Hip Hope Hooray! Men Talkinβ Health
She Tricked Me Into the ER β Freeman & Susan Williams Keep It π― on Myeloma, Marriage & the Corporation Ayo fam β pull up. ποΈ This one right here? This one HITS different. π₯ Oya is in the building with two of the dopest people to ever grace this mic β Dr. Freeman Williams and his wife and care partner, Dr. Susan Williams. Freeman is a former school superintendent, NAACP leader, father, grandfather, community giant β AND a brother living with multiple myeloma since 2015. Susan? She's the Street Fighter π₯ standing beside him every single step of the way. But here's how it ALL started β Freeman was out here powering through like he always does, suits getting loose, body slowing down, kidneys flagging... and this man said "maybe next week" to the doctor. π€ So what did Susan do? She called his doctor's nurse, put her on hold, called Freeman like "hey honey, somebody wants to talk to you" β and BAM. Three-way call. Nurse told him get to the ER NOW. He went after his workday. He never came back. π₯ That's Day One of the Freeman Williams Corporation. πΌ β±οΈ TIMESTAMPS 0:00 β Oya sets it off: Meet Dr. Freeman Williams β father, grandfather, superintendent, NAACP leader, myeloma patient β and his Street Fighter wife Susan. Life BEFORE the diagnosis: retirement plans, traveling, yard work, walking together β they were LIVING ππΎπΊπΎ 8:35 β THE THREE-WAY CALL π² How Susan tricked Freeman into talking to the doctor's nurse β and why he never came back from the ER that evening. Inside the hospital: "You need to get your house in order." π₯π³ 17:10 β Treatment time π Chemo AND dialysis three times a week while still going to work full time. The insurance battle over stem cell coverage. Susan's hardest day β and the military mindset that kicked in when she couldn't afford to fall apart πͺπ 25:45 β The Freeman Williams Corporation is BORN πΌ Why they never make split decisions, always go as a pair, push back on medical jargon, and come strapped with questions every single time. Plus: why Black men stay avoiding the doctor and what that pride is REALLY costing us π€π§ 34:20 β Finding your real ones π How their day-one people carried them through. How myeloma deepened a friendship-first marriage. THE POPEYES WINGS ERA ππ "Adapt and Adopt" β and Oya closes it out with Heavy D, Double Dutch Bus, and a message every brother needs to hear π΅ππΎ In this episode we get into ALL of it: * π¨ How Susan low-key tricked Freeman into the ER β and why that call saved his life * π Going through chemo AND dialysis three times a week β while still going to work full time * π§Ύ Fighting insurance companies in real time over stem cell therapy coverage * π«°πΎ Susan snapping her fingers at a specialist mid-conversation β "You need to talk to ME" * π Why you GOTTA come to every appointment locked and loaded with questions * π€ Building your health team like a corporation β second opinions, due diligence, no split decisions * π§ Why Black men stay avoiding the doctor β and what that pride is REALLY costing us * π The Popeyes wings era: the ONLY thing Freeman would eat after his stem cell transplant (the manager knew Susan's order by name π) * β€οΈ How myeloma deepened a friendship-first marriage and what "the new normal" really looks like * π΅ Plus: Heavy D, Double Dutch Bus, and a reminder of WHY we gotta take care of ourselves No fluff. No scripts. Just two real people who been through the fire and came out the other side still standing β together. ππΎ This for every brother avoiding that appointment. Every care partner running on fumes. Every family trying to figure out what comes next. TAP IN. π§ Resources mentioned: π International Myeloma Foundation β myeloma.org π Blood Cancer United β bloodcancerunited.org π HealthTree Foundation β healthtree.org π Johnson & Johnson "That's My Word" β thatsmywordmm.com π Pfizer "MMToldTrue" β mmtoldtrue.com π Health, Hope & Hip-Hop Foundation β healthhopehiphop.org
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