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What Happens When You Finally Let Go?

Are you tired of praying and getting no where with God? Carrying the weight of life, trying to hold everything together, and wondering if God sees what you’re going through? In this episode of The State of Her, Keisha is having an honest conversation about faith, trust, and what it means to surrender the things we were never meant to carry alone. Keisha talks about emotional, mental, and spiritual exhaustion, the power of God’s timing, and how to find peace when life feels uncertain. If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed, discouraged, or simply tired, this episode is a reminder that God has not forgotten you. Even in the waiting, even in the silence, He is working behind the scenes for your good. So, take a deep breath, grab your favorite drink, and join Keisha for a conversation that will encourage your heart, strengthen your faith, and remind you that you don’t have to carry it all by yourself because God is with you. Sometimes the strongest and only thing you can do is place it in God’s hands. @TheStateOfHerHQ [https://instagram.com/thestateofherhq] Facebook [https://facebook.com/TheStateOfHerHQ]

The Weight of Holding It All Together

Why does everyone call you when things fall apart. Friends, family, the people closest to you. You’re the one who listens, who holds it together, who shows up no matter what. But what happens when the person holding everyone else up starts feeling heavy too? In this episode, Keisha is talking about the emotional weight of being “the strong one.” The one who always has the advice, always has the time, always has the patience even when no one asks if you’re okay and why you might just have to cut your girlfriends off. Let’s get honest about burnout, boundaries, and what it really costs to be everyone’s safe place. Because holding it all together shouldn’t mean losing yourself in the process of it all. 🎧 If this sounds like something you are experiencing, this conversation is for you. Tap for MORE… [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/introducing-the-state-of-her-with-keisha/id1875611352] Leave a Review [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/introducing-the-state-of-her-with-keisha/id1875611352]. Follow on Instagram [https://instagram.com/thestateofherhq] AND Facebook [https://facebook.com/TheStateOfHerHQ] Share [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/introducing-the-state-of-her-with-keisha/id1875611352] it with another beautiful woman who needs to hear this!

Dear Black Women: Your Natural Beauty IS Enough

Why do so many Black women still feel like their natural hair isn’t enough? On this week’s episode. Keisha talks about relaxers to wigs to being told straight hair looks “more professional,” this conversation goes deeper than hair. It’s about identity, acceptance, pressure, and the beauty standards we were raised under. This episode is honest, uncomfortable, healing, and necessary. Listen now, then ask yourself: Did you choose your beauty standards or were they chosen for you? 🎙️ Tune in, share with another Black woman, and join the conversation in the comments. Don’t forget to leave a review! @TheStateOfHerHQ [https://instagram.com/thestateofherhq]

Are You Trusting God or Letting Fear Lead You?

In this weeks episode of The State of Her, Keisha answers powerful questions directly from listeners who are ready to reset their mindsets, embrace their authenticity, and step into true confidence.Imagine starting each day with affirmations that set your soul on fire instead of doubts. Keisha shares practical, love driven strategies for nurturing unwavering self trust from small daily commitments to understanding the real source of confidence, which is built in private, not on social media. You’ll discover how to reframe overthinking as a sign of control issues, and learn how to create mental space for your peace by simply choosing yourself. When you stop seeking validation from everyone else, you unlock a freedom that allows you to live boldly, unapologetically, and with God’s guidance as your anchor. Keisha breaks down real life family debates about safety and discipline, revealing how to speak your truth without attacking your partner, and why open, respectful conversations are the keys to harmony. Plus, Keisha dives into the root causes of overthinking like past hurts or a need for control and offers actionable steps to quiet your mind and reclaim your calm. You’ll leave this episode with a new perspective on living courageously without checking everyone’s approval, making space for your joy, and trusting your own decisions. Perfect for women tired of second guessing, overthinking, or living for others this is your invitation to stop the cycle and step into your power. When you embrace your worth, you’ll notice that confidence, clarity, and community become your new normal. Tap in, reset your mindset, and remember: your greatest growth begins when you finally give yourself permission to rise. Follow @TheStateofHerHQ [https://www.instagram.com/thestateofherhq] and subscribe so you never miss a moment of real conversations and real growth. It’s your time, beautiful, let's rise together!

You’re Not In Love: You’re Addicted to Attention

So many of us are confusing attention with connection and it’s costing us more than we realize. In this episode of The State of Her, Keisha is talking about the difference between being seen and actually being understood between temporary validation and real alignment, and why chasing attention will always leave you feeling empty. If you’ve ever found yourself accepting less, entertaining inconsistency, or questioning your worth based on how someone shows up this conversation is for you. We’re getting real about: • Attention vs. connection • Why validation can become addictive • How to truly make yourself happy • And what it looks like to finally choose yourself Because at the end of the day you don’t need more attention you need alignment. 🎙️New episodes every Wednesday 💻 Follow: @TheStateOfHerHQi [https://www.instagram.com/thestateofherhq]