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Do Social Hexads GAF?!

1 h 12 min · 4. maj 2026

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The Social Hexads are here. Luther (SO/SP 5w6), Vinny (SO/SP 7w8), and Micaiah (SO/SX 7w6) are hosted by Emeka (SX/SP 8w7) to unravel the mysteries of social hexad in this edition of Hoes Mostly Dark. If you’re watching this on YouTube, please like and subscribe. Comment about what you liked about this episode. If you’re listening to this as a podcast, please follow and rate/review ~ House of Enneagram Network: Official Typing Team @ ⁠https://www.enneagrammer.com [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbTFWRkdXZnpWMl9YTFNkRk5zU2ZZaFpPMkVLUXxBQ3Jtc0ttcVhka3BFQjY3RFZmVmhDUzFMWjAxSnF1U2xHNmVHTm1wRWYzSllJYjlCWE1OUkFyS3pMU3l0QTJjbUREbzhkM0N3cGM5bXVfWUJaTm5qalJtRGZvTmd2cDd0d1MxTnJTNVlKY1QyNi14NWh2bHA2UQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.enneagrammer.com%2F&v=1PIBIqe5JUA]⁠ The Enneagram School @ ⁠https://www.theenneagramschool.com [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbmNKdkY0UXdNYVR1M0U5Z01uZW94am5NVHg1UXxBQ3Jtc0ttUHZwdDJhTXkwOXQwVzM0bFJhTUlTZl9DNGpXdXFieUdIcXFWS2lGQ0VaUktqSzBkM2RKcS1nZkdlY3RWZmhad3BpUEVTNjlXZmlIa21qUWw5VmU1b0hITEJNbEdrLUFIS1A4S2wyaWRWb0pNZ3dVcw&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.theenneagramschool.com%2F&v=1PIBIqe5JUA]⁠ Dreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) ⁠https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvkn... [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbEg2dk5aWXpZc0FsWGdfVmJwcXFjNDU4aG1PZ3xBQ3Jtc0tscnpMdWhPUEdBWnllN0tEWFFzeTRtc0RtR3Vwd1hUV3JuVEFwNXhIeEtzT2trUDViWVNYeGxZcTZ6azJZdzlwQWNTXzh5MWhWeWladlI0VFBoa2tUb3VlUkZDVEhqM2lGdWpZaWYzVnAxX2RrZHh4RQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Fopen.spotify.com%2Fshow%2F5I8hvknTdatmtSvW8LGMCM%3Fsi%3D7b82ff544ae74405%E2%81%A0&v=1PIBIqe5JUA] Unrequited Enneagram Thirsting and Type Interviews https://youtube.com/@HopelessRomantwinks Show Notes 1:27 Social Hexad Intro 1:59 When Did You Realize You Were Different? 6:42 Has There Been Any Issues Navigating People’s Expectations? 10:08 What’s Your Relationship To Togetherness 15:15 What Does Mirroring Mean To You? 20:08 What Are You Wanting From Other People? 20:55 Luther’s Twenty Plus Minute Voice Messages 24:50 How Do You Feel About Having Limited Connection And Loneliness? 29:06 Describe Your Ideal Your Social Fantasy 31:52 How Differently Do You Think You Engage With Different People? 34:55 Do You Keep Your Social Groups Separate? 38:28 Are You Aware Of Needing Others To Regulate? 44:43 Do You Have Anything That Could Be Described As Social Anxiety? 49:27 What’s Your Relationship To Social Judgement? 52:59 What About The Fear Of Ostracization? 54:33 What Don’t You Relate To About The Way Social Is Talked About? 59:11 What Would You Say Being Social First Makes You Great At? 1:03:03 What’s The Worst And Best Parts Of Having A Social Hexad Brother? 1:08:48 What’s Your Social Nightmare?

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