Here’s To My Dirty 30s!!!!

Building and Growing With Each Other

As human beings, we want people in our life who will be with us through every event that happens in our life. What we don’t realise is that, just as much as we want those people present in our lives, the people around us also expect us to be present in their lives; going through every moment with them in the best way we can. This building and growing with one another requires a lot of grace, patience, forgiveness and accommodation. People have to be willing to be held accountable and be committed to this process of give and take.

Consideration

This episode looks at how we should learn to be thoughtful and caring manner we show for the next person’s needs, emotions and/or circumstances. It touches on how it is important ti think of the next person and how certain things impact them; what appreciation or reciprocation might look like to them.

Celebrating Myself

Today’s episode looks at how I have had to hold space for every good thing that has happened to me. For the longest time, I thought that I had to be perform extraordinary things to feel like I deserved good things happening to and for me. It took away a part of who I am because I felt inadequate and the way other people’s wins looked bigger than mine. I had to learn how to hold space for my wins and accommodate them. Celebrating myself has been a big challenge but it has helped me love myself and my journey. I hope you can celebrate yourself and appreciate how far you’ve come and grown as a person.

Here’s To My Dirty 30s!!!!

This is a little pep talk from me to me. This is me saying goodbye to my 20s and looking for every good thing my 30s have to offer. It’s embracing the fact that moments have broken me but they’ve also made me rise up. It’s looking at moments and seeing how they’ve taught me to live the parts of me I deemed as unlovable. NB: My voice sounds the way it is because I was crying.

Giving

This episode looks at giving (yourself) in every relationship dynamic you encounter. I referenced myself and experiences heavily in this because as someone who thinks of themselves as a giver, I thought it was important to note that I was giving to everyone except myself. This created a great imbalance within myself which may or may not have contributed to how I was showing up for others.