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Is Your Faith Helping You Heal, or Helping You Hide? | EP. 57

17 min · 9. juli 2026
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In this episode, Dr. Veronica and Dr. Serena step outside their usual format to talk about something they see constantly in their offices: patients who take their pain to God, feel a temporary sense of relief, and then watch it resurface again and again. They call this spiritual bypassing, and they dig into where the line is between genuinely leaning on faith and using it to avoid feeling something altogether.   The conversation moves through some real theological disagreement between the two of them, from whether God creates suffering to why phrases like "God won't give you more than you can handle" don't sit right with either of them anymore. Dr. Serena shares her own story with lifelong eczema and how reframing her prayer life changed her healing. Dr. Veronica breaks down the difference between sitting with a hard emotion and sitting in it, and why she believes a strong connection to yourself has to come before a deeper connection to God.   In this episode, they cover: * What spiritual bypassing looks like in the body, and why it keeps showing up as a repeating cycle in patients * The difference between leaning on God for comfort and using faith to avoid processing anything at all * Why "if God brought you to it, He'll bring you through it" doesn't hold up for either host anymore * Dr. Serena's personal experience with eczema, years of prayer, and what actually shifted her healing * The real difference between sitting with something and sitting in it, and why most people avoid the first because they're afraid of the second * How nervous system focused chiropractic care surfaces the questions people have been avoiding for years * Why connection to self may need to come before connection to God, and how that shows up with patients over time * How chiropractic care and therapy can work together instead of one replacing the other   If you've ever used your faith, or anything else, as a way to avoid feeling something instead of working through it, this episode is for you.   Resources Mentioned: * PX Docs Directory [https://pxdocs.com/px-docs/]   Connect with Veronica: * Website [https://havenhealthchiropractic.com/] * Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/havenhealthchiropractic/] * Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/havenhealthchiro/]   Connect with Serena: * Website [https://vesselchiro.com/] * Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/vessel_chiro] * Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/RedeemedLifeBoise/]

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episode Is Your Faith Helping You Heal, or Helping You Hide? | EP. 57 artwork

Is Your Faith Helping You Heal, or Helping You Hide? | EP. 57

In this episode, Dr. Veronica and Dr. Serena step outside their usual format to talk about something they see constantly in their offices: patients who take their pain to God, feel a temporary sense of relief, and then watch it resurface again and again. They call this spiritual bypassing, and they dig into where the line is between genuinely leaning on faith and using it to avoid feeling something altogether.   The conversation moves through some real theological disagreement between the two of them, from whether God creates suffering to why phrases like "God won't give you more than you can handle" don't sit right with either of them anymore. Dr. Serena shares her own story with lifelong eczema and how reframing her prayer life changed her healing. Dr. Veronica breaks down the difference between sitting with a hard emotion and sitting in it, and why she believes a strong connection to yourself has to come before a deeper connection to God.   In this episode, they cover: * What spiritual bypassing looks like in the body, and why it keeps showing up as a repeating cycle in patients * The difference between leaning on God for comfort and using faith to avoid processing anything at all * Why "if God brought you to it, He'll bring you through it" doesn't hold up for either host anymore * Dr. Serena's personal experience with eczema, years of prayer, and what actually shifted her healing * The real difference between sitting with something and sitting in it, and why most people avoid the first because they're afraid of the second * How nervous system focused chiropractic care surfaces the questions people have been avoiding for years * Why connection to self may need to come before connection to God, and how that shows up with patients over time * How chiropractic care and therapy can work together instead of one replacing the other   If you've ever used your faith, or anything else, as a way to avoid feeling something instead of working through it, this episode is for you.   Resources Mentioned: * PX Docs Directory [https://pxdocs.com/px-docs/]   Connect with Veronica: * Website [https://havenhealthchiropractic.com/] * Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/havenhealthchiropractic/] * Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/havenhealthchiro/]   Connect with Serena: * Website [https://vesselchiro.com/] * Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/vessel_chiro] * Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/RedeemedLifeBoise/]

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