Raising Godly Children WISDOM FROM PROVERBS RESPONSIBILITIES GROWING FAITH THE REWARDS

Raising Godly Children WISDOM FROM PROVERBS RESPONSIBILITIES GROWING FAITH THE REWARDS

"Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it" (Proverbs 22:6, ESV) Parenting is fun, exhausting, rewarding, scary, expensive — and the list could go on. It comes with sweet smiles, rosy cheeks, temper tantrums, warm hugs, smelly diapers, and cute pictures hanging on the refrigerator. As the children grow older, parenting may mean sulky teenagers, half done chores, messy rooms, and requests for the car keys. Parenting also comes loaded with responsibilities. Suddenly you have been entrusted with the welfare and training of a precious life with an eternal soul. You now have the God-ordained responsibility to "bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord" (Ephesians 6:4, ESV). I was blessed to grow up in a home where both parents served God and modeled righteous living. They demonstrated faithfulness, prayerfulness, obedience to the Word of God, and the importance of putting God first. They were not perfect parents, but they were responsible parents who did their best to bring us up to love and serve the Lord. A small plaque hung on the wall that quoted Joshua 24:15. It boldly declared, "As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord." They believed it and they lived it. Parenting can be challenging. Fortunately, the Bible provides us with abundant instructions on how to raise godly children. Some assume that the few hours spent in church each week provides all the training a child needs. Yes, the church is important, very important, but a child first learns about God within the home. That spiritual formation begins in your arms the first time you whisper the name of Jesus to them. You cannot afford to wait until they are older to begin teaching them about God. How do we grow a child's faith? According to Deuteronomy 6:6-7, parents are to teach their children every day, throughout the day. We live the Word before them, and we also tell them of the wonderful works of God. "And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise." (ESV) From the time they wake in the morning until the lights turn off at night, talk to your children about the things of God. Let them see that God is important in your life. Talk about ways the Lord has blessed your family. Share stories of answered prayers. Teach them how to pray and let them hear you pray. Even your smallest actions can have great impact upon your child's spiritual growth. Pray for them and with them each day. Discipline them with love. Spend quality time together. Assure them of God's (and your) unconditional love. Let them know you are always there for them. Talk about the goodness of God often. Be the example they need to see. When we weave God into the fabric of our family's daily life, we are teaching our children some of the greatest lessons they will ever learn. This helps them build a firm foundation for a successful and godly life. We may be training future prayer warriors, Sunday school teachers, youth pastors, or church planters. We are passing truth to the next generation and those to follow. "I have no greater joy than to hear that my children are walking in the truth." (III John 1:4, ESV) PRAYER: Lord, give me the wisdom I need to instill Your truths into the lives of my children. Help me to live in a way that models a life totally committed to serving You. Protect them and guide them all the days of their lives. TO THINK ABOUT: If you are not a parent but are concerned about the spiritual growth of children and youth, what can you do? Are there areas of involvement within your local church that you can support or become actively involved with? Will you commit yourself to daily prayer for the salvation of children and youth?

Success God's Way WISDOM FROM PROVERBS THE STORY OF MOSES FINDING SUCCESS PERSONAL REFLECTION

"Commit your work to the LORD, and your plans will be established." (Proverbs 16:3, ESV) Success can be defined in so many different ways—wealth, fame, power, social prominence. We are told if we work hard, we can become anything we want. The world measures success by our accomplishments, but those things can easily slip away. Lasting success is that which comes from the Lord. Exodus 2 tells us the unusual (but God-ordained) story of Moses, who was born in Egypt to parents from the tribe of Levi. By the time of Moses' birth, the children of Israel had lived in Egypt for over 300 years. Joseph, their ancestor who saved Egypt during a severe famine, was long forgotten. The Israelites no longer held favored status; they were slaves. Pharaoh had even gone so far as to order that midwives were to kill all male babies at birth. Moses' parents concealed his birth as long as possible; and by a miracle, he was brought up in Pharaoh's palace. God was at work. There came a time in Moses' life when he faced a choice. He could enjoy the luxuries and wealth as the son of a princess, or he could leave that life behind to reclaim his Hebrew heritage. One choice would provide a comfortable and successful life. The other choice would lead him on a very different path. Moses chose well. He realized the importance of pursuing spiritual rewards rather than earthly wealth and status. "By faith Moses, when he was grown up, refused to be called the son of Pharaoh's daughter, choosing rather to be mistreated with the people of God than to enjoy the fleeting pleasures of sin. He considered the reproach of Christ greater wealth than the treasures of Egypt, for he was looking to the reward." (Hebrews 11:24-26, ESV) Although the actual word success is only found once in the King James Version of the Bible in Joshua 1:8, the key to true success is found throughout its pages. Here are three key points to finding true success in life. 1. Our first step toward biblical success is to put God first in all we do. Matthew 6:33 tells us to "Seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you" (ESV). 2. True success requires obedience to the Word of God. Proverbs 3:1-2 advises, "My son, do not forget my teaching, but let your heart keep my commandments, for length of days and years of life and peace they will add to you" (ESV). 3. We must acknowledge that it is God who enables us to succeed. "A person cannot receive even one thing unless it is given him from heaven" (John 3:27, ESV). Moses chose the things of God over the riches of this world. We will also face choices as we go through life. Will we choose to measure our success by the world's values or by God's standards? "Riches and honor are with me, enduring wealth and righteousness. My fruit is better than gold, even fine gold, and my yield than choice silver." (Proverbs 8:18-19, ESV) What steps have I taken to make God a priority in my life? Are there any changes I should make in my life to align myself with God's will? Devotion by Mary Loudermilk

Created for Connections WISDOM FROM PROVERBS THREE TYPES OF FRIENDS THE BLESSINGS OF FRIENDSHIP CHOOSE WISELY PERSONAL REFLECTION

"A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity." (Proverbs 17:17, ESV) As I set up an online account recently, part of the process was to choose two security questions. One of the choices was to enter the name of my childhood best friend. My mind went blank. Most of those early friendships were neighborhood playmates or school buddies. As we grew older, friendships faded as interests changed or families moved away. Others left for college or job opportunities. Most of those early friendships only lasted for a season, but they were meaningful at the time. I needed them. A poem by Brian A. "Drew" Chalker opens with the line, "People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime." It's true. Not all friends will be with us for our entire journey through life. Let's think of it as taking a trip by train. Some will board the train with you but get off just a few stops later. While those friends are leaving the train, new faces will be boarding. This process will repeat itself several times along your journey. When the train arrives at its last station, just a few of those early travelers will still be on board with you. These are the forever friends. My friends vary in age, interests, and personality. One friend loves to explore antique stores and eat in a tearoom. Another enjoys birdwatching and educational lectures. A studious friend spends her time reading and digging deeply in the Word of God. One friend groans if I even mention the word museum. Two friends love to garden. Then there's the friend who makes me laugh until my sides hurt. No two friends are alike, but I appreciate each one's unique ways, even the one that dislikes museums. When God made mankind, He created us for community, not to exist alone. I'm thankful He did. I cannot imagine a life lived without friends. They bless us in so many ways. Our lives definitely become richer when shared with others. Here are just a few of those blessings. Friends provide community and connection. Friends build us up and offer encouragement. Friends provide support that helps us navigate the tough times. Friends can lovingly and gently offer counsel and correction. Friends provide accountability. Friends pray for us and with us. Friendships require time, energy, and commitment. But those same friendships also bring laughter, fun, and activity into our lives. Recently, several of us planned a girlfriend getaway. We all live hundreds of miles apart, so we don't see each other as often as we would like. Although we had to juggle schedules and commitments to make it happen, we succeeded. After returning home, someone asked me, "So what did you do?" I think they expected me to list tourist sites we visited and fancy meals we ate. My answer surprised them. I said that we talked, we laughed, and then we talked some more. We celebrated each other, and we encouraged each other. We shared victories and prayed for needs. And then we talked some more. We enjoyed a refreshing time together, both socially and spiritually. It is easy to be influenced by those we associate with. Proverbs 13:20 tells us that, "Whoever walks with the wise becomes wise, but the companion of fools will suffer harm" (ESV). That's why is so important to choose our friends wisely. Proverbs 22:24 warns us to "make no friendship with a man given to anger, nor go with a wrathful man, lest you learn his ways and entangle yourself in a snare" (ESV). Proverbs 16:28 tells us that "a dishonest man spreads strife, and a whisperer separates close friends" (ESV). The wrong kinds of friendships will distract us and pull us away from the things of God. We all long to be loved and cared for by another human. God loves us deeply, but He has also given us friends "that we may be mutually encouraged by each other's faith, both yours and mine" (Romans 1:12, ESV). Friends are a blessing from above. What does Proverbs 27:17 mean when it says, "Iron sharpens iron, and one man sharpens another"? Has a friend e...

Why Diligence Matters WISDOM FROM PROVERBS RECOGNIZING DILIGENCE DISPLAYING DILIGENCE DILIGENCE IN SERVING GOD PERSONAL REFLECTION

"Lazy people want much but get little, but those who work hard will prosper." (Proverbs 13:4, NLT) Wherever we go, we quickly discover that people do not all approach life with the same attitude or level of commitment. In school, there is often a student who does not turn in assignments or contribute to class projects, attending only because it is required. In the workplace, some people do just enough to avoid being fired. On committees, some members work with determination, while others want the recognition without putting in the effort. I've worked with people like this, and you probably have as well. Hopefully, none of us has ever been viewed as a slacker in the group. What does a diligent person look like? They aren't hard to recognize. These are the ones who: Show up on time ready to start. Work steadily and carefully. Pay attention to details. Aren't afraid to get their hands dirty. Persevere even when facing setbacks. Get the job done. Aren't there for the accolades. The diligent person gives every job — big or small — his best effort, using whatever abilities he may possess. He is never slipshod but always strives for excellence. While the sluggard may be talented, if he isn't using those abilities in a steady, careful way, what will he accomplish? James 4:17 admonishes us, "Therefore, to him who knows to do good and does not do it, to him it is sin" (NKJV). The Bible gives us numerous examples of men and women who showed diligence in all they did. There is not time to tell the many stories of determined and faithful men and women, but here are just a few. Noah and his sons worked steadily and persistently decade after decade to build an ark. Noah could have grown discouraged and quit, but he didn't. Genesis 6:22 says that he did all that God commanded him. He was diligent. King Hezekiah is described in II Chronicles 31:21 as doing everything "with all his heart." Then it adds, "So he prospered." He gave his best in whatever he undertook for the Lord. That's diligence! Nehemiah and the people of Jerusalem worked diligently to rebuild the walls of the city while also defending themselves from their enemies. Nehemiah 4:6 tells us that the people "had a mind to work." They accomplish what seemed an almost insurmountable task with diligence. Paul, the apostle, speaks of his "labor and travail" while "laboring night and day" (I Thessalonians 2:9). This determination in the face of hardship shows diligence. Onesiphorus had ministered to Paul in Ephesus and also diligently sought him out in Rome. He was a faithful fellow believer and friend. Paul, himself a diligent man, commended Onesiphorus for not being ashamed of Paul's chains (II Timothy 1:16-18). That same diligence and determination we display in other areas of our lives is also needed in our spiritual walk. Romans 12:11 reminds us to "never be lazy, but work hard and serve the Lord enthusiastically" (NLT). Being diligent in small things is just as important as being diligent in major areas of our lives. In fact, how we handle the small things reveals our true character. "He that is faithful in that which is least is faithful also in much: and he that is unjust in the least is unjust also in much. Therefore if you have not been faithful in the unrighteous mammon, who will commit to your trust the true riches?" (Luke 16:10-11, NKJV). Our goal as a child of God is to hear Him say, "Well done, good and faithful servant" (Matthew 25:23). 1. What qualities do you think God expects in our lives if we are diligent in our walk with Him? 2. What are some of the blessings of diligence? Devotion by Mary Loudermilk

The Words We Speak Wisdom from Proverbs GENTLE WORDS THINK, THEN SPEAK

"A gentle tongue is a tree of life, but perverseness in it breaks the spirit." (Proverbs 15:4, ESV) A familiar children's rhyme declares, "Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me." It sounds good, but unfortunately this little rhyme is not true. Yes, sticks and stones can injure us, but so can words. What we say may not leave visible scars, but our words do have the ability to injure another's spirit. Proverbs 12:18 says words can pierce like a sword. They can cut deep. Perhaps it is because of the power words hold that we find so many verses in the Bible on the importance of how we speak. Acts 18:24-28 briefly tells the story of a man named Apollos. Verse 24 describes him as "an eloquent man and mighty in the scriptures." We first meet Apollos as he was speaking and teaching boldly in the synagogue. Although he was very passionate about what he taught, there were things he did not yet understand. He only knew the baptism of John and apparently did not know about Jesus. Two of those listening as Apollos spoke were Aquila and Priscilla, friends and coworkers of Paul. Realizing that Apollos did not know the full gospel story, they wisely took him aside and "expounded to him the way of God more perfectly." What if Aquila and Priscilla had openly criticized or challenged Apollos instead of quietly and lovingly teaching him about the Lord? Their kind, gentle, and respectful words gained a brother, not an adversary. Because of the wise way they spoke to him and instructed him, Apollos became a valuable coworker in the gospel. He became a powerful witness, especially to the Jews. He now understood and taught "by the scriptures that Jesus was Christ" (verse 28). Proverbs 16:23-24 tells us that "From a wise mind comes wise speech; the words of the wise are persuasive. Kind words are like honey—sweet to the soul and healthy for the body" (NLT). This verse perfectly describes the way Aquila and Priscilla reached out to Apollos. Because of it, they gained a brother and coworker in the Lord. Proverbs 18:21 cautions us that, "Death and life are in the power of the tongue." We may not intend to kill someone with our words, but the careless things we say can kill their spirit, their self-confidence, their ambition, or their hope. Our words have power so we must choose them well. The Lord desires that we speak words that will bring health and wholeness to others. It's so easy for us to speak first and then realize our words were too sharp, critical, or unkind. We may hurt others without intending to cause harm, but the words have already been spoken. They have been heard, and now we are wondering how to fix this. How much wiser and better to first consider the impact they will have. Are they kind? Encouraging? Christ-like? Will they build up or tear down? Inspire or discourage? Compliment or belittle? It has been said that an arrow once shot cannot be returned. I believe it is also true that words once spoken cannot be unheard. That is why we must always consider the impact of our words before we speak. Let this verse be our prayer today: Let the words of my mouth, and the meditation of my heart, be acceptable in thy sight, O LORD, my strength, and my redeemer. (Psalm 19:14) Devotion by Mary Loudermilk