Learning to Be Present (the Hard Way)

Living Faithfully Present Today While You're Working Toward Tomorrow with Adam Ramsey

In this powerful episode of the LeadHerShip Podcast, I sit down with Adam Ramsey, author of Faithfully Present: Embracing the Limits of Where and When God Has You, for a conversation that will completely shift how you think about presence, limits, and what it means to live a Proverbs 31 lifestyle in today's world. Adam brings incredible biblical depth and pastoral wisdom to questions ambitious Christian moms are actually asking: How do I balance big vision with being present today? What does it mean to embrace my limits without giving up on my calling? How do I know if I'm striving in my own strength or trusting God's timing? If you're an ambitious Christian mom trying to show up well in this season, you need to hear this conversation. It's biblical, practical, and so encouraging for the aspiring Proverbs 31 woman who wants to honor God in every area of her life. In this episode, you'll discover: * The biblical definition of being faithfully present – It's not about perfection or balance; it's about showing up fully where God has placed you right now * How to know if you're trusting God or just striving – Practical indicators that reveal whether you're working from rest or running on fumes * How to hold vision without letting it dominate your present – The key to pursuing big goals without losing your peace * How to be present with your family while building something meaningful – You don't have to choose between impact and family * The freedom that comes from accepting you can't do it all – And why that's not defeat, it's wisdom Adam's Book: * ⁠Faithfully Present: Embracing the Limits of Where and When God Has You [https://amzn.to/3LdoQND]⁠ – The book we discuss throughout this episode Adam Ramsey is a pastor, author, and speaker passionate about helping people understand what it means to live faithfully in the place and time God has given them. He's the author of Faithfully Present: Embracing the Limits of Where and When God Has You, a book that's transforming how Christians think about ambition, calling, and contentment. Adam serves as Lead Pastor at Liberti Church in Gold Coast, Australia, and is part of the Acts 29 church planting network. He's also a regular contributor to The Gospel Coalition and Desiring God. Adam and his wife have been in pastoral ministry for over 15 years and are raising their family while navigating the beautiful tension of vision and presence. His work has encouraged thousands of believers to embrace their God-given limits while still pursuing kingdom impact—making him the perfect guest for this conversation about living a Proverbs 31 lifestyle in the modern world. Connect with Adam: * Instagram: @adamramsey_ [https://www.instagram.com/adamramsey_/?hl=en] Connect with Brittney: brittneyhoward.com [brittneyhoward.com] Instagram: @brittneydhoward [https://www.instagram.com/brittneydhoward/] The LeadHerShip Podcast is your guide to becoming a modern Proverbs 31 woman—someone who's present with her family, purposeful with her time, and yes, very profitable in her endeavors. Hosted by Brittney Howard, mom of six, aspiring Proverbs 31 woman, and business mentor leading ambitious Christian moms to six-figure success between science projects and soccer practice. This podcast proves you don't have to choose between biblical womanhood and godly ambition—you can honor God in every area of your life. Whether you're navigating Christian motherhood, building a faith-based business, or simply asking "what does it mean to be a Proverbs 31 woman in today's world?", you'll find biblical wisdom, practical strategies, and real encouragement here. Need support staying present? If you're struggling with stress that's affecting your energy, your mood, or your ability to show up the way you want to, let's talk about simple gut health support [https://brittneyhoward.com/wellness] that's helped me (and hundreds of moms on my team) feel more balanced. Was this episode helpful? Do me a favor: Share it with a friend who's wrestling with presence, limits, or godly ambition. This conversation could be exactly what she needs to hear today. 💕

Why Ambitious Christian Moms Struggle to Be Present (And What to Do About It)

Ever feel like you're physically in the room but mentally somewhere else entirely? Like you're going through the motions of your day while your mind races ahead to tomorrow's to-do list or replays yesterday's failures? Same. In this episode of the LeadHerShip Podcast, I uncover the #1 barrier that keeps ambitious Christian women from being fully present...and it's probably not what you think! I'm sharing the biblical truth that changed everything for me, plus practical strategies to help you break free from the stress cycle and start showing up fully—mind, body, and spirit—to the people and priorities God has entrusted to you. This isn't about hustling harder OR slowing down! It's about learning to be faithfully present in a way that honors both your God-given vision and your today. Whether you're building a business, homeschooling your kids, or just trying to keep everyone fed and loved, you need to hear this. In this episode, you'll discover: * The real definition of faithful presence – It's not just being physically there; it's showing up mentally, emotionally, and spiritually engaged in the moment God has given you * Why stress is the #1 presence killer – And how most of your stress isn't even about what's happening now, but what you're afraid might happen later * The dangerous trap of vision without trust – How your God-given vision can become a source of pressure instead of inspiration when you forget who's actually in control * The identity issue behind your stress – Why tying your worth to your outcomes keeps you in constant striving mode (and what to do about it) * How God works through means – The biblical theology that will completely shift how you view your daily habits, systems, and routines * The Proverbs 31 woman's secret to peace – She wasn't panicking her way to productivity; she worked her systems faithfully with her eyes fixed on the Lord * Practical ways to stay present – Simple, do-able habits * Reflection questions – Powerful prompts to help you identify where pressure is stealing your presence in your home, business, and spiritual life Practical Application: * How to balance having a strong vision for your future while staying faithfully present in your today * Why your habits and systems aren't unspiritual—they're actually deeply spiritual when rooted in obedience * How to know when you're truly present (hint: you'll actually feel your emotions instead of numbing them) Resources Mentioned: * Time Blocker Template [https://brittneyhoward.com/resources] – My proven system for managing your days with intention instead of reaction * Complete Chore System [https://brittneyhoward.com/resources] – The exact framework I use to run a peaceful home with 6 kids (includes age-appropriate chore ideas) * Age-Appropriate Chore Ideas PDF [https://api.leadconnectorhq.com/widget/form/vO8kD97CHeMgOTdHLcWR] – Quick reference guide for what kids can handle at different ages Past Episodes Referenced: * Episode 60: The 5 Step Process of Time Management in Life and Business [https://open.spotify.com/episode/35gSh5kRp4NYSVVHIFVtdA?si=oZ6F9fTzT4GkjnEGEuerTQ]– Deep dive into how I manage a multi-six-figure business while being present for 6 kids * Episode 65: The Deepest Motivator for a True Proverbs 31 Woman (and the Results) [https://open.spotify.com/episode/3cRJCQUAOI5rcLIj8sxouz?si=o7zWLNC8RKyXnDFervx1uw] Connect with Brittney: * * Website: brittneyhoward.com [brittneyhoward.com] * Follow me on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/brittneydhoward/]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/brittneydhoward/] * Watch my network marketing trainings on Youtube ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.youtube.com/@brittneydhoward]⁠⁠ * Join the Patreon Community – Deeper convos on faith, business, and obedience: ⁠Click here to join⁠ [https://www.patreon.com/posts/inspired-by-kirk-139042452?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=postshare_creator&utm_content=join_link] * Message Brittney on Instagram – ⁠@brittneydhoward [https://www.instagram.com/brittneydhoward/] The LeadHerShip Podcast is your weekly guide to becoming a modern Proverbs 31 woman—someone who's present with her family, purposeful with her time, and yes, very profitable in her endeavors. Hosted by Brittney Howard, mom of six, aspiring Proverbs 31 woman, and business mentor leading ambitious Christian moms to six-figure success between science projects and soccer practice. Whether you're juggling babies, giving wisdom to a teenager, or growing a business, you'll find peace while going all in on pursuing purpose here. Your feedback means the world and helps more ambitious Christian mamas find this podcast. Thanks for being here. 🤍

Learning to Be Present (the Hard Way)

After a six-month pause, Brittney is back behind the mic—and this episode is as raw and real as it gets. What started as a break to dive deeper into being present turned into a struggle against fear, imposter syndrome, spiritual perfectionism, and ultimately, landed on grace. This episode will speak straight to the heart of every ambitious Christian woman who's ever wrestled with self-doubt while chasing God’s calling. If you’ve ever felt unqualified, afraid to fail, or paralyzed by perfectionism—this one is for you. 💛 What You'll Learn in this Episode: * The truth about spiritual perfectionism and how it shows up in motherhood and business * How imposter syndrome can sneak in even when you're doing impactful work * A powerful reflection question that will change how you spend your time * What it really means to be present—mind, body, and spirit * The biblical wisdom that finally silenced the inner critic * Why you don’t need to be perfect to be obedient—and how Brittney is walking that out in real time Resources Mentioned: Book: Peace Over Perfection by Faith Chang – Grab it here [https://amzn.to/4q0TSrE] Scriptures: * Psalm 90:12 – “Teach us to number our days that we may gain a heart of wisdom.” * Proverbs 10:22 – “The blessing of the Lord makes rich, and He adds no sorrow to it.” * Ecclesiastes 3:13 – “Everyone should eat and drink and take pleasure in all his toil—this is God's gift to man.” Join the Patreon Community – Deeper convos on faith, business, and obedience: Click here to join [https://www.patreon.com/posts/inspired-by-kirk-139042452?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=postshare_creator&utm_content=join_link] Message Brittney on Instagram – @brittneydhoward [https://www.instagram.com/brittneydhoward/] Key Quote: “If I had one year left to live, I would do this podcast. And I'm not promised a year. I'm not even promised more than today. So this is me numbering my days.” ❤️ Connect With Me: Follow me on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/brittneydhoward/]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/brittneydhoward/] Watch my network marketing trainings on Youtube ⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠ [https://www.youtube.com/@brittneydhoward]⁠⁠ Get my raw, unedited biblical business/leadership wisdom on ⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon ⁠ [https://patreon.com/BrittneyHoward?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink] If this episode blessed you, share it with a friend! And don’t forget to tag me on social media—I love hearing what resonates with y’all. See you next week!

Pillar 3: She was Present

This episode is for every ambitious Christian mom trying to juggle faith, family, and business while staying truly present in the moment. We’re continuing our Proverbs 31 series by diving into the third pillar: Presence. What does it really mean to be present—not just physically, but emotionally, mentally, and spiritually? If you’ve ever felt torn between your responsibilities and wondered how to be fully engaged where it matters most, this one’s for you. Grab your coffee and let’s chat! What You’ll Learn in This Episode: * What true presence means beyond just physical proximity * How the Proverbs 31 woman balanced her home life and business * The difference between presence and passivity * How prioritization and boundaries help you stay present * Why “perfect balance” is a myth—and what to focus on instead * Practical ways to delegate responsibilities without guilt Resources Mentioned: * FREE Age-Appropriate Chore Ideas for Kids download [https://api.leadconnectorhq.com/widget/form/vO8kD97CHeMgOTdHLcWR] * The Complete Chore System [https://brittneyhoward.com/product-details/product/674f6ab0c3efe0050f4cee2c] Key Quote:“To be present means to be intentionally focused on what matters most in each moment. It’s not about where your feet are-it’s about where your focus is.” ❤️ Connect With Me: Follow me on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/brittneydhoward/]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/brittneydhoward/] ⁠⁠Follow me on Facebook ⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.facebook.com/brittney.howard.71] Watch my network marketing trainings on Youtube ⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠ [⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@brittneydhoward⁠] Get my raw, unedited biblical business/leadership wisdom on ⁠⁠⁠Patreon [https://patreon.com/BrittneyHoward?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink] If this episode blessed you, share it with a friend! And don’t forget to tag me on social media—I love hearing what resonates with y’all. See you next week!

How I Chose a Business That Lets Me Be a Present Mom & Make Real Money

Can you really be a present, hands-on mom while also building a profitable business? YES! And in this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on exactly how + why I did it. From a tight financial season as a one-income family to earning six figures from home, I’m sharing my journey of discovering a business model that aligned with my values, my faith, and my desire to be home with my kids. If you've ever felt the tug to be both productive and profitable but didn’t know where to start—this episode is for you! What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ✔️ How the Proverbs 31 woman inspired my journey to becoming both productive and profitable ✔️ The moment I knew I wanted to build a business that fit my family’s lifestyle ✔️ Why network marketing is the smartest business model for busy moms ✔️ The unexpected blessings that came from saying YES to this opportunity ✔️ How YOU can start making money in a way that fits your life and values Resources Mentioned:📌 FREE GUIDE: The Productive Proverbs 31 Mom’s Guide to Making Money Without a Huge Following – Grab it here! [https://api.leadconnectorhq.com/widget/form/WsNkLhDHabNt45tAtn1z]📌 DM me the word PROFIT on Instagram or Facebook if you’re ready to chat about your next steps! Key Quote:"You do not have to choose between being a present mom and making real money. You just need the right path." Connect with Brittney:🔗 Follow me on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/brittneydhoward/] ⁠⁠Follow me on Facebook ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.facebook.com/brittney.howard.71] Watch my network marketing trainings on Youtube ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get my raw, unedited biblical business/leadership wisdom on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon [https://patreon.com/BrittneyHoward?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink] If you loved this episode, do me a favor—share it with a friend who needs this encouragement! And don’t forget to tag me on social media so I can personally thank you. See y’all next week!