11.《非穷尽列举》：当妈妈也是大法官

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第十一期节目请到了戴戴（律师/民商事诉讼）一起讨论了英国戏剧《非穷尽列举》，该剧主要讲述了Jessica Parks在法官、母亲和女性主义者身份之间周旋的故事。收听提示： 1. 看剧的第一印象：法庭审理在媒体作品中的艺术加工 2. Jessica作为女性职场精英，事业成功带来的家庭压力和内疚感；传统家庭角色面临的束缚，如家务活动的不平等分工，以及做一个“好妈妈”的心理负担 3. “有毒男子气概”的代际传递、心理根源与外部环境（incel culture）的影响 4. 社交媒体的负面影响与政策干预：英国禁止 16 岁以下未成年人使用社交媒体的政策 5. （内容预警）性侵议题，相关叙事视角、受害者迷思澄清 6. 身体自主权，建立清晰边界，拒绝物化和被物化 7. 过于鲜明的“进步叙事”和性别对立反思、以及社会对女性主义的误解 8. 提到的作品有《初步举证》、《世界的主人》、《混沌少年时》欢迎留言一起讨论，感谢收听！欢迎转发！

9. The Farewell (2019) Should we tell people they are dying?

In This Episode: Should we tell people they are dying? In Lulu Wang’s film The Farewell (2019), Chinese-born, U.S.-raised Billi returns to Changchun, China after her family decides to “protect” her grandmother - Nainai - from her cancer diagnosis. They plan a wedding as a cover for a good-bye party. This story is “based on a true lie.” The question provoked by the film guides the discussion of Manaka (an active violinist, recitalist and composer based in Japan) and host Roya about: 1. Our first impression of the film and the casting: Awkwafina and her backgrounds 2. The film’s Chinese-American themes and the challenges of writing a script in two languages 3. The film is named “Don’t tell her” in Chinese, as well as the cultural context of hiding a cancer diagnosis from a loved one - the cultural differences between American and Chinese approaches to family and healthcare 4. The film’s portrayal of Nainai’s character. Did Nainai know? 5. The complex relationship between Billi and her immigrant mother; Billi’s in-between/fragmented identity 6. The film’s deeper message about the distinction between death and illness, and how society often conflates these concepts; the universal theme of saying goodbye to our loved ones 7. Birds as family messengers connecting Billi and Nainai 8. The ending, where it’s revealed that the real Nainai survived her diagnosis 9. Growing Asian American representation in media and its potential to challenge fixed national categories in the study of aging and intergenerational relationships. 10. The film’s musical elements * The major takeaway we want you to have from this podcast is: Manaka: I hope we can have a deeper understanding of The Farewell beyond its landmark as a film for Asian representation, and expand that understanding to more storytelling from different cultures as well. Roya: I hope we can better understand, and keep learning more about, the complex dynamics and emotional realities of intergenerational relationships in a transnational context. This film is a good example for thinking about this. Show notes: Manaka Matsumoto is an active violinist and recitalist based in Japan. She regularly premieres her own compositions in her recitals, arranges popular classical music to be performed by smaller ensembles in more intimate settings, and frequently collaborates with visual artists in live performances. Her mission as a classical music instrumentalist is to explore the possibilities of live performance culture, challenging conventions in repertoire, venue, and communication with the audience. A fun fact about the podcast: Totally coincidentally, Roya realized she had written a social media post exactly six years ago today—February 2, 2020—when she first watched the film (actually earlier than the time she mentioned in the podcast). In it, she wrote that she was moved to tears and that the film brought back sweet memories of her grandmother. It feels like another reminder of how life can seem almost magical or even fictional. Lulu Wang’s interview re. the script: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_taWSzIaBYg [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_taWSzIaBYg] Lulu Wang and the piano: https://variety.com/2019/film/features/the-farewell-lulu-wang-interview-awkwafina-1203285725/ [https://variety.com/2019/film/features/the-farewell-lulu-wang-interview-awkwafina-1203285725/] The Farewell Soundtrack: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OIV4HAz6n3M [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OIV4HAz6n3M] “Saying Goodbye to Your Roots in 'The Farewell'” by Quality Culture https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aK1oXZ-jCZQ [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aK1oXZ-jCZQ] “In Defense of Ignorance: What You Don’t know” by This American Life https://www.thisamericanlife.org/585/in-defense-of-ignorance/act-one-8 [https://www.thisamericanlife.org/585/in-defense-of-ignorance/act-one-8] Interview “From writer/director Lulu Wang and starring Awkwafina. “ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1B6JUzB6GbQ [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1B6JUzB6GbQ] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cE289akkxY8 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cE289akkxY8] "Lies and Goodbyes" by Caroline Hensley https://medicalhealthhumanities.com/2025/11/10/lies-and-goodbyes-lulu-wangs-the-farewell-2019/ "The Farewell" by Santa Barbara International Film Festival: https://sbiff.org/the-farewell/

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11.《非穷尽列举》：当妈妈也是大法官

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