She Tricked Me Into the ER: Freeman & Susan Williams on Myeloma, Marriage & the Corporation
She Tricked Me Into the ER — Freeman & Susan Williams Keep It 💯 on Myeloma, Marriage & the Corporation
Ayo fam — pull up. 🎙️ This one right here? This one HITS different. 💥
Oya is in the building with two of the dopest people to ever grace this mic — Dr. Freeman Williams and his wife and care partner, Dr. Susan Williams. Freeman is a former school superintendent, NAACP leader, father, grandfather, community giant — AND a brother living with multiple myeloma since 2015. Susan? She's the Street Fighter 🥊 standing beside him every single step of the way.
But here's how it ALL started — Freeman was out here powering through like he always does, suits getting loose, body slowing down, kidneys flagging... and this man said "maybe next week" to the doctor. 😤 So what did Susan do? She called his doctor's nurse, put her on hold, called Freeman like "hey honey, somebody wants to talk to you" — and BAM. Three-way call. Nurse told him get to the ER NOW. He went after his workday. He never came back. 🏥
That's Day One of the Freeman Williams Corporation. 💼
⏱️ TIMESTAMPS
0:00 — Oya sets it off: Meet Dr. Freeman Williams — father, grandfather, superintendent, NAACP leader, myeloma patient — and his Street Fighter wife Susan. Life BEFORE the diagnosis: retirement plans, traveling, yard work, walking together — they were LIVING 💃🏾🕺🏾
8:35 — THE THREE-WAY CALL 📲 How Susan tricked Freeman into talking to the doctor's nurse — and why he never came back from the ER that evening. Inside the hospital: "You need to get your house in order." 🏥😳
17:10 — Treatment time 💊 Chemo AND dialysis three times a week while still going to work full time. The insurance battle over stem cell coverage. Susan's hardest day — and the military mindset that kicked in when she couldn't afford to fall apart 🪖📋
25:45 — The Freeman Williams Corporation is BORN 💼 Why they never make split decisions, always go as a pair, push back on medical jargon, and come strapped with questions every single time. Plus: why Black men stay avoiding the doctor and what that pride is REALLY costing us 😤🧠
34:20 — Finding your real ones 💙 How their day-one people carried them through. How myeloma deepened a friendship-first marriage. THE POPEYES WINGS ERA 🍗😂 "Adapt and Adopt" — and Oya closes it out with Heavy D, Double Dutch Bus, and a message every brother needs to hear 🎵🙌🏾
In this episode we get into ALL of it:
* 🚨 How Susan low-key tricked Freeman into the ER — and why that call saved his life
* 💊 Going through chemo AND dialysis three times a week — while still going to work full time
* 🧾 Fighting insurance companies in real time over stem cell therapy coverage
* 🫰🏾 Susan snapping her fingers at a specialist mid-conversation — "You need to talk to ME"
* 📋 Why you GOTTA come to every appointment locked and loaded with questions
* 🤝 Building your health team like a corporation — second opinions, due diligence, no split decisions
* 🧠 Why Black men stay avoiding the doctor — and what that pride is REALLY costing us
* 🍗 The Popeyes wings era: the ONLY thing Freeman would eat after his stem cell transplant (the manager knew Susan's order by name 😂)
* ❤️ How myeloma deepened a friendship-first marriage and what "the new normal" really looks like
* 🎵 Plus: Heavy D, Double Dutch Bus, and a reminder of WHY we gotta take care of ourselves
No fluff. No scripts. Just two real people who been through the fire and came out the other side still standing — together. 🙏🏾
This for every brother avoiding that appointment. Every care partner running on fumes. Every family trying to figure out what comes next. TAP IN. 🎧
Resources mentioned:
🔗 International Myeloma Foundation — myeloma.org
🔗 Blood Cancer United — bloodcancerunited.org
🔗 HealthTree Foundation — healthtree.org
🔗 Johnson & Johnson "That's My Word" — thatsmywordmm.com
🔗 Pfizer "MMToldTrue" — mmtoldtrue.com
🔗 Health, Hope & Hip-Hop Foundation — healthhopehiphop.org
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