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Social Media Is Quietly Destroying Relationships

23 min · 14. maj 2026
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Mental health awareness starts with understanding how social media, overstimulation, and emotional disconnection are affecting our relationships. In this episode, we explore healing through storytelling, betrayal trauma, and how intentional living can protect your peace. I sat down with Mr. Jay, a betrayal trauma practitioner and relationship coach, for a powerful conversation about how technology is shaping connection, trust, and identity. We discuss social media addiction, emotional neglect, cheating in the digital age, and why many people lose themselves while trying to stay connected. Mr. Jay shares why healthy relationships require ongoing communication, self-awareness, and building bridges with yourself first. We also talk about overstimulation, comparison culture, doomscrolling, and the importance of being present with the people who matter most. Connect with Mr. Jay: https://mrjayrelationshipcoach.com/

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