Ask a Sex Therapist: Kinks, Fantasies & The Questions We Are Afraid to Ask

Ask a Sex Therapist: Kinks, Fantasies & The Questions We Are Afraid to Ask

What if the questions you've never said out loud are the same questions everyone else is asking? In this episode of Kissfessionals, Crystal welcomes the show's first guest, sex therapist Sugakora Brown M. Ed, LMSW, LPN , for an honest conversation about kinks, fantasies, desire, sexual dysfunction, intimacy, relationships, and the myths that keep people feeling ashamed of what they want. From "Are my kinks normal?" to "Why has my sex drive changed?" to "Should I try sex therapy?"—nothing is off limits. In this episode, we discuss: 💋 What a sex therapist actually does 💋 Kinks, fantasies, and exploring desire without shame 💋 Sexual dysfunction and why it's more common than you think 💋 Red flags, yellow flags, and relationship communication 💋 How trauma, stress, body image, and life changes affect intimacy 💋 What happens when one partner wants help and the other doesn't 💋 Practical ways to improve connection, communication, and sexual confidence Whether you're curious about sex therapy, navigating changes in your sex life, exploring your desires, or simply wondering, "Is this normal?" this episode is for you. Welcome to the guest era of Kissfessionals. 💋 About Kissfessionals: Kissfessionals is the podcast where confessions become conversations. Hosted by Crystal A-Ego and Sarah Sauce, each episode explores sex, relationships, intimacy, dating, and personal growth through real stories, honest questions, and judgment-free discussions. Subscribe and stream Kissfessionals on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, iHeartRadio, and wherever podcasts are shared.

Bad in Bed? The Conversation Nobody Wants to Have

What do you do when the sex isn’t working — but saying something could blow up the entire relationship? 💋 This week, Crystal A-Ego and Sarah Sauce get into the conversation almost nobody knows how to have: honest sexual feedback. From faking satisfaction to settling for the bare minimum, we unpack why people stay silent, how ego gets in the way, and what healthy sexual communication actually looks like. In this episode: • Why “just be honest” is terrible advice for sexual feedback • The difference between real enthusiasm and going through the motions • How to give feedback without triggering defensiveness • Mismatched libidos: communication issue or compatibility issue? • Why women fake it — and how to stop • The bare minimum trap that slowly kills intimacy • Signs your partner may never truly hear you Whether you’ve avoided the conversation, tried to have it, or realized your needs keep getting minimized… this episode is for you. Subscribe to Kissfessionals and stream wherever podcasts are shared. 💋

The “Thottiest” Professions? Teachers, Nurses & Workplace Stereotypes Explained

On this episode of Kissfessionals, Crystal A-Ego and Sarah Sauce unpack the stereotypes behind the internet debate around the “thottiest” professions. Why do certain careers instantly become linked to sex appeal, cheating rumors, or relationship stereotypes? And why are women judged so differently based on their job titles? From teachers and nurses to therapists, military women, tech professionals, and sex workers, this episode dives into how society projects fantasies onto professions — and the real impact that has on dating, relationships, and self-image. We discuss: 💋 Why some careers get unfair sexual stereotypes 💋 How dress codes, authority, and workplace culture shape perception 💋 The double standards women face in male-dominated fields 💋 Why libido, personality, and culture matter more than profession 💋 Social media’s role in fueling workplace fantasies 💋 Setting boundaries when people cross the line If you’ve ever been stereotyped because of your job — or caught yourself making assumptions about someone else — this conversation goes deeper than the memes and gets real about perception, projection, and human behavior. 🎙️ Hosted by Crystal A-Ego (@crystalsalterego) & Sarah Sauce 💌 Got a Kissfessional? Submit your confession for a future episode. ⭐ Subscribe and stream Kissfessionals wherever podcasts are shared.

What Your Style Says About You in Dating 👀 First Impressions, Red Flags & Attraction

What does your style say about you in dating… before you even open your mouth? In this episode of Kissfessionals: A Safe Place to Kiss and Tell, Crystal A-Ego and Sarah Sauce decode how your clothing, accessories, and overall aesthetic shape first impressions, attraction, and dating outcomes. From soft feminine looks to bossed-up power dressing, streetwear to chill loungewear — every style choice sends signals about your confidence, personality, and intentions. The question is… are you aware of what you’re communicating? In this episode, we break down: ✨ What your outfit communicates on a first date 🚩 Fashion red flags and green flags in dating 💎 What designer labels, accessories, and casual fits reveal about you 🔥 The difference between authentic style vs. overcompensating 🧠 How to align your personal style with the energy you want to attract Whether you're trying to improve your dating life, make better first impressions, or learn how to read someone’s vibe instantly — this episode gives you the insight to decode it all. 💋 Drop a Kissfessional: What does YOUR style say about you? 🎧 Subscribe and stream Kissfessionals wherever podcasts are shared.

Wait… Why Am I Dreaming About My Ex Like That?! | Common Sex Dreams Explained

Ever wake up like… why am I dreaming about my ex like THAT?! 👀 In this episode of Kissfessionals, we’re diving into the world of sex dreams and what they might actually mean. From exes showing up uninvited, to unexpected (and sometimes confusing) dream scenarios, we’re breaking down the most common types of sex dreams and the subconscious messages behind them. Are these dreams about unresolved feelings, hidden desires, or just your mind being messy while you sleep? We’re sharing personal stories, exploring the psychology behind it all, and giving you real insight into what your dreams could be trying to tell you. So before you start overthinking—or worse, texting your ex—press play. Don’t forget to subscribe and stream Kissfessionals wherever podcasts are available—and send this episode to someone who’s been having very interesting dreams lately 👀✨