Open Relationships

Reflections from 2025

It's the end of the year, and a natural time for reflection. In this episode, I share five things I've learned about myself these last 12 months. I hope this helps you reflect on your own 2025 and how to make your 2026 fantastic,

Open Relationships

Open relationships are common among gay men, but the rules are often unspoken. Let's change that!

Let's Get Real about Gratitude

It's Thanksgiving, the time of year we focus on our blessings. In the seasons of life, some years that's easier to do than in others. In this episode, John explores the art and science of gratitude as a tool to improve everyday life.

Dating - Conflict

Conflict isn't something to be avoided in a new relationship. In fact, it's inevitable and even healthy. But fighting fair makes all the difference.

Dating - Compatibility

Successful dating is about discernment, not demanding. John covers three simple ways to find out if you and the new guy have what it takes to go the distance without having to swim upstream.