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He Broke His Face For Likes

38 min · 15. maj 2026
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Looksmaxxing may sound like just another internet trend, but its roots go much darker than most people realize. What began in fringe manosphere and incel communities as a hyper-online obsession with hierarchy, attractiveness, and so-called “sexual marketplace value” has now exploded into mainstream culture through TikTok, Instagram, fitness influencers, and self-optimization content.Today, “looksmaxxing” doesn’t just mean trying to become more attractive. It exists inside a much larger culture of optimization: wellness-maxing, productivity-maxing, sleep-maxing, protein-maxing — the constant pressure to turn yourself into a more desirable, efficient, high-performing version of yourself.In this episode, Jess Britvich joins me for a deep dive into the origins of looksmaxxing, how manosphere ideology escaped niche internet spaces and entered everyday online life, and why beauty labor suddenly becomes socially acceptable for men when it’s framed as “strategy” instead of vanity.We also unpack the contradictions at the center of modern masculinity: if masculinity is supposed to be natural and inherent, why does so much of manosphere culture revolve around constantly performing, optimizing, and affirming it?And yes, we also played a game where Jess quizzes me on manosphere terminology including “mewing,” “blackpill,” “Chad,” and “sexual marketplace value,” because unfortunately, this is now the internet we live on.What do you think of looksmaxxing and how it is tied to end-stage capitalism and eugenics?FOLLOW NATALIEsubstack: https://substack.com/@factsoverfearnataliebinstagram: https://www.instagram.com/@nataliebencivenga/#tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@nataliebencivengathreads: https://www.threads.com/@nataliebencivengapodcast via spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/47JYsn9LQchErS3cnHP2YFpodcast via apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/facts-over-fear/id1855901950FACTS OVER FEARLet's dismantle the fear that is used to divide us surrounding the issues impacting the people and talk facts.ABOUT NATALIENatalie Bencivenga is a socially-conscious journalist working towards building equity in our communities through storytelling. Her goal is to inspire, educate and activate people to become catalysts for positive change. Join her for transformative conversations that uplift and challenge the ways in which we perceive the world. Let's turn this moment into a movement – together.

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