Health and Well-being 01:08:56 Water Workouts and Joint Health 01:10:15 Navigating Chiropractic Care Wisely 01:15:37 The Importance of Mental Wellness 01:19:26 Preventative vs. Reactive Chiropractic Care 01:21:27 Holistic Health and Mindful Living 01:26:47 Outro  resources Southlake Chiropractic - https://southlakechiropractic.com Cancer Care - https://cancercare.org Rhodiola and Ashwagandha Supplements - https://www.healthline.com/nutrition/rhodiola-ashwagandha The Benefits of Swimming for Joint Health - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=example Meditation Techniques for Stress Relief - https://www.headspace.com/meditation Healthy Boundaries at Work and Life - https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-moment-youth/201911/the-importance-boundaries The Science of Fascia and Its Role in Health - https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6682914  guest links Website - https://southlakechiropractic.com LinkedIn - https://linkedin.com/in/wimdevos Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2449647/support]