How To Save Your Marriage by Lee Baucom | May 27, 2026 089

How To Save Your Marriage by Lee Baucom | May 27, 2026 089

In this episode, we explore practical, action-oriented strategies to repair and strengthen your marriage based on Lee Balcom’s principles. Whether you're feeling disconnected or just want to deepen your connection, these insights can help guide your journey toward emotional safety, better communication, and lasting love. MAIN CONTENT INSIGHTS: * The distinction between simple and easy solutions in relationship work; real change requires effort. * Focus on self-change by improving communication, emotional responses, and trust, which in turn can significantly impact the relationship. * Relationships are dynamic; they either grow or shrink, be proactive in fostering growth. * Shifting mindset from blaming your partner to focusing on your own behaviors fosters accountability. * Small, consistent actions to rebuild trust and emotional safety are more effective than grand gestures. * Avoid blaming or shaming; emotional safety is prioritized over superficial romance. * The importance of recognizing that emotional disconnection occurs gradually and needs gentle, ongoing attention. * Responding positively to bids for attention and connection is crucial; the Gottman Institute emphasizes bids and response rates. * Address issues early before they escalate; waiting until problems become unbearable reduces relationship resilience. * Working on oneself doesn't enable bad behavior but can empower you to make healthier choices including walking away if necessary. * Communication through daily routines, like walks or shared activities, sustains connection over time. * Defensiveness is a primary relationship killer; practicing vulnerability and understanding reduces conflicts. * Love survives without admiration and respect; both are foundational for lasting partnership. * Personal growth and positivity are attractive and can redirect marital trajectories toward renewal. * Relationship maintenance resembles watering a garden, ongoing attention is key to long-term health. To read How To Save Your Marriage: In Three Simple Steps by Lee Baucom, go to: https://a.co/d/0aYeU5Yo Let’s Chat! Have a love story to share or a book recommendation we can’t miss? Maybe you have a "What Would You Do?" dilemma for us to tackle? We’d also love to hear from published authors or fellow relationship podcasters interested in an interview! Head over to www.myperfectromance.com [http://www.myperfectromance.com] to connect. Coming Up: * Heated Rivarlry: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lKO26odltss * Call Me By Your Name by Andre Aciman: https://www.goodreads.com/en/book/show/36336078-call-me-by-your-name [https://www.goodreads.com/en/book/show/36336078-call-me-by-your-name] * Interview with Lindsey Goldstein Author of Gap Year: https://www.goodreads.com/author/show/57052023.Lindsey_Goldstein

WWYD? #16 | May 20,2026 088

Val, Courtney, and Lisa unpack a real-life scenario about the complexities of financial boundaries, social pressures, and relationship expectations among young partners. They provide insights into recognizing red flags, managing guilt, and prioritizing self-care in tricky relationship dynamics. MAIN TOPICS: * The impact of financial control and guilt-tripping in relationships * Recognizing signs of unhealthy relationship behaviors * The importance of self-awareness and boundaries in dating * The role social media and peer pressure play in relationship decisions * Practical advice for managing relationship conflicts and social obligations Let’s Chat! Have a love story to share or a book recommendation we can’t miss? Maybe you have a "What Would You Do?" dilemma for us to tackle? We’d also love to hear from published authors or fellow relationship podcasters interested in an interview! Head over to www.myperfectromance.com [http://www.myperfectromance.com] to connect.  But while you're here… don’t forget to follow the show and leave a rating or review. It means the world to us! Coming up: * How To Save Your Marriage by Lee Baucom: https://www.goodreads.com/author/list/5822685.Lee_H_Baucom * Heated Rivalry: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lKO26odltss * Call Me By Your Name by Andre Aciman: https://www.goodreads.com/en/book/show/36336078-call-me-by-your-name

The Fall Guy starring Emily Blunt & Ryan Gosling | May 13, 2026 087

Val, Courtney, and Lisa explore the profound lessons about trust, vulnerability, and resilience, in a lively discussion inspired by the movie "The Fall Guy" and real-life relationship insights. Whether you're here for the humor, the heart, or the life lessons, this episode offers valuable takeaways on healing, growth, and love. IN THIS EPISODE: * The significance of acknowledging hurt and making space for repair * The metaphor of building and remodeling a house to understand trust repair * The physical risks and meticulous planning involved in stunt work * The emotional journey of characters recovering from trauma and loss * The power of vulnerability, curiosity, and intentionality in healing Fall Guy Official Trailor (In case you haven't seen it yet) - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j7jPnwVGdZ8 Let’s Chat! Have a love story to share or a book recommendation we can’t miss? Maybe you have a "What Would You Do?" dilemma for us to tackle? We’d also love to hear from published authors or fellow relationship podcasters interested in an interview! Head over to www.myperfectromance.com [http://www.myperfectromance.com] to connect.  But while you're here… don’t forget to follow the show and leave a rating or review. It means the world to us! Coming up: * How to Save Your Marriage by Lee Baucom - https://www.goodreads.com/author/list/5822685.Lee_H_Baucom * Heated Rivalry starring - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lKO26odltss [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lKO26odltss] * Call Me By Your Name by Andre Aciman - https://www.goodreads.com/en/book/show/36336078-call-me-by-your-name

Lyrics & Love Letters with Jessica Everly & Brandon | May 06, 2026 086

Explore the delightful love story of Jessica Everly and her husband Brandon as they share behind-the-scenes insights into their relationship, her writing journey, and her newest novel, Lyrics and Love Letters. Discover how love, timing, and growth intertwine to craft a story both on and off the page. IN THIS EPISODE: * Jessica Everly's journey from speech pathologist to romance novelist * Romantic beginnings: matching on Match.com and their unexpected first date * How their relationship evolved from a cute meet-cute to marriage and parenthood * The significance of timing and personal growth in love stories * Behind-the-scenes on Lyrics and Love Letters and character development * The influence of real-life relationships on romantic fiction * How Jessica and Brandon support each other's passions and weaknesses * Using music, books, and shared experiences to strengthen their bond * Future projects: new books in the works and character spin-offs Let’s Chat! Have a love story to share or a book recommendation we can’t miss? Maybe you have a "What Would You Do?" dilemma for us to tackle? We’d also love to hear from published authors or fellow relationship podcasters interested in an interview! Head over to www.myperfectromance.com [http://www.myperfectromance.com] to connect.  But while you're here… don’t forget to follow the show and leave a rating or review. It means the world to us! RESOURCES & LINKS: * Jessica Everly - Author Website [https://jessicaeverleibooks.com/] * Lyrics and Love Letters on Amazon [https://www.amazon.com/s?k=Lyrics+and+Love+Letters+Jessica+Everly] * Roses in Rome on Amazon [https://www.amazon.com/s?k=Roses+in+Rome+Jessica+Everly] * JessicaEverlyWrites on Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/jessicaeverlywrites] * JessicaEverlyBooks on TikTok [https://www.tiktok.com/@jessicaeverlybooks] Coming Up: * The Fall Guy starring Ryan Gosling & Emily Blunt: https://share.google/Bzti6LRizZEmHvMJj * How To Save Your Marriage by Lee Baucom: https://share.google/YWGBpFjQeGQYPL6v4 * Heated Rivalry starring Connor Storrie & Hudson Williams: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lKO26odltss

Yours Truly by Abby Jimenez | Apr 29, 2026 085

In this episode we discuss Abby Jimenez' novel "Yours Truly." Join us as we uncover an emotionally compelling romance that intricately weaves mental health, medical challenges, and heartfelt connection. This episode explores the depth of human resilience and the power of genuine love amidst life's chaos. Key Topics: * Anxiety, PTSD, and autoimmune struggles * Insights into how characters' internal challenges mirror real-life mental health issues * The significance of thoughtful communication and emotional honesty for lasting relationships * The role of self-care and rituals in managing anxiety and stress, including journaling, exercise, and routines * The obstacles and breakthroughs in overcoming trust, past betrayal, and emotional walls If you'd like to share your love story, suggest a movie or book to review, ask us what would you do?, or if you've written a published book and would like to do an interview, please reach out to us! You can go to our website at: www.myperfectromance.com [https://myperfectromance.com/] Upcoming Books/Movies: * The Fall Guy starring Ryan Gosling & Emily Blunt: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j7jPnwVGdZ8 * Lyrics & Love Letters with Author Jessica Everly and her husband Brandon: https://www.jessicaeverlybooks.com/ * Save The Marriage by Lee Baucom: https://www.goodreads.com/en/book/show/13615110-save-the-marriage Resources & Links: * https://www.authorabbyjimenez.com/ [https://www.authorabbyjimenez.com/] * Spotify Song "Let the Past Be the Past" [https://spotify.com/]https://instagram.com/abbyvenes