Date Yourself Instead

Date Yourself Instead

Podcast by Lyss Boss

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About Date Yourself Instead

My name is Lyss and I'm on a mission to heal all the broken hearts. New episodes every Monday.

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episode Babe, you are not a "MAYBE". Choose yourself and get out of waiting energy. artwork
Babe, you are not a "MAYBE". Choose yourself and get out of waiting energy.

Never Be Someone's Maybe: Choose Yourself First In this episode, I dive into the transformative power of fully choosing and loving yourself. I emphasize that once you make a conscious decision to prioritize yourself, everything misaligned will naturally fall away. I share personal anecdotes about my past relationships and how being someone's 'maybe' drained my self-worth and confidence. I explain that the uncertain 'maybe' energy in relationships kept me stuck and blocked me from receiving life’s blessings. By choosing myself first and stepping into my power, I was able to manifest a more abundant and fulfilling life. This episode underscores the importance of self-worth, certainty, and alignment in attracting the right people and opportunities into your life. 00:00 Choosing Yourself: The Power of Self-Love 00:40 The Pain of 'Maybe' Relationships 02:04 Realizing Self-Worth in Relationships 05:08 Breaking Free from Toxic Cycles 09:27 The Journey to Self-Healing 20:08 Living in the Fourth Dimension 22:35 Navigating New Relationships with Self-Worth 27:38 Choosing Yourself and Eliminating 'Maybe' Energy 28:29 Personal Anecdote: The Equality Debate 29:25 The Impact of 'Maybe' Frequency on Relationships 35:41 Manifesting Through Alignment and Certainty 44:00 The Power of Making Clear Decisions 50:05 Final Thoughts and Community Engagement

31. aug. 2025 - 50 min
episode You can't miss what's DESTINED FOR YOU. Relax. artwork
You can't miss what's DESTINED FOR YOU. Relax.

TRUST THE DIVINE PLAN. There are no rules. Just be YOU. In this episode, I yap about the importance of self-love and letting go of societal dating rules. From a coffee spill incident to deeper reflections on destiny and soul bonds, I emphasize that what is meant for you will never pass you by. Through personal anecdotes and the concept of the 'removal prayer,' I encourage you to trust divine timing and live authentically without fear. The episode concludes with a reminder that rejection is merely redirection towards what is truly meant for your soul. 00:00 Introduction: Embrace Self-Love and Authenticity 00:43 Funny Story Time: Coffee Mishap 04:00 Main Topic: You Cannot Mess Up What Is Destined for You 07:08 Breaking Dating Rules: Trust Your Intuition 07:31 Personal Story: Unconventional Relationship 11:32 The Power of Self-Love and Confidence 12:26 Story Time: Pub Encounter and Crushing 28:51 Rejection and Divine Timing 35:23 Conclusion: Trust the Divine Plan

24. aug. 2025 - 35 min
episode The Power of Authenticity and Manifesting INSTANTLY with Isabelle Keating artwork
The Power of Authenticity and Manifesting INSTANTLY with Isabelle Keating

Did you know authenticity helps you manifest instantly? In this episode, me and one of my best friends Isabelle chat about the importance of being authentic and true to oneself in the podcasting world and beyond. We cover topics such as the 4th dimension, Kundalini energy, and quantum manifestation. We also emphasize the significance of speaking positive words, being patient, and living in the present to achieve one's highest potential. Everything in DIVINE TIMING BABY. ... 00:00 Introduction 00:21 The Power of Words and Positive Speaking 00:47 Navigating Waiting Periods and Manifestation 01:09 Welcome to the Podcast with Isabelle 01:30 Authentic Conversations and Podcasting Style 02:11 Introduction to the Fourth Dimension 02:58 Isabelle Keating's Background and Kundalini Energy 04:06 The Shift in Social Norms and Consciousness 07:46 The Role of Authenticity in Social Media 12:01 The Importance of Living in the Present 18:25 The Wellness Trend and Kundalini Energy 19:56 Overcoming Hardships and Achieving Alignment 27:30 Building and Creating Together 27:45 Lessons from My Dad's Business Journey 28:47 Quantum Jumping and Focusing on the Future 31:24 Manifesting Through Words and Thoughts 42:30 The Power of Patience and Divine Timing 47:46 Embracing the Present and Self-Love 48:58 Mastering Time and Energy in the 4D 52:10 Decide and Command Your Reality 53:50 Closing Thoughts and Gratitude

19. aug. 2025 - 54 min
episode You are SO WORTHY of your wildest dreams ✨ with Andraya Kenton artwork
You are SO WORTHY of your wildest dreams ✨ with Andraya Kenton

In this episode, I sit down with one of my good friends and ultimate boss muses, Andraya Kenton - the visionary founder behind Celeste Starre [https://celestestarre.com], Meme London, and the newest self-love ritual essential, Luna Roca [https://lunaroca.com] (yes, volcanic face rollers that literally shift your frequency). We talk about: The power of words and intention in building your dream life Why your word is your wand (and how to cast with clarity) Manifesting success in business, love, and self-worth Navigating the sacred balance between work, motherhood, and home life Trusting you're worthy of big love and big dreams This episode is for the woman who knows she’s meant for more and is ready to claim it. ✨ Use code LYSS for $$ off all Celeste Starre, Meme London, and Luna Roca orders — because you deserve to wear your magic. SHOP LUNA ROCA HERE. [https://lunaroca.com] Use code LYSS. Shop Celeste Starre here. [https://celestestarre.com] Use code LYSS. Follow Andraya on instagram: @andrayakenton [https://www.instagram.com/andrayakenton/?hl=en-gb]

07. aug. 2025 - 1 h 13 min
episode London vs. New York dating culture + dating intentionally and KNOWING WHAT YOU WANT. artwork
London vs. New York dating culture + dating intentionally and KNOWING WHAT YOU WANT.

On today’s episode, I unpack my personal experience between dating in New York vs. London and how British men have been a whole new vibe for my healed, golden-era self. We talk intentional love, love bombing, faith, and what it really means to be seen for who you are versus what you do. I also reflect on the signs that someone isn’t right for you and how to trust your intuition the first time.

24. jul. 2025 - 47 min
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