What Cats Say | Cat Communication Skills for Cat Parents | Cat Behavior | Ep. 116

What Cats Say | Cat Communication Skills for Cat Parents | Cat Behavior | Ep. 116

Have you ever thought you knew why your cat was behaving a certain way, only to discover something completely different was happening? In this episode of Diary of a Cat Mom [https://diaryofacatmom.com/], I share the story of a friend's cat that constantly fought with another cat and urinated throughout the house. At first, it seemed like the conflict between the two cats was causing the problem. But after I temporarily welcomed the cat into my home, I discovered a clue that completely changed how I understood the situation. Sometimes the behaviors we see are only symptoms. The real message is hidden in how our cats communicate with us—and with each other. What You'll Learn In This Cat Podcast Episode * What cat communication skills really mean * Why aggressive behavior isn't always the real problem * How stress can appear as fighting or inappropriate urination * Why observing your cats without assumptions can reveal important clues * How understanding your cats can create a more peaceful multi-cat household Timestamps & Chapters * 00:00 Introduction * 00:22 A friend's cat kept peeing everywhere * 01:12 Giving the cat a quiet room of her own * 02:08 The clue that changed everything * 03:05 Understanding what the cat was really communicating * 03:48 What this taught me about cat communication skills This is where I’ve gathered everything that supports me and my cats: https://diaryofacatmom.com/cat-care-resources/ [https://diaryofacatmom.com/cat-care-resources/] About the Diary of a Cat Mom Podcast Diary of a Cat Mom [https://diaryofacatmom.com/] is a personal cat podcast created by Dagmar Gatell [https://diaryofacatmom.com/about-the-host/], sharing real moments from life with cats [https://diaryofacatmom.com/about/]. Everything shared comes from lived experience as a cat mom and is not intended as professional veterinary advice. Every cat is unique, and for health concerns, it’s always best to consult your trusted veterinarian. Help More Cat Parents. Make a Bigger Difference. 🐾💕 Share your knowledge, experience, and story to help cat parents better understand and care for their cats. → Learn More About Becoming a Guest https://stan.store/fromhereai/p/podcast-guest-package [https://stan.store/fromhereai/p/podcast-guest-package] Connect with Passionate Cat Parents. 🐾🐱 Reach an engaged community of cat parents, build trust in your brand, and support educational content that helps cats and the people who love them. → Learn More About Podcast Sponsorship https://stan.store/fromhereai/p/podcast-sponsor-package [https://stan.store/fromhereai/p/podcast-sponsor-package]

Gifts for a Cat Mom I Don't Want Anymore | Cat Mom Life | Ep. 115

When I first became a cat mom, I loved receiving cat-themed gifts. Every mug, shirt, bag, and decoration made me smile because it celebrated something I loved so much. Over the years, though, I realized something had changed. Some gifts no longer reflected my values, while others simply became things I already had too many of. In this Diary of a Cat Mom podcast [https://diaryofacatmom.com/] episode, I share the cat gifts I no longer want and why my perspective has changed after living with cats for many years. Sometimes growing as a cat mom also means becoming more intentional about the things we bring into our cats' lives—and our own. What You'll Learn In This Cat Podcast Episode * Why my favorite cat gifts changed over time * The cat toys I no longer feel comfortable giving my cats * Why safety matters more than novelty * Why personalized gifts feel more meaningful to me today * How my values as a cat mom have evolved Timestamps & Chapters * 00:00 Why I don't want the same cat gifts anymore * 00:42 When cat-themed presents stopped feeling special * 01:20 Why I avoid toys made with real feathers or fur * 02:10 Cheap cat toys that became a safety concern * 02:58 Why I don't need another cat mug * 03:22 Cat gadgets I no longer trust * 03:45 Final thoughts & question for fellow cat parents This is where I’ve gathered everything that supports me and my cats: https://diaryofacatmom.com/cat-care-resources/ [https://diaryofacatmom.com/cat-care-resources/] About the Diary of a Cat Mom Podcast Diary of a Cat Mom [https://diaryofacatmom.com/] is a personal cat podcast created by Dagmar Gatell [https://diaryofacatmom.com/about-the-host/], sharing real moments from life with cats [https://diaryofacatmom.com/about/]. Everything shared comes from lived experience as a cat mom and is not intended as professional veterinary advice. Every cat is unique, and for health concerns, it’s always best to consult your trusted veterinarian. Help More Cat Parents. Make a Bigger Difference. 🐾💕 Share your knowledge, experience, and story to help cat parents better understand and care for their cats. → Learn More About Becoming a Guest https://stan.store/fromhereai/p/podcast-guest-package [https://stan.store/fromhereai/p/podcast-guest-package] Connect with Passionate Cat Parents. 🐾🐱 Reach an engaged community of cat parents, build trust in your brand, and support educational content that helps cats and the people who love them. → Learn More About Podcast Sponsorship https://stan.store/fromhereai/p/podcast-sponsor-package [https://stan.store/fromhereai/p/podcast-sponsor-package]

Cat Furniture Creates a Homey Feeling | What My Cats Taught Me About Cat Enrichment | Ep. 114

When I bought my first cat tree, I thought I was simply buying another piece of furniture. Years later, I realized something much deeper. Every cat tree, hammock, scratcher, and cozy bed helped my rescue cats feel like they truly belonged. Their furniture became part of their safe space—a little home inside our home. In this episode of the Diary of a Cat Mom podcast [https://diaryofacatmom.com/], I share how my perspective changed and why creating familiar spaces may help indoor cats feel more secure and relaxed. What You'll Learn In This Cat Podcast Episode * Why cat furniture is more than just decoration * How familiar spaces help cats feel safe * Why enrichment is about creating a home, not buying more things * The lesson my rescue cats taught me about belonging Timestamps & Chapters * 00:00 My first cat tree felt like just another purchase * 00:28 Watching my cats make it their own * 00:58 My realization: cat furniture creates a home * 01:36 Creating a peaceful home for our cats This is where I’ve gathered everything that supports me and my cats: https://diaryofacatmom.com/cat-care-resources/ [https://diaryofacatmom.com/cat-care-resources/] About the Diary of a Cat Mom Podcast Diary of a Cat Mom [https://diaryofacatmom.com/] is a personal cat podcast created by Dagmar Gatell [https://diaryofacatmom.com/about-the-host/], sharing real moments from life with cats [https://diaryofacatmom.com/about/]. Everything shared comes from lived experience as a cat mom and is not intended as professional veterinary advice. Every cat is unique, and for health concerns, it’s always best to consult your trusted veterinarian. Help More Cat Parents. Make a Bigger Difference. 🐾💕 Share your knowledge, experience, and story to help cat parents better understand and care for their cats. → Learn More About Becoming a Guest https://stan.store/fromhereai/p/podcast-guest-package [https://stan.store/fromhereai/p/podcast-guest-package] Connect with Passionate Cat Parents. 🐾🐱 Reach an engaged community of cat parents, build trust in your brand, and support educational content that helps cats and the people who love them. → Learn More About Podcast Sponsorship https://stan.store/fromhereai/p/podcast-sponsor-package [https://stan.store/fromhereai/p/podcast-sponsor-package]

How to Train a Cat with Commands | Patience, Consistency & Trust | Ep. 113

Can you really train a cat? Many people believe cats cannot be trained, but I've discovered that they absolutely can—just not the way we often expect. In this episode of the Diary of a Cat Mom podcast [https://diaryofacatmom.com/], I share how one of my cats taught me that training isn't about control. It's about building trust, creating routines, and being patient enough to let learning happen over time. By using simple commands, positive reinforcement, and consistent consequences, my cat slowly learned when it was time to come inside from the backyard. More importantly, I learned that changing my own expectations was just as important as teaching her. If you've ever wondered whether your cat can learn commands, this episode is for you. What You'll Learn In This Cat Podcast Episode * Why cats can learn simple commands * How positive reinforcement builds trust * Why consistency matters more than perfection * How consequences can create predictable routines * Why patience is often the biggest lesson for cat moms Timestamps & Chapters * 00:00 Can you really train a cat? * 00:23 Why I wanted my cat to respond to commands * 00:56 Teaching the "Come" command with treats * 01:41 Building routines with "inside" and "outside" * 02:26 My biggest realization about patience * 03:03 The lesson my cat taught me This is where I’ve gathered everything that supports me and my cats: https://diaryofacatmom.com/cat-care-resources/ [https://diaryofacatmom.com/cat-care-resources/] About the Diary of a Cat Mom Podcast Diary of a Cat Mom [https://diaryofacatmom.com/] is a personal cat podcast created by Dagmar Gatell [https://diaryofacatmom.com/about-the-host/], sharing real moments from life with cats [https://diaryofacatmom.com/about/]. Everything shared comes from lived experience as a cat mom and is not intended as professional veterinary advice. Every cat is unique, and for health concerns, it’s always best to consult your trusted veterinarian. Help More Cat Parents. Make a Bigger Difference. 🐾💕 Share your knowledge, experience, and story to help cat parents better understand and care for their cats. → Learn More About Becoming a Guest https://stan.store/fromhereai/p/podcast-guest-package [https://stan.store/fromhereai/p/podcast-guest-package] Connect with Passionate Cat Parents. 🐾🐱 Reach an engaged community of cat parents, build trust in your brand, and support educational content that helps cats and the people who love them. → Learn More About Podcast Sponsorship https://stan.store/fromhereai/p/podcast-sponsor-package [https://stan.store/fromhereai/p/podcast-sponsor-package]

How to Use Catnip With Cats | How My Cats Discovered Its Magic | Ep. 112

Have you ever wondered how to use catnip with your cat? When I first became a cat mom, I bought a bag of catnip from the grocery store because I had heard cats loved it. My cats completely ignored it. Years later, I discovered that not all catnip is the same. In this Diary of a Cat Mom podcast [https://diaryofacatmom.com/] episode, I share how finding a higher-quality catnip completely changed the experience for my cats—from encouraging scratching and play to creating peaceful moments of relaxation. I also share how I used catnip while helping community cats and why it became one of my favorite forms of enrichment. Every cat is different. I'm simply sharing what worked for my cats and me. What You'll Learn In This Cat Podcast Episode * Why some cats ignore catnip * The difference quality can make * Different ways cats respond to catnip * How I use catnip for enrichment * Why catnip became part of our daily life Timestamps & Chapters * 00:00 – My first experience with catnip * 00:45 – Discovering that catnip quality matters * 01:35 – How each of my rescue cats reacted differently * 02:30 – Using catnip to help community cats feel comfortable * 03:10 – Why catnip became one of my favorite enrichment tools 🌿 Products I Mention in This Episode Disclosure: Some of the links below are affiliate links. If you purchase through them, I may earn a small commission at no additional cost to you. Thank you for supporting Diary of a Cat Mom. 💛🐾 From The Field Fine Ground Stalkless Catnip (10 oz) [https://www.amazon.com/Field-Catnip-Kitty-Safe-Stalkless/dp/B07H3WN2B7?pd_rd_w=T0H5o&content-id=amzn1.sym.d77fc71d-50de-409a-abeb-03b0a5133383&pf_rd_p=d77fc71d-50de-409a-abeb-03b0a5133383&pf_rd_r=MZM3XHVC2W38T0X5C5YC&pd_rd_wg=oGsOw&pd_rd_r=80ab9087-e868-4410-925c-004eeeb10dfc&pd_rd_i=B07H3WN2B7&th=1&linkCode=sl2&tag=fromhereai-20&linkId=fa398a7c564ee46c0461fc073eb645af&language=en_US&ref_=as_li_ss_tl] After trying several brands, this is the freshest and most affordable catnip I've found. My rescue cats respond to it much more than the grocery store brands I tried when I first became a cat mom. I like to sprinkle it on scratching pads, scratching beds, blankets, or toys when: * 🐾 we're home from a vet visit and they need help relaxing * 🐾 one cat seems tense and I want to redirect their attention * 🐾 I want to encourage scratching or play * 🐾 I simply want to give them a little extra enrichment Every cat is different, but this has become one of my favorite ways to create happy moments for my cats. 💛🐾 This is where I’ve gathered everything that supports me and my cats: https://diaryofacatmom.com/cat-care-resources/ [https://diaryofacatmom.com/cat-care-resources/] About the Diary of a Cat Mom Podcast Diary of a Cat Mom [https://diaryofacatmom.com/] is a personal cat podcast created by Dagmar Gatell [https://diaryofacatmom.com/about-the-host/], sharing real moments from life with cats [https://diaryofacatmom.com/about/]. Everything shared comes from lived experience as a cat mom and is not intended as professional veterinary advice. Every cat is unique, and for health concerns, it’s always best to consult your trusted veterinarian. Help More Cat Parents. Make a Bigger Difference. 🐾💕 Share your knowledge, experience, and story to help cat parents better understand and care for their cats. → Learn More About Becoming a Guest https://stan.store/fromhereai/p/podcast-guest-package [https://stan.store/fromhereai/p/podcast-guest-package] Connect with Passionate Cat Parents. 🐾🐱 Reach an engaged community of cat parents, build trust in your brand, and support educational content that helps cats and the people who love them. → Learn More About Podcast Sponsorship https://stan.store/fromhereai/p/podcast-sponsor-package [https://stan.store/fromhereai/p/podcast-sponsor-package]