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026 Perfectionism isn’t helping you...it’s keeping you stuck in burnout culture

14 min · 23. feb. 2026
episode 026 Perfectionism isn’t helping you...it’s keeping you stuck in burnout culture cover

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Perfectionism once felt like my safety blanket — until I realized it was quietly disconnecting me from my body, my intuition, and my humanity. In this episode, I unpack how perfectionism isn’t actually about high standards — it’s about fear, survival, and a deeply colonized belief system that teaches us mistakes are dangerous and approval lives outside of us. We talk about: 00:00 – You don’t have to be perfect to start 01:45 – When perfectionism felt like safety 03:00 – Perfectionism vs procrastination 03:55 – “Perfectionism removes our humanness” 05:10 – Why polished = disconnected 06:45 – Listening to your body vs overriding it 07:05 – Perfectionism as a colonized survival trait 08:30 – External validation, credentials, and approval 09:45 – Impostor syndrome and who systems are built for 10:55 – Shame as motivation 11:45 – Choosing visibility over perfection 13:00 – Relearning self-trust and intuition 14:00 – Letting go of perfection for good This is an invitation to show up messy, visible, and human 😌even when it feels uncomfortable. ❀ 𝑺𝑶𝑪𝑰𝑨𝑳𝑺 Instagram: https://bit.ly/2F3vQVh [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbFRjZzhMNXBoRE9OclVfY0t5VzVUTndNSzY5Z3xBQ3Jtc0tsdkVZOUN2T2lFb2dXZHJzRWVsWTdLSWZDUVdOMWE1eEFJVDZXWGtmMkQwWlJOaG5yMGFvSXlyR2pyck0tbFBLT1ktMTlZSnhXdTdDM0FELTltYmxZYkpIR0V5SnlKLVVReFlyNm5KYjlPOGg3T0J5RQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Fbit.ly%2F2F3vQVh&v=Xgyisla2DXY] Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCuGjPIQBXXZ4BTpFDGH6ZhA/ ☞ collaboration enquiries: lauren.e.gutierrez@gmail.com.·:*¨ 𝑭𝑨𝑸 ¨*:·. ✧ name: Lauren✧ location: Texas ✧ credentials: LCSW-Ssub count: 34,562 (2/26)THANKYOU SM WOW ♡

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028 Im in the MIDDLE of it...lets get REAL || working with my husband & navigating stress

After stepping away, I'm finally back with a life update.In this episode, I'm sharing what life has looked like behind the scenes: transitioning into a new social work role, working alongside my husband, navigating stress, embracing personal growth, and learning how to redefine myself outside of school social work.This is a real conversation about career transitions, identity shifts and finding your way through uncertain seasons.If you've ever felt like you're reinventing yourself, questioning your next chapter, balancing work and family, or trying to find meaning during a stressful season, this episode is for you.In this episode:• Why I stepped away from YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCuGjPIQBXXZ4BTpFDGH6ZhA]• My transition from school social work to a new role• Working with my husband for the first time• Managing stress and major life changes• Rediscovering creativity and content creation• Weight loss, wellness, and mindset shifts• Disney trips, family life, and creating memoriesSubscribe for honest conversations about social work, personal growth, career transitions, motherhood, mindset, wellness, and building a life that feels aligned.______________________________________________________❀ 𝑺𝑶𝑪𝑰𝑨𝑳𝑺 Instagram: https://bit.ly/2F3vQVh☞ collaboration enquiries: lauren.e.gutierrez@gmail.com

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episode 026 Perfectionism isn’t helping you...it’s keeping you stuck in burnout culture artwork

026 Perfectionism isn’t helping you...it’s keeping you stuck in burnout culture

Perfectionism once felt like my safety blanket — until I realized it was quietly disconnecting me from my body, my intuition, and my humanity. In this episode, I unpack how perfectionism isn’t actually about high standards — it’s about fear, survival, and a deeply colonized belief system that teaches us mistakes are dangerous and approval lives outside of us. We talk about: 00:00 – You don’t have to be perfect to start 01:45 – When perfectionism felt like safety 03:00 – Perfectionism vs procrastination 03:55 – “Perfectionism removes our humanness” 05:10 – Why polished = disconnected 06:45 – Listening to your body vs overriding it 07:05 – Perfectionism as a colonized survival trait 08:30 – External validation, credentials, and approval 09:45 – Impostor syndrome and who systems are built for 10:55 – Shame as motivation 11:45 – Choosing visibility over perfection 13:00 – Relearning self-trust and intuition 14:00 – Letting go of perfection for good This is an invitation to show up messy, visible, and human 😌even when it feels uncomfortable. ❀ 𝑺𝑶𝑪𝑰𝑨𝑳𝑺 Instagram: https://bit.ly/2F3vQVh [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbFRjZzhMNXBoRE9OclVfY0t5VzVUTndNSzY5Z3xBQ3Jtc0tsdkVZOUN2T2lFb2dXZHJzRWVsWTdLSWZDUVdOMWE1eEFJVDZXWGtmMkQwWlJOaG5yMGFvSXlyR2pyck0tbFBLT1ktMTlZSnhXdTdDM0FELTltYmxZYkpIR0V5SnlKLVVReFlyNm5KYjlPOGg3T0J5RQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Fbit.ly%2F2F3vQVh&v=Xgyisla2DXY] Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCuGjPIQBXXZ4BTpFDGH6ZhA/ ☞ collaboration enquiries: lauren.e.gutierrez@gmail.com.·:*¨ 𝑭𝑨𝑸 ¨*:·. ✧ name: Lauren✧ location: Texas ✧ credentials: LCSW-Ssub count: 34,562 (2/26)THANKYOU SM WOW ♡

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2025 was a tough year for me. Between career transitions, workplace challenges, and personal growth, I hit some hard lows—but I learned some life-changing lessons along the way. In this episode, I share my journey through doubt, persistence, therapy, and finally realizing my worth.If you’ve ever felt stuck, out of place, or unsure of your path, this episode is for you. Let’s reflect together, process the gray areas, and step into the next level of growth. 💛 Key moments: * My disappearing act on social media and why it happened * The therapy session that changed everything * How to tell the difference between a learning curve and a misalignment Subscribe for more honest reflections and lessons from my social work and life experiences.______________________________________________________❀ Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/socialworkscrapbook]☞ collaboration enquiries: lauren.e.gutierrez@gmail.com.·:*¨ 𝑭𝑨𝑸 ¨*:·. ✧ name: Lauren✧ location: Texas ✧ credentials: LCSW-Ssub count: 34,515 (02/2026) on youtube [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCuGjPIQBXXZ4BTpFDGH6ZhA/]THANKYOU SM WOW ♡___________________________#CareerPivot#CareerChange#BurnoutRecovery#SocialWork#LCSW#WomenInTransition#CareerReflection#TherapyWorks#PersonalGrowth#LifeLessons#TrustYourself#PodcastEpisode#HealingJourney#ProfessionalWomen

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