The Pretender

In my life: on being a real adult (and still figuring it out)

We grew up with a checklist for adulthood: job, house, marriage, kids. But somewhere along the way, the rules changed. In this episode, I reflect on what “having it together” really means, why our generation’s path looks so different from our parents’, and how we can find hope, humor, and even a little wisdom while still figuring it out. References: - Ferraretto & Vitali (2024). The transition to adulthood in Europe. Demographic Research. - Sompolska-Rzechuła & Kurdyś-Kujawska (2022). Young Adults Living with Parents in EU Countries. - van den Berg et al. (2022). Trends in singlehood in young adulthood in Europe. - Simon Sinek, Leaders Eat Last (2014).

Go your own way: when people management doesn’t fit - and why that’s ok

Go Your Own Way - not everyone is meant to be apeople manager, and that’s perfectly fine. In this episode, I explore the differences between managers, people managers, and leaders, the mental health impact of poor management, and why companies must embrace horizontal growth alongside vertical careers. I also share personal stories and practical ways to grow without managing people.

The Pretender

We’ve all heard “fake it till you make it” - but what does it really cost us? In this episode, I explore the shadow side of pretending, the roots of imposter syndrome, and why men and women often approach confidence so differently. Together, we’ll uncover practical tools to shift from performance to presence, and start building real, lasting confidence.

Take a break

What if rest wasn’t a reward, but a requirement? In this episode, we explore guilt-free pauses, the science of burnout, and why doing nothing might just be the most powerful thing you do.

Just breathe

What happens when you stop… and there’s no plan for what comes next? In this episode, I reflect on the silence that comes after leaving a 17-year career, and the unexpected lessons found in the pause. From the stillness of Antarctica to the noise of Buenos Aires, I share moments of vulnerability, fear, clarity, and quiet courage. This is not a how-to guide. It’s a love letter to the in-between. A reminder that rest is not failure, and that silence is not empty - it’s full of truth. If you’re in a soft reset… if you’re questioning what’s next… if you’ve ever felt guilty for slowing down: this one’s for you. You’re not behind. You’re building. You just need to breathe. 🎧 Listen now and share with someone who needs this gentle reminder.