Do As I Say, Not As I Do

It Wasn't Me

Hey there ColorBeams!! In this episode, Suni and Liv unpack the people who always insist “It Wasn’t Me”—no matter the situation. From love and family to career and friendships, we explore how a lack of accountability shows up, why some folks avoid responsibility, and the impact it has on relationships. Plus, we share ways to set boundaries, protect your peace, and build healthier accountability in your own life. A real, honest, and relatable conversation you don’t want to miss. Have you ever dealt with someone who refuses to take accountability? Or realized a moment when you were the “It wasn’t me” person? Share your experience in the comments, we love to hear y'alls perspectives, AND look forward to y'all joining the conversation on our socials—we want to hear your stories! If you enjoy these real, unfiltered conversations about love, marriage, and everything in between, make sure to like this video, subscribe to our channel, and hit the notification bell so you never miss an episode. Share this with someone who loves relationship talks and let’s keep the conversation growing! ✨💬 We want to hear from you! 💙💜💙💜 Let’s create a space where acceptance isn’t earned — it’s given. The Gottman Feeling wheel: https://www.gottman.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/The-Gottman-Institute_The-Feeling-Wheel.pdf 🎶 Intro/Outro Music: Music: No Games Erykah Badu x Andre 3000 Composer: Remdolla Email: remdollamusic@gmail.com BeatsStars Profile: @Remdolla Watch/Listen Now: You’re already here—follow for more weekly content 📲 Connect With Us On Social Media: 📸 Instagram: @colorfulsituations 📘 Facebook: @colorfulsituations ▶️ YouTube: @colorfulsituations 🎵 TikTok: @colorfulsituations24 🎧 Spotify: @colorfulsituations 🍎 Apple Podcasts: @colorfulsituations 🔗 Link in bio Tap the link in bio for full episodes + extras! Follow & Subscribe to stay tuned for weekly content #colorfulsituations #suniandliv #lesbianrelationship #PodcastEpisode #RelationshipTalk #AccountabilityMatters #PersonalGrowth #LoveAndRelationships #MarriagePodcasts #LGBTQPodcasters #RealConversations #EmotionalWellness #HealthyRelationships #PodcastCommunity #LifeLessons #ItWasntMe #SelfAwareness

Financial Insecurity

Hey there ColorBeams!! In this episode Suni and Liv dive into one of the most sensitive and impactful topics in relationships: Financial Insecurity. Money can be a source of stability, but it can also cause anxiety, conflict, and fear—not just in ourselves, but in the way we show up for others. What happens when someone’s actions are altered by financial struggles or the fear of losing money? Can those insecurities spill over and affect loved ones? We’re asking the tough questions: - What does prosperity truly look like to you? - Should your financial status be used as a “superpower”? - Does money change people—or simply reveal who they already are? -How much do childhood experiences shape the way we handle money as adults? We’ll unpack how financial habits, prosperity mindsets, and even past traumas play a role in how we value money, security, and partnership. Join us as we talk openly, laugh honestly, and explore the real issues that money brings into love, marriage, and everything in between. Don’t forget to like, share, and subscribe for more candid conversations and drop your thoughts in the comments. ✨💬 We want to hear from you! 💙💜💙💜 Let’s create a space where acceptance isn’t earned — it’s given. The Gottman Feeling wheel: https://www.gottman.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/The-Gottman-Institute_The-Feeling-Wheel.pdf 🎶 Intro/Outro Music: Music: No Games Erykah Badu x Andre 3000 Composer: Remdolla Email: remdollamusic@gmail.com BeatsStars Profile: @Remdolla Watch/Listen Now: YouTube: You’re already here—follow for more weekly content 📲 Follow Us On Social Media: 📸 Instagram: @colorfulsituations 📘 Facebook: /colorfulsituations ▶️ YouTube: /colorfulsituations 🎵 Spotify: colorfulsituations 🍎 Apple Podcasts: colorfulsituations Tap the link in bio for full episodes + extras! Follow & Subscribe to stay tuned for weekly content

Do As I Say, Not As I Do

Hey there ColorBeams!! This week we dive into the old saying: “Do as I say, not as I do.” We’re unpacking why so many parents use this phrase, even when their actions directly contradict their words. Should parents expect children to follow advice that they themselves don’t live by? Is it fair to tell kids to behave one way while modeling the complete opposite? And is this just a hypothetical parenting tool—or a confusing way to raise children that leaves them questioning trust and accountability? Join us as we share personal stories, raise thought-provoking questions, and challenge the idea of leading without example. Let’s talk about the impact this mindset can have on children, family dynamics, and future relationships. If you’ve ever been told “do as I say, not as I do” by a parent, this conversation is definitely for you. And don’t forget to post the saying that you remember being told as a child that had you looking at your parents sideways. 👇 Drop your thoughts in the comments and don't forget to: 👍 Like | 💬 Comment | 🔁 Share | 🔔 Subscribe and hit the notification bell so you never miss a conversation that just might change your outlook. ✨💬 We want to hear from you! 💙💜💙💜 Let’s create a space where acceptance isn’t earned — it’s given. The Gottman Feeling wheel: https://www.gottman.co... 🎶 Intro/Outro Music: Music: No Games Erykah Badu x Andre 3000 Composer: Remdolla Email: remdollamusic@gmail.com BeatsStars Profile: @Remdolla Watch/Listen Now: Spotify: You’re already here—follow for more weekly content 📲 Follow Us On Social Media: 📸 Instagram: @colorfulsituations 📘 Facebook: /colorfulsituations ▶️ YouTube: /colorfulsituations 🎵 Spotify: colorfulsituations 🍎 Apple Podcasts: colorfulsituations Tap the link in bio for full episodes + extras! Follow & Subscribe to stay tuned for weekly content

Straight with a Crooked "S"

Hey there ColorBeams!! This week we dive into a spicy, unfiltered conversation about women who identify as straight—yet they have had and continue to have same-sex experiences. We’re talking about the ones who say, “It didn’t mean anything” or “I’m still straight, I just like to play sometimes.” 👀 Is it curiosity? Is it fluidity? Or is it denial? We explore the deeper questions: • Should these women disclose their same-sex experiences to their current (or future) spouse? • Why is it seen as normal or acceptable for two women to explore each other, but when men do it, it's instantly labeled as gay? • Are we upholding a double standard in how society views queerness—especially when it’s “cute” for women but shameful for men? No shade, just truth. This one’s raw, real, and ready to stir the pot. Join the conversation and let us know: Is sexuality really a spectrum for everyone—or just when it's convenient? 👇 Drop your thoughts in the comments and don't forget to: 👍 Like | 💬 Comment | 🔁 Share | 🔔 Subscribe and hit the notification bell so you never miss a conversation that just might change your outlook. ✨💬 We want to hear from you! 💙💜💙💜 Let’s create a space where acceptance isn’t earned — it’s given. The Gottman Feeling wheel: https://www.gottman.co... 🎶 Intro/Outro Music: Music: No Games Erykah Badu x Andre 3000 Composer: Remdolla Email: remdollamusic@gmail.com BeatsStars Profile: @Remdolla Watch/Listen Now: YouTube: You’re already here—follow for more weekly content 📲 Follow Us On Social Media: 📸 Instagram: @colorfulsituations 📘 Facebook: /colorfulsituations ▶️ YouTube: /colorfulsituations 🎵 Spotify: colorfulsituations 🍎 Apple Podcasts: colorfulsituations Tap the link in bio for full episodes + extras! Follow & Subscribe to stay tuned for weekly content

Me, Myself, and I

Hey there ColorBeams!! This week we dive deep into identity, growth, and the unseen tug-of-war between who we were, who we are, and who we’re becoming. We’re exploring the three versions of YOU: ➡️ The Past You – the one with the mistakes, trauma, lessons, and wins. ➡️ The Present You – who’s trying to navigate life while carrying the weight of the past. ➡️ The Future You – the version you’re either protecting, neglecting, or not even thinking about yet. Are you making today’s choices based on yesterday’s wounds? Is your present self trapped in a pattern your past self created? And more importantly, are you consciously shaping a better future YOU—or leaving it up to chance? Tune in for a vulnerable, empowering conversation about self-reflection, growth, accountability, and healing the past so you can show up fully today and thrive tomorrow. 💬 Share this episode with someone who’s been stuck in the past or scared of the future. 👇 Comment below and share your story: Which YOU are you working on most right now? 💬 Subscribe for more episodes on love, parenting, and queer relationship realness. 💬 We want to hear from you! 💙💜💙💜 🔔 Don’t forget to like, share, subscribe, and hit the bell so you never miss a conversation that just might change your outlook. Let’s create a space where acceptance isn’t earned — it’s given. The Gottman Feeling wheel: https://www.gottman.co... 🎶 Intro/Outro Music: Music: No Games Erykah Badu x Andre 3000 Composer: Remdolla Email: remdollamusic@gmail.com BeatsStars Profile: @Remdolla Watch/Listen Now: YouTube: You’re already here—follow for more weekly content 📲 Follow Us On Social Media: 📸 Instagram: @colorfulsituations 📘 Facebook: /colorfulsituations ▶️ YouTube: /colorfulsituations 🎵 Spotify: colorfulsituations 🍎 Apple Podcasts: colorfulsituations Tap the link in bio for full episodes + extras! Follow & Subscribe to stay tuned for weekly content