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Master-Dating: How I Learned to Stop Outsourcing Intimacy

10 min · 8. apr. 2026
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Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2368585/fan_mail/new] What if the intimacy you’ve been craving… starts with you? In this episode, I open up about the ritual that brought me back to myself after feeling disconnected in love. I share how “master-dating” helped me reconnect with my body, my desires, and my identity so I can show up differently in future relationships. This isn’t about being alone. It’s about staying connected to yourself… no matter who you’re with. Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2368585/support]

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