73: Paris Cluff in the hot seat

94: Arusyak Abrahamyan in the hot seat

In this episode of Listen Bitch Presents: Tell Me Why You’re Special, I sit down with family law attorney Arusyak Abrahamyan to talk about the conversations most couples avoid—money, prenups, and what actually destroys marriages. We get into the reality of financial conflict in relationships, why emotional attachment to money leads to bad decisions, and how a lack of communication can quietly build toward divorce. Arusyak breaks down why prenups aren’t about planning for failure—they’re about protection, clarity, and responsibility. We also talk about how culture, upbringing, and personal identity shape how people view money, and why couples need to get honest about expectations before they build a life together. If you’re in a relationship, building a business, or planning a future with someone… this is the conversation you should probably be having but aren’t. I’m a California family law attorney and litigator with over a decade of courtroom experience in high-conflict and high-asset cases. I’ve represented entrepreneurs, professionals, and financially sophisticated individuals through complex divorces, business valuations, custody battles, and asset disputes. Years in the courtroom changed how I see marriage. I’ve witnessed how financial silence, unclear expectations, and unmanaged conflict can quietly erode even strong relationships. That experience shaped my passion for prenuptial strategy — not from a place of fear, but from a place of clarity, protection, and empowerment. I believe a well-designed prenup is not about planning for divorce. It’s about maturity. It’s about transparency. It’s about protecting love from avoidable financial chaos. On podcasts, I bring: -Real stories from the courtroom (without compromising confidentiality) -Insight into how smart, successful people unintentionally create risk -Strategic guidance for entrepreneurs and high earners entering marriage -A nuanced perspective on women, wealth, and power in relationships -Practical advice on how to have difficult financial conversations with grace Beyond law, I am also the founder of a wellness and longevity brand (Ivy En Rose, Eternia). Building businesses while raising my daughter has deepened my understanding of partnership dynamics, asset protection, and what it means to build something worth protecting. Podcast Topics Why prenups are an act of love, not pessimism Protecting business owners before marriage Financial compatibility and relationship longevity The psychology of divorce litigation Women, ambition, and financial independence in marriage How high-conflict divorces actually unfold Designing agreements that prevent future courtroom battles I speak with warmth, precision, and honesty. I’m comfortable discussing both the legal mechanics and the emotional undercurrents of marriage and divorce — and I aim to leave audiences more informed, empowered, and prepared. https://bayarealawgroup.com/ [https://bayarealawgroup.com/]

93: Bruna Pabon in the hot seat

In this episode of Listen Bitch Presents: Tell Me Why You’re Special, I sit down with Bruna Pabon to talk about faith, healing, and rebuilding your life from the ground up. Bruna shares her journey from childhood abandonment and instability to becoming a successful entrepreneur in real estate and business. We talk about how trauma impacts identity, relationships, and decision-making—and how faith in God can become the foundation for healing and growth. This conversation dives into parenting, grief, self-worth, and what it looks like to stop chasing money and start building a life rooted in purpose. Bruna also shares how she helps others through real estate while staying aligned with her values and faith. If you’re navigating hard seasons, questioning your path, or trying to rebuild something meaningful… this episode will speak to you. Hello my name is Bruna pabon and I am a realtor business owner and speaker based in Myrtle Beach South Carolina I am co-founder of the coast of Phoenix team at innovate where my husband Ricky and I help families first time buyers and out of state clients relocate, invest, and build a life where along the Grand Strand. But what we truly do goes beyond the real estate we help people transition into new chapters of their lives with confidence Clarity in the right strategy. my journey into entrepreneurship wasn't traditional I've overcome significant personal challenges from childhood into adulthood and through faith resilience and a commitment to growth I've been able to rebuild my life and step into purpose today I use my story not just to inspire but to guide others into creating stability ownership in generational wealth. In additional to real estate I'm the owner of Super Cleaners and B LLC a professional cleaning company with over 15 years of experience serving residential and post construction clients we work closely with homeowners Builders and investors to ensure every space is delivered with excellence. My husband Ricky pabone is a sound engineer and the owner of calling of music production where he supports local artists and community events with professional audio, equipment and production. Together we are passionate about serving our community and creating opportunities for others to grow. I am recently I was recently featured on the women Empower series with inside success tv, where I share my food Journey from adversity to entrepreneurship and how faith has been the foundation of everything we've built. At the core of everything we do we believe is not just about buying homes or building businesses it's about creating a life of purpose freedom and legacy. Here is my full episode ⤵️⤵️ Here is my full life story the ups and the certain ruts of downs that leads us down a sinking hole, I pray this encourages you today to start a new tomorrow! You can watch it for free... https://insidesuccess.tv/programs/womeninpowertv_bruna-pabon?utm_source=product&utm_medium=share&utm_campaign=content_share&utm_term=4117274&utm_content=mobile [https://insidesuccess.tv/programs/womeninpowertv_bruna-pabon?utm_source=product&utm_medium=share&utm_campaign=content_share&utm_term=4117274&utm_content=mobile]

92: Debbie Weiss in the hot seat

In this episode of Listen Bitch Presents: Tell Me Why You’re Special, I sit down with Debbie Weiss to talk about what happens when life forces you to take a hard look at yourself. Debbie shares how turning 50 became a turning point—after years of putting others first, facing loss, and watching the impact of regret up close. We get into the reality of shifting out of a victim mindset, taking ownership of your life, and why small, consistent changes matter more than big, unsustainable ones. This conversation also touches on grief, personal responsibility, parenting challenges, and what it looks like to move forward without pretending the hard stuff didn’t happen. If you’ve been feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or like it’s “too late” to change… this episode will hit. I’m Debbie Weiss, a best-selling author and professional speaker who talks openly about midlife change, caregiving, loss, and what it really takes to rebuild your life after years of putting everyone else first. For decades, I lived with a victim mentality. I believed my weight struggles, years of family caregiving, infertility, and later widowhood were reasons life could not be what I hoped for. Turning 50 became a turning point, when I realized that waiting for circumstances to change was keeping me stuck. That shift did not erase my challenges, but it changed how I showed up for my life. That experience became the foundation for my inspirational memoir, On Second Thought… Maybe I Can!, which I later shared on The Kelly Clarkson Show. I also wrote The Sprinkle Effect, a practical guide that helps people move forward through small, intentional shifts rather than big, overwhelming change. Today, I speak on stages and on podcasts about responsibility, resilience, identity, and starting again later than you expected. I’m known for honest, relatable conversations that blend insight, warmth, and real-life perspective. My goal is always to leave audiences feeling seen, less alone, and capable of taking a meaningful next step. If your show values thoughtful conversation, real stories, and guests who bring depth without heaviness, I’d be honored to join you. https://bit.ly/maybeIcanbook [https://bit.ly/maybeIcanbook]

91: Dave Chametzky in the hot seat

In this episode of Listen Bitch Presents: Tell Me Why You’re Special, I sit down with David Chametzky to talk about what it really means to live your message—not just say it. David opens up about his personal journey through mental health struggles, including a suicide attempt that changed everything and pushed him toward honesty, purpose, and helping others. We talk about authenticity, self-talk, discipline, and why so many people hold back from sharing their story. This conversation dives into the power of storytelling, the impact of being real online, and how even reaching one person with your message can change everything. If you’ve been sitting on your story, questioning if it matters… this one will challenge that. David Chametzky, a deep message expert, As a speaker, author, podcast host, and producer, he assists others in overcoming challenges, a true pathfinder has a mission to uplift lives in every way, David empowers individuals day by day. Through his content and teachings, he brings light, Guiding others to overcome obstacles, shining bright. As a Tedx speaker, his voice resonates on stages, Imparting wisdom to inspire change and engage. His books, including Amazon bestsellers, hold insights offering guidance to those seeking new heights. Hosting the internationally acclaimed podcast, "Peace, Love, and Bring a Bat," a treasure vast of spiritual motivational stories, interviews, and heartfelt conversation, Spreading positivity and fostering transformation. David's expertise and dedication inspire, others to conquer and aspire and follow their dreams  With his guidance, barriers can be overcome, Allowing individuals to embrace the path they might not have seen before for themselves and begin to up level and soar in life and business. https://davidchametzky.com/ [https://davidchametzky.com/]

90: Colleen Ofsanik in the hot seat

In this episode of Listen Bitch Presents: Tell Me Why You’re Special, I sit down with Colleen Ofsenic, a business owner and wellness leader who walked away from a high-stress corporate career in banking and government to pursue a completely different path. We talk about what it really costs to change your life—emotionally, mentally, and spiritually—and why so many people stay stuck in environments that are slowly draining them. Colleen shares her journey through abandonment, burnout, and personal transformation, and how those experiences pushed her into doing deeper work on herself. This conversation gets into leadership, ego, and the reality that a lot of people talk about healing but avoid the actual work. We also unpack fear, self-trust, and what it looks like to take responsibility for your growth instead of waiting for things to magically change. If you’ve been feeling stuck, avoiding hard decisions, or trying to grow without facing what’s underneath… this episode will challenge you in the best way. Published Author | CNHP, CST, CYT, RMT | Certified Life Coach (ICF 2010)  Naturopathic Practitioner | Educator | Divine Feminine Community Leader | Professional Mentor & Advisor | Spiritual Teacher  Professional Summary Dynamic and multifaceted professional with over 30 years of experience spanning banking, municipal government, holistic health, and entrepreneurial leadership. Proven expertise in financial oversight, community development, program creation, and operations management, combined with over two decades in integrative health and wellness. Founder of multiple successful ventures and creator of a proprietary quantum healing modality, CranioHeartSync™, integrating multiple therapies with heart-centered coherence practices. Recognized for building community-centered initiatives, leading multidisciplinary teams, and delivering transformative client outcomes. https://www.lovelighthc.com/ [https://www.lovelighthc.com/] https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100063575503504 [https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100063575503504] Career Highlights 30+ years of leadership across banking, government, and holistic health sectors Founder of multiple successful businesses and community-based initiatives Creator of the CranioHeartSync™ healing modality Published Author October, 2024: Divine Feminine Emergence ~ Women Awakening The New Paradigm Through Self-Love https://a.co/d/0j4Hx8KG [https://a.co/d/0j4Hx8KG] Recognized voice in holistic wellness and empowerment Extensive experience in community development, program creation, and operational leadership Proven ability to bridge structured business expertise with transformational healing work Founder & CEO  The Lovelight Connection | 2020 – Present  Founded a transformational wellness and community platform rooted in Divine Feminine leadership and holistic healing Lead brand strategy, business development, and community expansion initiatives Design and facilitate workshops, mentorship programs, and immersive experiences for personal and spiritual development Public Speaking on various subjects geared toward self-love and life transformation Creator of CranioHeartSync™, an integrative modality based in quantum energetic alignment and heart coherence - 2026 https://www.facebook.com/share/r/16WNykRHdr/ [https://www.facebook.com/share/r/16WNykRHdr/] Owner & Director  Lovelight Healing Center, Grayslake, IL | 2014 – 2020 Founded and managed a multidisciplinary wellness center, overseeing daily operations, facility management, and practitioner coordination Directed a team of diverse professionals including licensed therapists, social workers, and holistic practitioners Developed and executed community wellness programs, educational workshops, and revenue-generating events Oversaw business operations including budgeting, marketing strategy, and client experience Established strong partnerships with local businesses and healthcare providers to support community health initiatives