Call me baby but don't tell me what to do: exploring dualism and kink

The Roast of Christmas: Why Grinch is an anti-consumerist icon

🎄 Unwrapping the Origins of Christmas 🎄 Did you know Christmas is a repackaged pagan holiday? We’re peeling back the shiny wrapping paper to reveal how consumerist cultures hijacked it. 📦✨ But that’s not all — we’re diving into the irony of Christmas as a “public holiday” in countries that claim to separate church and state. Hypocrisy, much? 😏 With a little help from the Grinch (our honorary anti-consumerism king 👑), we’re roasting the excess and reflecting on what this so-called “spiritual” season really means beneath the capitalist clutter. 🎁🔥 💻 Website: aylayuile.com 📸 Instagram & TikTok: @aylayuile Tune in for a cozy, witchy critique of Christmas past, present, and future. 🕯️✨

Making friends with demons: The devil archetype and its shadow we dance in

In this episode, we dive deep into the world of devils, demons, and the dark forces that appear across cultures and throughout history. 🌍 From the fierce 鬼 (oni) and mischievous tengu of Japan 🗾, to the devilish figures lurking in Christian, and Greek mythology, we explore their common archetypes and how they influence our behaviours. We’ll take a reflective look at how demons might show up in our lives today—whether through our actions, avoidance, or the people we meet. 😈 Finally, we ask the question: Can you make friends with the devil without losing your soul? 😇💀

My Roman Empire Is... Part 2

This is the second and final part of my series on the Roman Empire – this time focusing on how the Roman Empire effected our relationships with spirituality in modern day.

My Roman Empire is... Part 1

My Roman Empire is…. Debunking its glory. The enduring impact of the Roman Empire on Western culture spans numerous facets, encompassing government, law, language, architecture, engineering, and even religious aspects, often intertwined with capitalism and patriarchy. Embark on a journey with Ayla as she delves into the profound implications of this 'legacy' for contemporary society, particularly for feminine individuals. In this initial instalment of a two-part exploration, she will unravel the historical factors that precipitated the profound cultural and spiritual transformations embodied by the Roman Empire, which continue to resonate through the realms of TV, film, and marketing.

Call me baby but don't tell me what to do: exploring dualism and kink

Pop culture's tendency to taboo and misrepresent kink creates cognitive dissonance, obstructing the understanding of these connections. Drawing inspiration from her own experiences, your host, Ayla, delves into the intricate connections between dualism and kink – two seemingly disparate concepts. Exploring the dynamics of her own relationships, and highlighting the notion of "baby steps" in embracing my sense of kink. She also explore what it is like embodying a duality that contrasts her desire for control in everyday life VS her preference for losing control in intimate settings. As we venture deeper, she will explore the intricate relationship between dualism and kink. Dualism, the belief in the coexistence of two aspects, resonates with the intricate nature of BDSM practices, where mind and body intertwine. We also bring focus to the influence of "50 Shades of Grey," a series that ignited both interest and damage within the kink community. Despite the challenges posed by mainstream narratives, Ayla highlights the role of education, exploration, and open communication in fostering a more enlightened perspective on kink and its relationship to the complexities of dualism.