Life’s a Blog: Rebuilding After Betrayal
Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2411314/fan_mail/new] May 14th used to feel cursed for me. It is the date that marks what would have been my 32nd wedding anniversary, the betrayal that ended that “forever,” and the strange reality that my ex later died on the same day, at the same time as our first dance. From a trailer, with my life rebuilt piece by piece, I tell the story of what that kind of loss does to your memory, your body, and your sense of self. We get specific about betrayal trauma: how addiction and lies can rewire your nervous system, keep you stuck in fight or flight, and leave you carrying PTSD long after the relationship ends. I talk about the uncomfortable middle, where you can love your children beyond words and still say, clearly, that you would never choose that life again. Healing is not pretty quotes or pretending you are fine. It is rebuilding identity, learning you deserve calm, and refusing to confuse chaos with passion. We also talk about parenting with integrity after divorce and death, including why children deserve the freedom to love both parents without guilt or manipulation. Then the tone shifts to what healing can look like day to day: boundaries that feel final, community that shows up quietly, and the surprising peace of being single. The song “My Church” becomes a mirror for relief, music as honesty, and the moment your nervous system finally goes quiet. If you are trying to recover from infidelity, emotional abuse, addiction in the family, grief, or the long tail of trauma, this conversation is for you. Subscribe, share this with someone who needs it, leave a review, and tell me: what does peace look like in your life right now? Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2411314/support] Just a quick note! I’m not a therapist, counsellor, or mental health professional. I’m simply sharing my personal experiences, reflections, and the things I’ve learned while navigating my own healing journey. Everything discussed on this podcast comes from my perspective and is meant for conversation and storytelling purposes. It should not be taken as professional advice. If you’re struggling or working through something difficult, I always encourage you to seek support from a qualified professional. This podcast is intended for entertainment, reflection, and shared human experience.
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