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46 | Struggling With Self Worth As A Mom? Have Patience Without Comparison To Past Mistakes

10 min · 30. juni 2026
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Is your self worth taking a hit as your mistakes pile up in mom life? You are constantly trying to do everything right but still wind up feeling like a failure as a mom. This is a fast track to mom burnout, overwhelm, and chronic stress. Unfortunately the mom brain is wired to be hyper focused on your mistakes in an effort to help you survive but in reality, it steals your inner peace and joy. In today’s conversation, we’re talking about how self condemnation and blame cause stress and anxietyfor moms which bleeds over into burnout and mom guilt. In parenting, that results in feeling like your life is out of balance because you never measure up. If you want to be more productive, motivated, and filled with Godly peace, you cannot gloss over this stress management technique. Welcome back to Conquer Mom Stress – The podcast that helps you stress less and enjoy being a mom. If you’ve ever crawled into bed at night completely exhausted with no energy, but still feel like there’s so much left to do, you are in the right place. Each week we'll dive into simple parenting tips for life balance using real stories of hope and encouragement, moments of failure and doubt, and scriptures from the Catholic Bible to discover God's truth about who you truly are, a good mom, so you have the motivation to stop comparison and show up as your best self.  Remember, this is your place to pause, reset, and start conquering mom stress — one small step at a time. In this episode: Struggling With Self Worth As A Mom? I’m sharing how to have stress relief in motherhood by having patience with yourself instead of constant comparison of yourself to past mistakes. Listen, we’re all human which means mistakes are inevitable. But when you have faith that God is doing a good work in you, it opens you up to new routines of compassion and growth rather than debilitating stress. Hey mama! I'm Jill - a wife, mom of 5, and follower of Christ. As a Catholic mom, I learned that the secret to having joy and peace as a busy mom comes from balancing life through God, patience with yourself, and using small, simple habits to create the life you want. When the goal is peace that surpasses all understanding, this podcast is the answer. If you want to find me you can:    ✨ Email me at: Jill@JillGockel.com ✨ Find me on Facebook: @JillGockel [https://www.fb.com/JillGockel]   ✨ Follow the show on: Apple podcast [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/conquer-mom-stress/id1837000519] / Spotify [https://open.spotify.com/show/3RjtVEZIDuqtOBw6uSGsp3?si=cabbb89aa94d4da8] and subscribe Motherhood isn’t meant to drain the life out of you. It’s meant to be lived with joy, even on the messy days. And together, we’re gonna find that joy again.

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46 | Struggling With Self Worth As A Mom? Have Patience Without Comparison To Past Mistakes

Is your self worth taking a hit as your mistakes pile up in mom life? You are constantly trying to do everything right but still wind up feeling like a failure as a mom. This is a fast track to mom burnout, overwhelm, and chronic stress. Unfortunately the mom brain is wired to be hyper focused on your mistakes in an effort to help you survive but in reality, it steals your inner peace and joy. In today’s conversation, we’re talking about how self condemnation and blame cause stress and anxietyfor moms which bleeds over into burnout and mom guilt. In parenting, that results in feeling like your life is out of balance because you never measure up. If you want to be more productive, motivated, and filled with Godly peace, you cannot gloss over this stress management technique. Welcome back to Conquer Mom Stress – The podcast that helps you stress less and enjoy being a mom. If you’ve ever crawled into bed at night completely exhausted with no energy, but still feel like there’s so much left to do, you are in the right place. Each week we'll dive into simple parenting tips for life balance using real stories of hope and encouragement, moments of failure and doubt, and scriptures from the Catholic Bible to discover God's truth about who you truly are, a good mom, so you have the motivation to stop comparison and show up as your best self.  Remember, this is your place to pause, reset, and start conquering mom stress — one small step at a time. In this episode: Struggling With Self Worth As A Mom? I’m sharing how to have stress relief in motherhood by having patience with yourself instead of constant comparison of yourself to past mistakes. Listen, we’re all human which means mistakes are inevitable. But when you have faith that God is doing a good work in you, it opens you up to new routines of compassion and growth rather than debilitating stress. Hey mama! I'm Jill - a wife, mom of 5, and follower of Christ. As a Catholic mom, I learned that the secret to having joy and peace as a busy mom comes from balancing life through God, patience with yourself, and using small, simple habits to create the life you want. When the goal is peace that surpasses all understanding, this podcast is the answer. If you want to find me you can:    ✨ Email me at: Jill@JillGockel.com ✨ Find me on Facebook: @JillGockel [https://www.fb.com/JillGockel]   ✨ Follow the show on: Apple podcast [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/conquer-mom-stress/id1837000519] / Spotify [https://open.spotify.com/show/3RjtVEZIDuqtOBw6uSGsp3?si=cabbb89aa94d4da8] and subscribe Motherhood isn’t meant to drain the life out of you. It’s meant to be lived with joy, even on the messy days. And together, we’re gonna find that joy again.

30. juni 202610 min
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45 | If Your Goal For Motherhood Is Joy, Do This To Instantly Diffuse Stress & Overwhelm

How often do you feel mom guilt because you feel like you’re just trying to survive the day with your kids? This burnout is common for moms, and leads to feeling like a failure as a mom.  But mom life can fill you with joy and Godly peace, if you know where to look. That’s what we’re talking about today! In today’s conversation, we’re tapping into a stress management technique that taps into the unique workings of the mom brain. So you can feel stress relief without exerting any more energy, in fact your lack of energy will be replaced with inner peace and joy. Parenting will become enjoyable without changing anything about your circumstances, in fact you’ll find yourself motivated to play with your kids without succumbing to feelings of being overstimulated or stress and anxiety. Welcome back to Conquer Mom Stress – The podcast that helps you stress less and enjoy being a mom. If you’ve ever crawled into bed at night completely exhausted, but still feel like there’s so much left to do, you are in the right place. Each week we'll dive in to simple parenting tips using real stories of hope and encouragement, moments of failure and doubt, and discover God's truth about who you truly are, a good mom, so you have the motivation to stop comparison and show up as your best self.  Remember, this is your place to pause, reset, and start conquering mom stress — one small step at a time. In this episode: If Your Goal For Motherhood Is Joy, I’m sharing a simple routine to instantly diffuse stress & overwhelm. When you learn this simple skill, you’ll feel like you can finally balance it all and mom burnoutdissipates. Grounded in the Catholic Bible and wisdom from Catholic saints, you’ll find life balancewithout chronic stress. Hey mama! I'm Jill - a wife, mom of 5, and follower of Christ in the Catholic faith. I learned that the secret to having joy and peace as a busy mom comes from balancing life through God, patience with yourself, and using small, simple habits to create the life you want. When the goal is peace that surpasses all understanding, this podcast is the answer. If you want to find me you can:  ✨ Email me at: Jill@JillGockel.com ✨ Find me on Facebook: @JillGockel [https://www.fb.com/JillGockel]   ✨ Follow the show on: Apple podcast [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/conquer-mom-stress/id1837000519] / Spotify [https://open.spotify.com/show/3RjtVEZIDuqtOBw6uSGsp3?si=cabbb89aa94d4da8] and subscribe Motherhood isn’t meant to drain the life out of you. It’s meant to be lived with joy, even on the messy days. And together, we’re gonna find that joy again.

23. juni 202613 min
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44 | How to Balance Hard Conversations With Your Kids (Get Motivated Without Stress Or Overwhelm)

One of the toughest parts of parenting is the hard conversations you sometimes have to have with your kids. It can cause stress and anxiety leading up to the conversation or cause you to avoid confronting them altogether which results in mom guilt. But having the courage to talk to your kids about hard things will ultimately lead to the strengthening of your relationship with them.  In today’s conversation, we’re diving into how to proactively approach hard conversations with your kids so you can enter them with Godly peace instead of burnout from being stressed. When you develop routines around open communication and honesty with your children, you’ll become a confidant who your child trusts and runs to with questions, concerns, and for help. That type of relationship with your kids creates inner peace, stress relief, and makes you feel like you have life balance finally as a busy mom.  This episode helps you conquer burnout that comes from chronic stress about your kids, which ultimately causes you to feel like a failure as a mom. But that stops right now! Because you’ll be ready to have productive conversations with your kids, that are grounded in God’s truth using Catholic Bible verses and quotes from Catholic Saints.  Welcome back to Conquer Mom Stress – The podcast that helps you stress less and enjoy motherhood more. If you’ve ever crawled into bed at night completely exhausted, but still feel like there’s so much left to do, you are in the right place. Each week we'll dive in to simple parenting tips using real stories of hope and encouragement, moments of failure and doubt, and discover God's truth about who you truly are, a good mom, so you have the motivation to show up as your best self.  Remember, this is your place to pause, reset, and start conquering mom stress — one small step at a time. In this episode: How to Balance Hard Conversations With Your Kids, I’m equipping you with the skills to approach them lovingly while not shying away from the conversation so you can feel motivated to talk to them without stress or overwhelm holding you back.  Hey mama! I'm Jill - a wife, mom of 5, and lifelong Catholic. I learned that the secret to having joy and peace in motherhood comes from balancing life through God, patience with yourself, and using small, simple habits to create the life you want. When the goal is peace that surpasses all understanding, this podcast is the answer.  If you want to find me you can:  ✨ Email me at: Jill@JillGockel.com ✨ Find me on Facebook: @JillGockel [https://www.fb.com/JillGockel]   ✨ Follow the show on: Apple podcast [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/conquer-mom-stress/id1837000519] / Spotify [https://open.spotify.com/show/3RjtVEZIDuqtOBw6uSGsp3?si=cabbb89aa94d4da8] and subscribe Motherhood isn’t meant to drain the life out of you. It’s meant to be lived with joy, even on the messy days. And together, we’re gonna find that joy again.

16. juni 202615 min
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43 | Why 3:00 Burnout Hits Moms, 5 Tips To Get Energy To Be Productive

Are you tired of the 3:00 slump? This is the hour where overwhelm and burnout hits the hardest for moms because you’re overstimulated and running on empty from the stress of the day. When this happens, mom guilt sets in because comparison makes you feel like a failure as a mom. But the truth is that your lack of energy is simply a sign that something is out of balance. In today’s conversation, you will discover the hidden culprit that is stealing your energy, patience, and productivity. You’ll understand how one of your routines is sabotaging your ability to be productive and is causing chronic stress and mom burnout. Because the truth is mom life doesn’t require you to drag through the day. This episode helps you understand what’s going on in your body and how that affects the mom brain. This allows you to use internal stress management techniques to stop the drain and give you the energy you need to get through the day with joy, inner peace, and life balance. Welcome back to Conquer Mom Stress – The podcast that helps you stress less and enjoy motherhood more. If you’ve ever crawled into bed at night completely exhausted, but still feel like there’s so much left to do, you are in the right place. Each week we'll dive in to simple parenting tips using real stories of hope and encouragement, moments of failure and doubt, and discover God's truth about who you truly are, a good mom, so you have the motivation to show up as your best self.  Remember, this is your place to pause, reset, and start conquering mom stress — one small step at a time. In this episode: Why 3:00 Burnout Hits Moms, I’m sharing 5 parenting tips that will give you the energy you need to be motivated and productive through the entire day. When you address stress and anxiety head on by giving your body exactly what it needs, life feels manageable as a busy mom. Hey mama! I'm Jill - a wife, mom of 5, and lifelong Catholic. I learned that the secret to having joy and peace in motherhood comes from balancing life through God, patience with yourself, and using small, simple habits to create the life you want. When the goal is peace that surpasses all understanding, this podcast is the answer. If you want to find me you can:  ✨ Email me at: Jill@JillGockel.com ✨ Find me on Facebook: @JillGockel [https://www.fb.com/JillGockel]   ✨ Follow the show on: Apple podcast [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/conquer-mom-stress/id1837000519] / Spotify [https://open.spotify.com/show/3RjtVEZIDuqtOBw6uSGsp3?si=cabbb89aa94d4da8] and subscribe Motherhood isn’t meant to drain the life out of you. It’s meant to be lived with joy, even on the messy days. And together, we’re gonna find that joy again.

9. juni 202614 min
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42 | When The Chaos Of Motherhood Causes Overwhelm And Burnout, The Answer For Stress Relief Lies In Your Surroundings

If you’ve ever walked into your home & were immediately hit with overwhelm, your symptoms of burnout have a simple solution that comes with stress relief and Godly peace. Mom life is full of chaos and chronic stress, kids constantly making messes and asking for things, juggling multiple schedules and tasks every hour. It’s hard to find life balance or inner peace when you’re constantly overstimulated.  But what if I told you that your stress and anxiety can be managed by starting with the environment you surround yourself in. Think about it, when you are surrounded by chaos, your mom brain gets stressed out of its mind, comparison to others who seem like they have it all together makes you feel like a failure as a mom, and that’s when you’re hit with a full dose of mom guilt.  This is where it all ends. In today’s conversation, I’m sharing a simple routine that drives balance by harnessing Godly peace in your home. Stress management doesn’t have to be hard when parenting and it doesn’t have to cause more burnout than you’re already dealing with as a busy mom. It can happen by simply understanding the source of your stress and setting a goal to attack it head on.  Welcome back to Conquer Mom Stress – The podcast that helps you stress less and enjoy motherhood more. If you’ve ever crawled into bed at night completely exhausted, but still feel like there’s so much left to do, you are in the right place. Each week we'll dive in to simple parenting tips using real stories of hope and encouragement, moments of failure and doubt, and discover God's truth about who you truly are, a good mom, so you have the motivation to show up as your best self.  Remember, this is your place to pause, reset, and start conquering mom stress — one small step at a time. In this episode: When The Chaos Of Motherhood Causes Overwhelm And Burnout, I’m sharing how modeling after God, who is a God of order (not chaos), you can recover from mom burnout and finally relieve the stress as a mom.  Hey mama! I'm Jill - a wife, mom of 5, and lifelong Catholic. I learned that the secret to having joy and peace in motherhood comes from balancing life through God, patience with yourself, and using small, simple habits to create the life you want. When the goal is peace that surpasses all understanding, this podcast is the answer.  If you want to find me you can:  ✨ Email me at: Jill@JillGockel.com ✨ Find me on Facebook: @JillGockel [https://www.fb.com/JillGockel]   ✨ Follow the show on: Apple podcast [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/conquer-mom-stress/id1837000519] / Spotify [https://open.spotify.com/show/3RjtVEZIDuqtOBw6uSGsp3?si=cabbb89aa94d4da8] and subscribe Motherhood isn’t meant to drain the life out of you. It’s meant to be lived with joy, even on the messy days. And together, we’re gonna find that joy again.

2. juni 202611 min