From Roommates to Soulmates - Why Curiosity Beats Conflict | S1 E30

From Roommates to Soulmates - Why Curiosity Beats Conflict | S1 E30

Welcome to Episode 30 of Open Bedroom Doors—where we mix real relationship talk with humor, honesty, and just enough edge to keep things interesting. Also, we just found out our episode is the 2026 AASECT.org Podcast Award Winner! This show is recognized by the National Association for Sex Educators, Counselors and Therapists! We are so grateful for this award! This one? It’s playful, practical, and a little bit dangerous (in the best way). 👇 Here’s what you’ll get in this episode: 🔪 Segment 1: Sex Positions (Kitchen Edition) “Sex in the kitchen with a knife”… yeah, we went there. But don’t worry—we’re not here to send you to the ER 😅 We’re talking about: - How to navigate intimacy with a jittery or reactive partner - Better ways to flirt and build tension safely - How to read the room (and your partner!) so things stay fun—not freaky Think: playful connection, not accidental injury. 🎤 Segment 2: Keeping Love Strong with Monica Tanner Featuring relationship expert Monica Tanner  (check her out 👉 https://MonicaTanner.com) This conversation is packed with gold: - How to cultivate curiosity instead of getting stuck in conflict - Ways to build respect and understanding in your relationship  - How to keep the spark alive long-term (without forcing it) If you’ve ever felt stuck in the same argument loop—this is your reset. 🛏️ Segment 3: Happy Endings (In a Real Bed!) Filmed in an actual bed (thanks to Mattress Dogzzz 🙌 👉 https://mattressdogzzz.com) I answer the question: 👉 What is the best sex position… in an actual bed? Simple question, surprisingly layered answer. ✨ About the Show: Open Bedroom Doors is all about helping couples go from roommates… to soulmates—by making sex and relationship conversations normal, honest, and even a little fun.   ========================================================= Welcome to @OpenBedroomDoors – Where We Talk About What Really Happens Behind Closed Doors 🔥 Hosted by Angela Skurtu, Licensed Marriage Therapist & Certified Sex Therapist, this channel is your go-to for real, unfiltered conversations about sex, love, relationships, and everything in between. From the "Open Bedroom Doors Show" - Real Talk for Real Relationships, to interviews and expert playlists, we dive deep into sexual wellness, relationship tips, intimacy struggles, and the spicy (and sometimes awkward) stuff no one else wants to talk about—but everyone needs to hear. Whether you’re here to level up your love life, learn something new, or just hear a sex therapist say things your grandma would blush at—you’re in the right place. 💬 Let’s open some doors. 💋 #iopenbedroomdoors Join me at www.OpenBedroomDoors.com to subscribe to my email list, work with me as a client, or find out about my books, products, and services.

The Danger of Devotion: Finding Yourself in Love, Sex, and Success S1 E29

What happens when devotion goes too far… and how does that impact your relationships, your identity, and even your sex life? In this episode of Open Bedroom Doors, we’re bringing you real talk for real relationships—with depth, humor, and just the right amount of spice. 👇 Here’s what’s inside this episode: 💋 Segment 1: Sex Positions (Body Positivity Edition) We take the conversation from sex positivity to body positivity—what it really means, why it matters, and how to actually live it out. Plus, we highlight some very cool St. Louis experiences where you can explore body acceptance in real, embodied ways. 🎤 Segment 2: The Dangers of Devotion (Interview with Marsha Martin) Marsha Martin joins us for a powerful conversation on devotion, leadership, and identity. We unpack: How over-devotion to an organization can lead to choices you’re not proud of The fine line between commitment and losing yourself What healthy leadership actually looks like …and yes, we also talk about sex—because even leaders need help behind closed doors 😉 (You’ll love the part where her leadership clients end up asking for relationship advice!) Find Marcia Martin at https://marciamartin.com/ 🛏️ Segment 3: Happy Endings (Live from Dinner with a Sex Therapist) Filmed in an actual bed (thanks to Mattress Dogzzz 🙌), I answer a spicy question from a live audience: 👉 Should you have sex when you’re mad at your partner? You’ll get a clear, practical, and surprisingly nuanced answer. Welcome to @OpenBedroomDoors – Where We Talk About What Really Happens Behind Closed Doors 🔥 Hosted by Angela Skurtu, Licensed Marriage Therapist & Certified Sex Therapist, this channel is your go-to for real, unfiltered conversations about sex, love, relationships, and everything in between. From the "Open Bedroom Doors Show" - Real Talk for Real Relationships, to interviews and expert playlists, we dive deep into sexual wellness, relationship tips, intimacy struggles, and the spicy (and sometimes awkward) stuff no one else wants to talk about—but everyone needs to hear. Whether you’re here to level up your love life, learn something new, or just hear a sex therapist say things your grandma would blush at—you’re in the right place. 💬 Let’s open some doors. 💋 #iopenbedroomdoors Join me at www.OpenBedroomDoors.com to subscribe to my email list, work with me as a client, or find out about my books, products, and services.

Naked & Thriving! Inside the Nude Lifestyle - S1 E28

What’s it really like to live a nude lifestyle as a couple? 👀 In this episode of Open Bedroom Doors, we’re baring it all—literally and emotionally. Segment 1: Sex Positions (St. Louis Edition) I kick things off by sharing some sex-positive places and events in St. Louis where you can explore connection, play, and community in a safe, respectful way. If you’ve been curious where to start… this is your inside scoop. Segment 2: Interview – Eddie & Addie We sit down with Eddie and Addie to talk about their real-life experience living a nude lifestyle. From communication to confidence to connection—they share what works, what surprises people, and how this lifestyle has impacted their relationship. Segment 3: Happy Endings 💋 Filmed in an actual bed during my Dinner with a Sex Therapist event, I answer this listener question: 👉 “What are ways to initiate sex without pressuring my partner?” If you’ve ever struggled with mismatched desire or awkward initiation—this one’s for you. 🔥 Join Me LIVE Want to experience this kind of connection in real life? Check out my upcoming Dinner with a Sex Therapist events at: 👉 www.openbedroomdoors.com ⏳ Season 1 is wrapping up! Only 3 episodes left before we take a short break and come back even stronger for Season 2—so make sure you’re subscribed and don’t miss what’s next. 💬 Let’s talk: Would you ever try a nude lifestyle? Why or why not? 👍 Like, Subscribe & Share to help us normalize conversations about sex and relationships. Because here, we’re all about turning best friends into lovers—one laugh at a time. =========================================================== Welcome to @OpenBedroomDoors – Where We Talk About What Really Happens Behind Closed Doors 🔥 Hosted by Angela Skurtu, Licensed Marriage Therapist & Certified Sex Therapist, this channel is your go-to for real, unfiltered conversations about sex, love, relationships, and everything in between. From the "Open Bedroom Doors Show" - Real Talk for Real Relationships, to interviews and expert playlists, we dive deep into sexual wellness, relationship tips, intimacy struggles, and the spicy (and sometimes awkward) stuff no one else wants to talk about—but everyone needs to hear. Whether you’re here to level up your love life, learn something new, or just hear a sex therapist say things your grandma would blush at—you’re in the right place. 💬 Let’s open some doors. 💋 #iopenbedroomdoors Join me at www.OpenBedroomDoors.com to subscribe to my email list, work with me as a client, or find out about my books, products, and services.

Bridging the Desire Gap Without Breaking the Bond - S1 E27

Welcome back to the Open Bedroom Doors Show—real talk for real relationships! 🚪💋 In this episode, we’re diving into desire differences and how couples can reconnect when one partner wants it more than the other. 🔥 Sex Positions Segment We kick things off with a little St. Louis sex history! Learn about the groundbreaking work of William Masters and Virginia Johnson—right here in St. Louis. You can explore more at the Washington University in St. Louis Library or check out their legacy on the St. Louis Walk of Fame. 🎤 Interview Segment I sit down with the amazing Monica Tanner to talk about relationships, connection, and navigating desire differences. Check out her work here: https://www.monicatanner.com/ She also hosts a podcast and has a book packed with practical tools to strengthen your relationship! 🛏️ Happy Endings Segment (Live from a Bed!) Filmed during my Dinner with a Sex Therapist event on February 14th, 2026, I answer a live audience question: 👉 What’s the difference between spontaneous and responsive desire? If you’ve ever felt “out of sync” with your partner, this part is for you. 💫 Want to join the experience live? Join me for the next Dinner with a Sex Therapist on February 13, 2027! Get details here: www.openbedroomdoors.com 💥 Whether you’re the high-desire partner, the low-desire partner, or somewhere in between—this episode will help you normalize the conversation and find your rhythm again. 👉 Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share with someone who needs a little help getting out of the friend zone and into the sexy zone 😉 #OpenBedroomDoors #RelationshipAdvice #SexTherapy #DesireDifferences #couplesconnection  =========================================================== Welcome to @OpenBedroomDoors – Where We Talk About What Really Happens Behind Closed Doors 🔥 Hosted by Angela Skurtu, Licensed Marriage Therapist & Certified Sex Therapist, this channel is your go-to for real, unfiltered conversations about sex, love, relationships, and everything in between. From the "Open Bedroom Doors Show" - Real Talk for Real Relationships, to interviews and expert playlists, we dive deep into sexual wellness, relationship tips, intimacy struggles, and the spicy (and sometimes awkward) stuff no one else wants to talk about—but everyone needs to hear. Whether you’re here to level up your love life, learn something new, or just hear a sex therapist say things your grandma would blush at—you’re in the right place. 💬 Let’s open some doors. 💋 #iopenbedroomdoors Join me at www.OpenBedroomDoors.com to subscribe to my email list, work with me as a client, or find out about my books, products, and services.

Sex, Power & Cults? How Organizations Can Create Trauma - S1 EP 26

What do a St. Louis brothel madam, the human potential movement, and tired parents with no libido have in common? More than you might think. In this episode of Open Bedroom Doors, we explore how power, sex, and organizations intersect — sometimes in fascinating ways and sometimes in ways that cause real harm. Here’s what’s inside this episode: 🔥 Sex Positions: St. Louis Sex History We dive into a fascinating story from local history about Priscilla Henry, a powerful brothel madam who built a thriving business in post–Civil War St. Louis. Her story reveals how sexuality, entrepreneurship, and social power intertwined in ways that still shape conversations about sex today. 📚 Interview Segment I sit down with Marcia Martin, author of 'Sex, Power and Transformation.' Her book explores the human potential movement and how powerful transformational organizations can sometimes drift into abuse, manipulation, and trauma within their ranks. 💛 Happy Ending Let’s talk about a common reality for couples: kids and libido. Parenting can absolutely drain sexual energy — but the good news is that it doesn’t have to stay that way. I share practical ways couples can reconnect and rebuild intimacy. This episode blends sex history, psychology, relationships, and culture to help normalize honest conversations about sex and power. 👇 Tell us in the comments: Have you ever experienced an organization that felt empowering at first but later became controlling? 🎥 Watch Open Bedroom Doors New episodes drop weekly exploring relationships, sexuality, and the real conversations couples need to have. #OpenBedroomDoors #SexEducation #RelationshipAdvice #HumanPotentialMovement #SexHistory #StLouisHistory #CouplesTherapy #Intimacy   ========================================================== Welcome to @OpenBedroomDoors – Where We Talk About What Really Happens Behind Closed Doors 🔥 Hosted by Angela Skurtu, Licensed Marriage Therapist & Certified Sex Therapist, this channel is your go-to for real, unfiltered conversations about sex, love, relationships, and everything in between. From the "Open Bedroom Doors Show" - Real Talk for Real Relationships, to interviews and expert playlists, we dive deep into sexual wellness, relationship tips, intimacy struggles, and the spicy (and sometimes awkward) stuff no one else wants to talk about—but everyone needs to hear. Whether you’re here to level up your love life, learn something new, or just hear a sex therapist say things your grandma would blush at—you’re in the right place. 💬 Let’s open some doors. 💋 #iopenbedroomdoors My Books: From F*ck No to F*ck Yes Sex Helping Couples Overcome Infidelity: A Therapist's Manual Pre-Marital Counseling: A Guide for Clinicians You can find and purchase all my books here: https://openbedroomdoors.com/books/ To sign up for my newsletter, or to work with me one on one,  visit https://openbedroomdoors.com/contact/ and submit a contact form.  You can support me directly by subscribing to my Patreon account which shows behind the scenes footage of my "Open Bedroom Doors Show"-Real Talk for Real Relationships. https://www.patreon.com/c/OpenBedroomDoors You can also follow me on the follow social sites: Follow Me on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OpenBedroomDoors Join my private Facebook group, I Open Bedroom Doors: https://www.facebook.com/groups/iopenbedroomdoors Connect with me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/angela-skurtu-01008822/ Follow me on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@openbedroomdoors Follow me on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/openbedroomdoors Would you like to attend my next Couples Retreat? It is October 24-26th, 2025 at Camden on the Lake Resort. You can find out more information and sign up here.  https://openbedroomdoors.com/services/couples-retreat/ Open Bedroom Doors Show has partnered with Mattress Dogzzz. Use Promo Code SEXYTIME at one of their stores or online the next time you wish to purchase a bed and receive your next bed TAX FREE! You also support the show every time you buy a bed.  Please reach out to me at info@openbedroomdoors.com if you would like to become a sponsor or an affiliate for the show!